The first date...

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  wannabyummymummy

  15 years ago

  As a woman that is part of a couple where we both play alone as well as together here is my point of view.Single girls who actually show up are like hen's teeth!! married women who play alone are usually a more reliable bet (though this is of course a generalization there are exceptions)for a woman to meet up with a couple on her own can be intimidating so if you look at married ladies and agree to meet as a couple with her partner (being honest and upfront of course that you are not interested in playing with him) may make it easier. Drinks is a better option to dinner because if things aren't going well it is easier to call it a night and move on, of course if the drinks go well you could move onto dinner and then fun Patience is the main key here, it takes time to find the right lady, and you may need to spend some time chatting online and on the phone for a while to make it happen but watch out for the endless chatters and pic swappers on here if there is constant chit chat but she wont show her face, MOVE ON!!, if she wont chat on the phone or only wants to see pics of the two of you with nothing in return, NEXT!! don't be so desperate to find a lady that you let yourselves get lead down the garden path, genuine ladies are out there and they usually become apparent very quickly.At the end of the day, be yourselves and be patient and ask the lady you are chatting with what she will find comfortable and try and work with that and when you find the right one you will have a blast!!Best of luck, hope this helps,xx

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