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The perfect kiss

August 26 2009

I love mouth kissing. However  I dont like spit filled sloppy kisses or when I cant get their tongue or when they kiss with some strange repetitious action. If your kissing wasnt doing it for her would you get offended if she tried to teach you how she would like to be kissed. Same when your doing the job. Do you like it when the girl instructs you on what she wants you to do to her or would you rather she just shut up.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sometimes I like to be bossed around for a change. :)  Oh.. and I don't like starfish.   As for kisses... well, I've noticed that lots of gay guys can't kiss. Hopeless. All that tongue jambing down my throat and I'm like wtf are you doing idiot, save it for my sphincter. Yeah, bad kissers need to be told.   Seriously. Kissing is like dancing... it should flow with the mood of the music as long as it's not Judas Priest. :p   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    If the guy doesn't kiss good, it just doesn't happen for me. No matter how good he looks or how awesome his personality is. It's so damn important. I mean, I can still have sex with him, but whether I actually orgasm from the sex, extremely unlikely, or it's a massive struggle.   Unfortunately most guys I've met only pay lip service to the art of kissing. Kiss for a minute or so then dive straight down to the pussy.   My pet hate is when they introduce the tongue right at the start, and they use it like it's a mini penis, all hard and stabbing into my mouth. ARGH!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Oh Gaz, loving the visuals ....you never fail to make me laugh & smile.   Nothing gets me hornier than a good kisser!  All that nervous anticipation and electricity charging through my body....REOW!  My first kiss with my hubby was a little....ummm...."too enthusiastic" on his part and it left me thinking WTF, but I'm certainly glad I gave him another go.  I never actually told him that he was a bad kisser, I more 'trained' him into kissing me that way I wanted by pulling back for a second if he was doing something I didn't like.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing to get the home fire started   Kissing does it every time as long as it's done with some sort of expression behind it. Lustful wanting, in anticipation of what’s to follow, gentle, sensual & loving, playful, hungry for your body. You can express so much in a kiss but done badly it can take all the steam out of sex.   Bad breath, hard poky tongues that dart about in your mouth like a pin ball player trying to make a strike.   If we don't say anything they think they are doing fine but wonder why you loss interest in the play & never meet again.   We understand people have different comforts levels & restrictions on kissing when swinging but why not say so before a play so as not to feel obligated to do something you can't or aren't allowed by our partner to do.   Closed mouth kisses are for your family not someone you’re sharing your body with.   Sensual kisses to all.   Shell Mike

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    mmm.....i love kissing.....absolutely LOVE it!! I agree with Casava....he has to be a good kisser for me to really get off.How do I like it?? Licking my lips in anticipation....not getting them too wet....but just slightly moist.As our lips get closer....I breathe in...then let it out as a groan as our lips meet,gently at first....my hands rubbing up your arms and chest...then heads tilt....mouths slightly open....tongues tentatively touch...and the kiss deepens.Our arms wrap around each other as we pull ourselves closerhands rubbing skin....mouths devouring...soft lips...gentle tongues...wet but not dripping.....and the occasional moan and groan......mmmmmmmm.Then we pull back...lips puffy and swollen with passion...I watch your mouth....and bend to devour you again.Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    MissBJ :   How do I like it?? You had me at: Licking my lips in anticipation....   Just the way you give it from what I just read, WOW!!   It sounds like you are a natural born lover, who know's how to please and be pleasured...     Have a good one. Shell xx

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Yes i think kissing is realy important for arousal and passion.   The lovers lips should meet gently after some exploring and touching , I like to hold my partners neck gently or run my fingers through their hair, some light tongue occasionally a light touch on their teeth is nice,   The intencity of the kiss increasing slightly with passion of the interlude, and i usually stop kissing the lips...to kiss the kneck or ears breasts and nipples, and go back to the lips again....Sometimes i will start the whole thing by kissing my lover all over their body, feet lugs toes, bum, everywhere !........Kissing is extremley important me....   No I wouldn't instruct my lover to kiss, i would just try and coax them, by stoping if there was any wierd tongue thing hapening,or gently wiping our mouths if it got to wet.but im persistant, i'l keep trieng to make it work......

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hmm....thanks honey! Where's Berwick?? lol!I don't think I'm any kind of lover...but I do believe my mouth is a God-given gift that just has to be shared!!I love all things oral!  And by that, I mean....giving!Kissing...biting...sucking cock...eating pussy...rimming....mmm....LOVE IT ALL!!!I also think the fact that I love it so much also makes it more enjoyable for the person receiving.Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i love kissing,soft gentle kisses,not really into tongue action or sloopy ones.a little biting is good though.if mrs pip wants to get me in the mood all she has to do is kiss me.I love to run my fingers thru her hair and gently nibble on her neck and ear lobes too.i'm getting horny just thinking about it. as for a girl instructing me when kissing or on the job,absolutely yes and no i wouldn't be offended at all.its there body and they know what feels good.so girls you have to say what you like and how you like it because we dont have a pussy and we aint mind readers.i dont think too many blokes would be offended if you girls said" i like it this way".dont tell them they're doing a shit job though,be subtle. mr pip

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    its called an oral fixation miss bj i have one too ....xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You should'nt need instructions on how to kiss it is about passion & desire If u are passionate & you desire the 1 your with it just comes naturally Now if the Lady wants her oral delivered in a certain fashion there should be no harm in doing exactly what she wants is there !!!! The hole object is to please your Lady because if she is happy with your preformance im sure that she will give as good as she has just been givin. Same goes with the SEX or depends on both your moods Making Love ??? Personally i could'nt  enjoy myself unless my lover is enjoying herself        It's just pointless  You might as well wank off Otherwise it will be a Waste of time and effort for u both.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ..First with our eyes, Then our hands, Then our lips.. Surrender.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ...Jilted74 beat me to it!!!!First there is the longing and the intent - the eyes have it,Then there is the desire as your hands lightly touch each others,if the passion is high cheeks may be embraced.Then the soft warmth of lips touching, lingering,The eyes meet again and the lips might intensifyThe eyes close and you're off on a journey.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hey Puppy you're on my wave length! Wanna smooch? :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Kissing is like drinking salted water You drink, and your thirst increases.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    mmm.....kissing is such a delighful task to undertake....provided.....Your partner doesnt go at you like they are eating an apple and trying to break the speed record...your partner isnt trying to lick your back teeth with their tongue...your partner has GOOD ORAL HYGIENE!! (CANNOT emphasise this one enough!!)...your partner drools enough to wet down your whole face (ick!)If you start the kissing off soft and slow....you can then work out the others' technique...and adapt your own so that the experience is the best it can be for both of you!Just my opinion....BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I totally agree u can learn alot from that person by the way they kiss!if there kissing style is not passionate...sloppy or dont kiss enought then they not rlly in2 u...or they just dont knwo how to kiss!! im a big fan of kissing especially passionaltely

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I have recently met a new girl .... and I cant wait to kiss her!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I can orgasm from kissing it takes a special man to do that to me and i am lucky to have found it!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Some one told me once there is no such thing as a bad kisser. A compatible kisser definitely and I am inclined to agree. I have been told by a couple of women that I am a good kisser. One of them said it is because I don not kiss like a girl. Would have to ask Andy what I guess like, he has never said I kiss like a man so that is a relief :PI was kissed by a woman once, her mouth opened so wide it covered half my face and her pointy tongue darted around furiously. When Andy I were driving home I said to him "How about that kissing?" We looked at each other mouths wide open.../I am always curious to know if he agrees on the kissing ability of the person we play with, and generally we have found the playmate will kiss us both in the same way.Sometimes  in the throws of passion a good strong kiss from the get go is amazing, but I like to start of slow and build up from there. An orgasm from kissing? Wow that is a neat trick!!! I can orgasm from having only my breasts payed with, and I thought that was clever :)x Sal

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I tend to be quite reserved at first when kissing. Very gentle, close kisses.  I like to tease her until she's pretty much saying FUCKING KISS ME with her mouth (but not actually SAYING it - altho sometimes that is very hot too!)   I pull back when she tries to go deep and then push forward to give her what she wants.    I'm verrrry conscious of too much saliva.  That's just gross.  Pull back a bit, take a breath and swallow your spit!  LOL!   One of my ex's was a really forceful kisser.  I didn't like it, but a few girls she kissed seemed to like it.  Kinda gave me a complex that I should be kissing harder.  But then I kissed other girls with my technique and they seemed to like it :D