The fear of SINGLE MALES?!!!😱😱😱

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  SweetSerenade

  4 days ago

  Unfortunately the majority of window shopper and fake profiles are single males. And the ones that do message predominantly lead with one word like "hey" and nothing else, or make little to no effort on their profile. They give a bad name for all single males, and that sucks but it is what it is. We're open to single males, but it's much easier just to head out to the valley and pick up a vanilla guy for the wife to play with, than the rigmarole of lining something up through the app.

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  PandaAndBri

  4 days ago

  From our point of view, we will seek a single make if we want one but having said that, I get enough messages in the chat as it is. I am not an anal girl and am quite small downstairs so I don’t know whether I could accommodate DP. I thinks it just that the overwhelming amount of messages that could be flowing, leads profiles to list that. We do play singularly but I am selective so I don’t want every Fred, Dick & Harry messaging me. I think that’s more the issue, not the homophobia.

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  SolidPresence

  4 days ago

  I thought it would be obvious that if someone says on their profile they are after women or couples, then men should not message them. When men that either can't read, or think they are so amazing that the couple just won't be able to help themselves, send messages anyway, it is akin to not taking any notice of or completely disregarding the other person (or couples desires or wants), and if that happened a lot, then the couple would rightly be pissed off. On top of that, some couples get a shit load of messages from single guys, even though their profile says they are not interested and those messages now fill their inbox. I think it would have less to do with homophobia and more to do with being allergic to people that are so selfish that they don't factor in the other persons wants and message anyway. I'm only a single guy, but I would assume a little bit of empathy would get most people to this conclusion... but maybe I am completely wrong.

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  WildestDream

  4 days ago

  Unfortunately lot of single guys have made a bad name for the whole category, so even the good ones are paying the price of this kind of behaviours Than in some other cases some hubbies cannot accept to have their feelings harmed from seeing their woman having pleasure with another man. In this case we are not speaking about swingers, but just a couple looking for unicorn for growing the male ego

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  Sescalinata

  4 days ago

  Having chatted with a few women in couples at events, it seems that a few of them are only going along with the swinger thing because the husband is desperate for an MFF. Single men for her are off the table. One husband apparently flew into a rage at a party because a good looking young guy was chatting to his wife and threw the guys car keys into the pool. These are just my observations and of course, it is not the case in the main, but could account for the "NO SINGLE MEN" statements in some profiles. Ive previously had a couples profile on RHP but we were looking for bi men.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 days ago

  It's because of two reasons. 1. Couples choice. 2. Thirsty men and their expectations. See it all the time! Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 days ago

  I think OP you have skiped over one important thing: CONSENT. Let's get this straight, a couples preference isn’t fear. Being happy with your partner with one person doesn’t automatically equal wanting more people involved. Couples don’t owe single men anything, just because they enjoyed one dynamic. but expecting other couples to say yes to what you want, is entitlement. That's exactly why a lot of couples say , NO SINGLE MALES Ms Foxy

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  nutsundae

  3 days ago

  For many couples, isn't it a bit like a NO JUNK MAIL sticker on the letterbox? Lots of couples are very open to play with single males, but don't include men in their preferences, and state clearly in their profile they are not interested, purely in an attempt to keep their inbox manageable and their sanity intact. Of course, many others genuinely have no interest whatsoever in Single Males. Which is completely their prerogative. Remember, not all couples are interested in unicorns, either. They generally don't need to plaster in on their profile though, because I don't imagine too many couple profiles are getting smashed every day with a conga line of women asking if they can fuck Mrs. High-five I guess to any that do....

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  Everest

  3 days ago

  I’d say the bulk of the couples I’ve played with have “no single males” on their profile for the exact reason nutsundae pointed out

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