The oh dear factor

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  That tosser messaged me today...I can only presume it wasnt a coincidence...as you may have mentioned my profile name to him or it may have been...   I made a few comments about how he treated you this week and his supposed fling with Elle McPherson...   Needless to say...he hasnt message me back...me wonders why !!!???     It always such a shame when the sms, emailing it sooooooooooo hot and the meet soooooooooooo cold....who can explain that chemistry myth......cudos to anyone who can bottle it...   Ive had only a few bad experiences...Ive been lucky or perhaps too fussy in my screening....I do still believe that most guys are pretty terrific.....but trust me if theres a asshole out there..I will find him !!!...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Just when you think you have heard it all something else comes along to up the ante. I'm sure there is a lesson in there somewhere....just screaming to get out....Felonius....somewhat amused

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Sooner or later .. I had something similar .. from a rival site ..he had fancied me for 2 years .. finally took out a paid membership .. contact .. chat .. emails ... text .. got on so well .. and so so interested .. \we arranged to meet for dinner and pics .. but he cancelled .. saying he had a throat infection .. booked again .. and cancelled .. cause his mum was sick .. booked again .. then cancelled saying son had an accident .. booked again .. and I said no thanks it was a beautiful start .. but ended so bad .. .. then the nasty calls and text started .. calling ME a player and a whore leading him on .. my dreams were shattered .. his pics were stunning .. his initial chats and calls were a dream come true .. and then he turned .. strange thing is .. he still checks my profile some 12 months later ..

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  It seems to me that there is a lot of people are very comfortable writing and teasing from the comfort and safety of heir homes, but there is not a lot of actual meets ?????Am I wrong???? Quite new Here Paris

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  You know.. Im am both surprised and not surprised by that Tuscanred.You DID state what your intentions were, a good and harmless one. It seems clear the guy who responded, is an idiot of all sorts. I mean Elle McPherson? yeah.. right.. i dated Kate Winslet, Emma Watson, Emily Blunt, etc etc.. in my dreams at night.. i can only assuming that his wet dream failed to be creative.. lolWhat I will say, may not be much, but im sure you find a few good subjects for your creative art. Keep at it..

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  For me its more meetings than online stuff as I do not do msn or phone text or phone sex so its high how are ya and then its meeting. Just to busy, though I do tend to dribble on in the forums I just find that there are a few classic guys that are not what they say they are, every time you say ok lets me Well the cat dies They get some tropical bug The car breaks down Or they are moving or or or but they never ever meet you. Its not hard to pick up the drift one or two contacts and you get to work it out. When your new its harder to pick the phoney but word spreads and they soon have to change nicknames and re invent themselves again. I feel for them really, as lets face it, what a life to not be able to meet and fuck your brainsout. There are a ton of reasons a person cant meet,.They may lust for lust but just cant take that step into it. I think some are married men that love the idea that a woman would want them, same feelings but just online arousal and flirts. Some are probably men pretending to be women, and good on em If I could give them a cyber period to get the real feel of being a woman I would, plus cut their pay packet in half. Guys who only get hard and done by cyber sex, cant get off the keyboard because they keep blowing their load. Some guys are just shy as shit, have not had many or any women and terrified to get between the thighs and who can blame them, we can be utter bitches and cut your nuts off at times. But then we an make itworth it as well. I do not care its just when they get nasty its a pain but then all I have to do is ignore em, I do not block anyone I don’t care that much.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  And data re the number of guys -and girls- who have arranged AND met someone from RHP. I do believe there is a large number of ppl who are closet "voyeurs" who will not meet people.. They are happy to get the thrills from checking out profiles and sending/receiving a wink here and there.. They might contact members, exchange emails, texts, msn, but NOT meet.. If only they could b honest.. td&h

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  There are guys and girls that have a fantasy about meeting someone but since they know the reality wont match up with their fantasy they bring it to a shuddering halt before they are discovered. These people are usually getting off with one hand and typing with the other. I have dubbed them the "One Handed Typist Group" or OHTG for short. These sad individuals seem to make up a good percentage of the men and women who are happy to message, chat or sms but never present themselves in person. I know some people are shy and need a bit of interaction to feel comfortable enough to meet but they don't get nasty in the end. The OHTG do it so they can justify leading you on in the first place. It's just another part of their silly game. Ignore these screwballs and move on.For that reason I don't do chat and I don't bother with endless messaging.

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