M47
The lonely white line......
March 09 2013
Comments
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Get the help you need to heal. Come back to us here when you feel ready. Hope the lady concerned reads this and understands.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
When people are hurting, they strike out at those they care about. Some special people will know and/or understand this. Most importantly, don't be too hard on yourself. I'm not anyone's punching bag but I can understand the way people are feeling sometimes. Look after yourself, you matter. Peachy xXx
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Remember this too will pass and every problem is solveable Do what you need to do... and if your lady is worth anything and knows/practices the art of forgiveness then she will be there waiting and will understand without issue
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Good people forgive. You will be ok. Hope you get the right help, and we will see you back soon. xx
-
RHP User
13 years ago
in following your journey with your eyes and heart wide open. You'll be surprised at how understanding some people can be. Remember that we are all on our journeys too.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
journey well,journey safe,and don't forget to write.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
is the key to growing as a person TB :) Be kind to yourself, however painful it might be x
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'paintme'in following your journey with your eyes and heart wide open. You'll be surprised at how understanding some people can be. Remember that we are all on our journeys too.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
i couldn't have said it better myself, and as paint me pointed out, we are all on our meandering journeys and all i would add is from my experience visiting RHP i can happily agree that member's here across the site DO care and should all be thanked humbly for sharing themselves. walk tall thunder and as insignificant as i feel sometimes, im walking right beside you as we learn, and may i add "well done" on being honest with yourself enough to admit said shortcomings, because that's the beginning to positive change, good luck and may your beard grow ever thick, CHEERZ BIG EARZ !!!!!!! INKEE xxxxxx
-
RHP User
13 years ago
I could never imagine you doing anything so terrible that you should be ashamed of yourself?You always seem to make so much sense when I've talked to you. You need to be your own best friend right now and not resort to beating yourself up over things that were only 50% your doing. Keep your chin up okay?
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Fcuk me,what a gutsy and honest and manly piece of writing i just read.You can be proud of yourself for having da courage and conviction for speaking out in da way you have mate.May your road to recovery be speedy and successful,i'm sure with da right help you will achieve your goal and come out da other side a new man,i wish you nothing but the very very best and hope to see you back here one day so you have the chance to show us what a real man is and how you have become that man.Good luck and god speed brave soul,will be thinking of ya each time i jump into da sand pit,please feel free to message me at ANY time if you need an ear to listen to whatever it is that you may want to talk about,from a very blown away jamie.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Most important thing is to get yourself sorted so you can be happy in yourself again. Yes people fuck up but you have recognised that and decided things need to change instead of fucking up again and again.Look forward to seeing you again some time soon on the forums.Cheers,W
-
RHP User
13 years ago
We are our own worst critic. Remember that. And try not to colour your future relationships with what ever has happened in the past. Not everyone is perfect but I know you have some friends who have a heart of gold. Listen to them! Good luck and I am sure we will see you back again. xx
-
RHP User
13 years ago
what was it so wrong...from how ive read people kinks and whats ecceptiable and whats not now. i didnt think it possible to hurt someone..well not anyone youve met off here.now before you going having go at me..i did wrong 7 years ago and hurt some one close.i have never been forgiven and im not welcome back in my home town or to be in the life of my son..some people dont forgive or forget.i sort help and it wasnt enough in her eyes.the harm was more then everyone could deal and i was told to leave....so i did,, here i am and i have to live with my regrets everyday
-
RHP User
13 years ago
We all need professional support from time to time, just like we all act like a dick and hurt people from time to time...the fact that you have the awareness is huge and that you want to do the hard yards to shift the underlying "shit" is admirable to say the least.We will be ok,, but let me know when you're driving through so I can kick you in the shins.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
TB,Looks to me like you are doing a most manly thing! Firstly mate, by taking responsibility for the consequences your actions - without excuse.Secondly, by expressing your shame and through it seeking help to be a 'better man'.Know this though, what is done is done! Your path is forward, whatever the challenge. Do what you must to be able to forgive yourself. That you can earn - in time.The forgiveness of others is their release, their way forward. It is a start to their healing. Pray that they can forgive, for their sake. Things will never be the same - if your quest is answered and the circle closes - you will return a better man (hopefully the man in RUDYARD KIPLING'S - IF)Good hunting mate.
-
RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'zx10knight' what was it so wrong ... To him it was; his call is all that matters! No excuses, again his call, also means no explanation of his story ... I didn't think it possible to hurt someone ... Seriously??I sort help and it wasn't enough in her eyes ... I could out of line here but, in seeking did you find the help you needed?The harm was more then everyone could deal and i was told to leave ... so i did,, here i am and i have to live with my regrets everyday ... Yep, you do. Accept it & move on
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 15123 Comments: 88163
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1417 Comments: 10229
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2521 Comments: 11677
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2506 Comments: 9759
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 1009 Comments: 5267
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1303 Comments: 5776
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 782 Comments: 1988
-
LGBT
Topics: 170 Comments: 867
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share