M44

The legitimately underwhelming state of the scene in Sydney

December 16 2019

As the title says. If it's not grown men getting propositioned by women online extolling their incredible skills in all aspects of everything then blubbering bullshit excuses why that can't make that time then trying to re set a time that works for them!!!!! You can't make this shit up! or trying to flip it by asking a couple to come see them then usually just ghosting altogether....these are grown, fucking adult men behaving like sniffling, scared little babies. It's at epidemic proportions now as is the jaded internet trawler saying a hello intro then asking a girl I'd they'd like to suck there hard cock and eat their cum or other similarly crude statements...by the time an actual fuckin man decides to msg the same profile the reaction often is not pretty. It's defensive, complete lack of belief you are who you say you are, strong suspicion youre just after hit & quits right up to being asked if you're going to rape or murder them if they agree to meet you. These morons have made it that much harder and alot more tedious than it needs to be. This site & your tinders and AMMs POFs etc are all broken...the model isn't working anymore because too many fuckwits have exploited there anonymity to do basically whatever they like without repercussions....that's just one terminal problem of a host of bad online behaviour reaching such epidemic like proportions that it's changing the way everyone behaves, reacts and ultimately uses these apps & sites. Just different versions of Craigslist more or less!...ENJOY!😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

We have found RHP great for meeting like minded people. We haven’t had any of the issues you describe in the last twelve months! We get really open and honest communication with most couples here. Maybe only message verified profiles perhaps.

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nightingale8

6 years ago

Lol All the fish are swimming in the water

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RHP User

6 years ago

You can reply here That’s why it’s called a forum No need to message and hit us up

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RHP User

6 years ago

Ok...so you find it underwhelming.... Now what? My guess is you’ll continue using the site as it is all whilst those who you are bitter about continue to do the same.... Mr dragon ....

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RHP User

6 years ago

Quoting 'sweetnsensual' You can reply here That’s why it’s called a forum No need to message and hit us up Sadly, this was almost expected. It happens way too often here in the forums. Someone gets on here to whinge, turns out they're part of the problem.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Sends a message saying let’s hook up this afternoon When I decline politely blocks us lol Too sad honestly

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FeistyFatty

6 years ago

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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RHP User

6 years ago

Sweet and sensual... So I take it you found him to be as easy going as he says he is in his profile?? 😂😂 Mr dragon

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RHP User

6 years ago

My man....Bro you got something of my chest. Fkn Stylin.

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Tara72

6 years ago

Even though the OP seems to be part of the problem himself, most women who have ever visited a bar or nightclub unpartnered would tell you that this problem did not begin with the advent of online dating. If anything, the OP only proves that men are slowly becoming aware of what women have always experienced in the dating scene, regardless of format.

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Libertine001

6 years ago

Sounds like someone blaming the tools not the user!!!😂😂

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RHP User

6 years ago

And can I add to the list 1. Couples profile where the chick suddenly isn’t able to join... Fallen asleep, gone to Coles, not answering phone... the lost of real examples s goes on... you’re a dude, not a couple, or are using your partners identity to get NOTHING!! 2. One half of couple not telling their unassuming clearly better half that a chick is coming over... I now ask to speak to both first. I have met awesome people thru RHP here and in Sydney... some just great sex, some have become friends (with bonus of benefits in occasion - winning!!) And use the idiots who hide behind smile screens as entertainment... they’re certainly not getting what they hoped for... 🤣 Note - I never discuss via name and share... scenarios only - and I can’t remember names anywsy!! And the singles or groups that reschedule - if clearly new to rhp maybe two hits and bye bye it’s a step into unchartered territory and somewhat intimidating.... Maybe encourage and seduce a little more There is thrill in the chase n occasion 😈

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RHP User

6 years ago

So basically you are the problem you are complaining about?? Lol And why is it that “grown men” can’t handle rejection or a polite no Thankyou?? Then block the person coz their ego can’t deal hahaha. I’ve actually had some of my best conversations that started with a no thanks. The fact people are shocked , to easily understanding and mutual respect for taking the time to say no thanks is the big WTF here lol Totally gone off topic sorry everyone 😂😂😂😂

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RHP User

6 years ago

I wonder what people think the benefit is, of posting such a bitter outlook and representation of “everyone else” being at fault.... in a public forum?! 🤔 Do you think it elevates you above the mob you’re so critical of? Makes you seem more appealing, somehow? With so much negative energy invested in drafting such a lengthy topic, I can’t help but wonder who the real-you actually is..... and if it’s as unflattering as the topic you’ve written paints you out to be Logic would obviously dictate that if you’re as genuine and sincere and worthwhile as you’d have us all believe....... you’d be living life a little better than to waste time whinging to such an extend in a public forum. Perspective can be an interesting thing You may want to gain a little of it 2.2c

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RHP User

6 years ago

It made my head hurt 🙄

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RHP User

6 years ago

And if the OP had of been female the response would have been a resounding HEAR HEAR ! But no, men who speak their minds are shamed and shunned.

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AnnieWhichway

6 years ago

Quoting 'usebi' And if the OP had of been female the response would have been a resounding HEAR HEAR ! But no, men who speak their minds are shamed and shunned. Put your goggles on. A clear example of selfish behaviour by the OP.All the other males are twats but I'm the good guy....ffsI'm surprised, but not really, that you are defending him

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RHP User

6 years ago

Being mischievous is not okay ?

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RHP User

6 years ago

I’m not particularly defending him, just an observation of the double standard. Which I really should be used to by now. I’ll be quiet now, might ruin my chances with the ladies. (As if) Time for my Geratol.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Seems OP is having a bad day in the land of RHP. I think we all have them, with all the bad behaviours of anyone you have come across. Every now and again and I mean maybe every year or so this site repays you with meeting someone great. But u have to take a chance and meet in person. Its not complicated be yourself and have a bit of respect.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Well that was a difficult post to understand. Even more difficult to understand is why the first couple thought it appropriate to share publicly contents of a private message. Perhaps to disparage the OP thus garnering support for their posting? Also difficult to understand is why another poster thought starting a gender tit-for-tat might be a good idea. Oh well, forums comments are never dull I suppose.

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