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The ex

February 22 2010

I have just come home after having dinner with the ex. All very amicable and discussion on property etc. We discussed life as single ppl and what we missed / liked. we discussed which of the couples we played with previously that he still sees. I dont play with any so I remained coy. I admitted to having a few regular visitors and left it at that. He asked what website...I reluctantly told him. He is thinking of coming on board....so i said I was organising a get together for drinks. He said he wouldnt intrude as I wouldnt want him there. Hes right ! On the way home I get a text...thanks for coming and discussing blah blah blah............................................ PS YOU STILL HAVE GREAT TITS !! NOW ..........for some reason I feel violated !!!!! trying not to be one to hold onto anger.......I STILL FEEL VIOLATED Am I being too sensitive ??????? Miss b stamping down her foot !!

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RHP User

16 years ago

After divorce no matter how ammicable we all put up a shield,wall, barrier calll it it what you like against the ex. This does not mean we hate them (some do) or don't talk to them just means we don't really want to do anything with them in our day to day lives. By making that comment he has poked his finger into your wall against him. It is not so much what was said but who said it. If it was said by someone from rhp that you didn't like you probably would have said "dickhead" and thought nothing more about it. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it and i am sure there are plenty more who appresiate you for the person that you are not just your tits.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Yes you are being too sensitive. He was just trying to say that he still finds you attractive.. not a pick up line... no pretensions about getting back together... just driving home and thought "she looks great, I should have told her so." ... hehe I mean BP... how are we to know? I think you should just take it as a harmless compliment from a dude feeling awkward about not complimenting you earlier... and let it ride. Hugs Stalky

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hey Miss B can i ask who broke it off ? And was there any spark at dinner or has it gone past it now? I ask this because sometimes we still feel a spark with an ex..and the thought of maybe one for the old times !

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RHP User

16 years ago

Hi Miss BP I've seen your ample bossom (clothed...he he) and I'm sure many men would go weak at the knees admiring it. It wouldn't surprise me that the ex wouldn't mind a quick fuck or two and seeing your breasts probably reminded him of the time you were together. Men throw out bait to see if we will bite....if I was you I'd simply reply, "thanks for the compliment" and leave it at that. I wouldn't get offended and wouldn't say anything back that may be more suggestive. As for him coming to the drinks night ???? OMG... that would be interesting. Shall we invite all our ex's ??? We could then shoot them all at once! Hugs, Saturn

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RHP User

16 years ago

I broke up with my ex,in 2007,met a nice man,dated him for 3 months,and it didnt work pout and we broke up.I was very upset and got extreamly drunk one night,and my ex husband took advantage of the situation,and we had sex.I felt very violated,and still do when i think about it. I think the comment was a pick up line and hes trying to get back with you. Is he always that blunt,or is it something new???lol

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RHP User

16 years ago

it was a pick up line,hes trying to get u back Is he always that blunt,or is it something new????lol

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RHP User

16 years ago

Thanks for your support ..........I let it slide and thought.........................dickhead LOL Tiapan I broke if off.................. hes lucky i didnt go back and break IT off last night lol There is NO SPARK whatsoever left for me toward him.......cold hearted bitch that i am.................. Stalky you big softie....what happened to ...."next "................................................................. OOOPppps Miss Saturn I think i have spilt my champagne................lol told you we'd turn you !!! lol Was he always that blunt ???? sorta kinda maybe ....but i still think out of line He has always persisted in giving me a kiss hello and goodbye and still calls me pet names...which used to infuriate me till a male friend pointed out that its probably a good thing as it indicates hes in a good headspace......hmmmm.............I actually think hes trying to swindle me out of property LOL suspicious Miss b

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RHP User

16 years ago

i am in need of someone to pick up all the shit my horse leaves around the place...if ya like...i'll even stomp his balls for ya...and yeah...sounds like a smokescreen to me...let me at him!!!...theSHERIFF

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RHP User

16 years ago

you are a cold hearted bitch..............

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RHP User

16 years ago

would hope my ex would read this thread.i still getting screwed, socially, financially.life goes on and the kids are the main priority for me.wish some of these fellas she bring home would put their hand in their pocket though,ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl

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