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MissBishere

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The friend zone - with a twist

August 31 2014

This is probably more for the bisexual amongst us (or the straight that sometimes engage in same sex fun) I am interested to know if you friend zone people of the same sex on rhp? I don't think that's very clear so let me explain... I was asked recently to participate in a threesome an FFM (bi), now I have never done this, it's on my fuckit list but haven't gotten there yet, so I express a potential interest but obviously would need to meet both prior to see if there is any attraction. The response I received was, you have all those females on your friend list just bring one of them. Now that made me go, ummm no...... they are friends. Don't get me wrong I think each one is sexy and sassy and loads of fun but I have friend zoned them! I just can't see myself getting intimate with them I actually think it would be awkward. This surprised me as I had always thought it would make sense if she was a friend and then I would surely be comfortable. I am intrigued by this friend zone phenomenon, I hadn't really thought about it in this light before. Your comments, opinions and points of view would be appreciated. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't want to have sex with my friends, male or female. I could have had sex with them first then friend zoned them, but not the other way around.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    RHP friends are different. Yes I would go to clubs with them and parties. Doesn't mean we will have any specific sexual contact.. But if she yelled out Meeka come over here and help me suck this cock. Of course I would help a friend out. What is a little cock sucking between friends hey? But I have been at clubs and felt a bit awkward when a few friends are watching me do.... Stuff. That can be a bit weird, depending on the friends of course.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    oops I should have added that locking lips when there is a cock between them is perfectly acceptable

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  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    I really don't care for th sexual orientation of my friends. they are my friends for a reason, we share an affinity for something. In my profile I was very specific in wanting to meet unattached men so them being straight or bi is not an issue. I have not met all in my friends list but I have some contact with them before via email, msg or phone chat except for two. but I like their forum posts so accepted their friends invites. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    11 years ago

    I would prefer to bonk friends because you already have a connection...an emotional connection so why not have a physical one as well... of course not all friends but some. if they are good friends and you trust them with your feelings then a sexual relationship should work really well. If it ruins the friendship then i don't believe it was a genuine friendship. This would work really well in a Fmm where the guys are bi situation or Ffm Having sex with a stranger like a pick up is a lot harder..to have good sex it usually takes me a few enciounters with the same person before things click nicely ..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    MissB is asking about your female friends. Would you have a threesome or have group sex with women you are friends with.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yep I have had thresomes wirh both female and male friends. Have even played with some of my friends from RHP! ;-) Would I do it again...with right friends for sure. It was great fun mostly because we were already nice and relaxed in each others company.

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  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    As per my post, above " In my profile I was very specific in wanting to meet unattached men". So no, will not sleep with women, friends or no friends.

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    How I read it...MissB means female friends who are "Friend Zoned" on her friends list..(meaning non sexual female friends) for her she feels awkward. The man questioned her about women on her list and "assumed" she is sexual with the females on her list. He clearly pushed Ms B's personal boundaries. This isn't about going to clubs or anything like that or being intimate sexually with same sex friends. It's about MsB being questioned about her female friends who she has friend zoned on her list. Have men questioned you about your female friends who are non sexual, wanting to fulfil their kink or self need?? Foxy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes Foxxy, I know. I still go to clubs and have indulged in group sex situations with women in my friend zone. My point is that a lot people from RHP are different and if you are focusing on others I don't see the problem.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have offered to take vanilla girlfriends to Hellfire and swingers club before. Haven't tbeen able to convince any of them yet. Lol. Swingers club I get and it certainly isn't for everyone even if it's just to have a peak to see what it's all about .. But Hellfire is a fetish night club only. I don't get what the big deal is. At all. :-/

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  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    I actually consider myself vanilla but with an open mind. In my recent work trip to Sydney in July, I did meet up with a gorgeous sexy young man and after he took me to drinks and dinner, we got talking and he offered to take me to the Couple's Club in Surrey Hill after we chatted about Swinger's Club and that I have not been to one before. So despite my initial hesitation, I was curious enough to accept and figure out myself whether the experience is for me or not. I sort of had a hint of what was to come (hah) and would go with someone I am interested in. For me, it is a sexy intelligent gentleman and not a woman. Glad it was him as he was really gentle in easing me into the club as I was first very nervous. But he was a good patient teacher and very protective. Totally enjoyed the first time (ahhh, the swing) thanks to him.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Friends are friends for a reason. There's more to my friends than just sex Females I meet here are here for friendship and sex, so I see that differently. Cera Cera..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It all depends also how the friends on your friends on your friends list came to be there. I have friends on my list whom are just that... Just friends..... that I may chat to or see at the drinks nights ... there has never been any sort of sex between us and that's just how it has always been . Then I have friends on there that I have had play fun with right from the start , going to group parties and playing with at the club etc but we also socialize a lot just like normal friends do , that's just how it started so has always been comfortable - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    if I weren't so selfish. No sharing! Hands off! He's all mine! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    is the guy wants to have a threesome with you, then wants you to do all the organising! The lazy bastard! Tell him to organise the third party his damn self!

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  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'tulips4u' if I weren't so selfish. No sharing! Hands off! He's all mine! - Posted from rhpmobile Talking about would you sleep with your female friends.... Lol. Keep up with us, will ya and stop obsessing with your man friend.... Geez...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    All of my friends on here are people who I've met and like in real life. It doesn't mean that I have, or want to play with them. This goes for the men and women I have added. I think it was a bit narrow minded or naive for him to assume that you play with all of your friends on your list.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The twist :) Will you be naked while you twist?? Will you twist to the left or right?? :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sorry :( My head was still in the clouds when I posted after a naughty mid-morning romp LOL - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sounds like you ladies are just not team players.

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  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Sounds like you ladies are just not team players. I do still have the MFM fantasy. So that makes me batting for the team still. Just maybe a different mix. Right?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Sounds like you ladies are just not team players. just not gonna share him with my girlfriend(s) But girl on girl, now that is a different story

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like watching my lover with other women, even if they are RHP women friends. Sometimes I watch, sometimes I assist. It's hot, especially when he comes over and gives you a big smooch afterwards.

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  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    11 years ago

    Reading these posts, I've realised I have different friends for different things. I don't know why I insist on keeping everything so compartmentalised. I think it would really depend on the circumstances and how it developed. Of course if you are playing regularly then a friendship will develop but because of the way it started it would be a comfortable friendship/play partner situation. Similarly if a friendship was started socially first and them the thought of playing together was introduced this is a different dynamic. And I think a group at a club is a different dynamic again and anything is possible in that situation. I am interested to know if men have the same thoughts In a MMF or MFM situation do they have certain male friends they won't get naked with? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    I wonder why no one has answered your question.. "In a MMF or MFM situation do they have certain male friends they won't get naked with?" Foxy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' oops I should have added that locking lips when there is a cock between them is perfectly acceptable I have friends that I share guys, we sometimes kiss and share cock. Some are not bi at all. I also have friends from here that are just friends, but we would be able to perhaps fuck guys in the same room or what ever without judgments. the thing about RHP women is that you can be yourself, and you can also be open with all kinds of discussion but this does not mean your sexually into each other. nor does it mean you can assume they will be ok with you dragging ten guys back to the hotel room that you are both sharing. guys often look at friends list like its a shopping list for the at times. So there is a wide range of friends definitions on this site , I have made a lot of friends here especially women and no i have no desire to sleep with them. but have with a few

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