M67
The coffee date
March 25 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Firstly i want to know what happened on your date ?? And yes i make the effort so i think it is only right that the person i am meeting does the same..first impressions and all !! Then undress her with my eyes !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
In this case Id drink the coffee and then fuck of fast, if someone is that unkempt on a first date/coffee they are not going to improve. If clothes cant be clean, whats the dick/ vag going to be like? You're goingt get it naked soon? and throw it in the shower and scrub it? Get a new toilet brush for an internal cleanse? lol ewwwwwwNo need to dress up for coffee but clean is good, bit of Drakkar never goes astray either lolim a virgo clean freak and clean is good !!!!!!Dev
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Ringleader
16 years ago
She might spill her coffee? Or she's looking for action? Maybe thats her DRY-HUMPING outfit.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Mooka, The whole coffee date thing is so unnerving, however, its not so much about the effort one takes to present themselves nicely, as that is a given, for me at least. It's the high expectations that gets under my skin. Whilst I'd love to be built like Elle Mcfeast and possess the face of Jennifer Hawkins as Im sure most blokes would give their left testicle to be a Brad Pitt or some other sex icon, it aint gunna happen so do the best you can with what you've got! During my time on RHP, I've learnt people will tell you anything they think you want to hear in order to coerce you into meeting them. (No shit sherlock!..lol) And yet, despite being a reasonably intelligent and experienced practitioner, I still manage to find the bloke who says one thing and expects another when we get together. Not just as in sex, but in all departments. And no, none of them were anywhere near the likes of Brad Pitt! Stalky's meet and greet nights are now my preferred method of meeting anyone from RHP as I want to enjoy and get the most of out my online experience. Less pressure out of the spotlight me thinks! I look forward to reading others views and ideas on the subject xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
well i have to say the fella's on here are amazing me atm....first you all have feelings and stuff, now your complaining we dont put in enough effort hahaha...xx ok me personally im a casual girl so the less effort i have to put in the better...but i will make sure my nails are done, my make up is right, my hair is looking pretty and all my clothes are in the right way (dont laugh i did leave the house one night with my top on inside out...thankfully i realised just before i got there hehehe) so if he wants to turn up in jeans and a shirt, im happy with that...as long as he looks like he has shit, showered and shaved....im a happy girl roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm not big on ironing. If it can't be worn without ironing it just doesn't belong in my wardrobe... except weddings and funerals .. et al. I think the circumstances dictate the level of expectation. If someone says we've got an hour let's meet for coffee in 15 mins and I know full well were both 25mins from the venue, then windswept motorcyle helmet hair and bugs stuck to a leather jacket is all you can expect of me. On the other hand if the notice is adequate and the venue and time appropriate, I'll pull out my best Charlie Sheen style shirt, shorts and loafers. :p hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mrs S - Damn right I deserve better lolTrish - we have already discussed what you would wear, just have to wait until the weather warms up huh heheRoxy - To me if it is good enough for us guys to put the effort in, so should it be for the gals, after all we are all trying to make that all important first impression aren't we?Lips - perfectly said m'lady. The coffee date can be an excruciating experience, most guys know that they have one chance. Screw up and the woman will just go to the next guy that contacts her whereas often the poor guy has to start right from scratch and go thru all the bullshit again.Now for a quick true story. Last year dated a woman, first coffee date went okay but she redefined the term casually dressed. Second date at a bistro at the beach, again very casual, looked as though she had just come from doing the gardening. But I persevered, she mentioned how she always wanted to go the a certain restuarant in twon, probably one of the best in the district. So I offered (stupid Mooka, just stupid). Rang her with the seating time and mentioned that according to their web-site they have dress standards. Yes boys and girls, it was that type of establishment. So I turned up in a suit, open neck shirt and heavens above, she was early and we met outside the place. She had on the same clothes (with the same stains) as our first coffee date. Thongs, short denim skirt, tee shirt complete with a coffee stain. To say I felt awkward was an understatetment. I saw the Maitre-de look at us so I decided enough is enough, took her hand and walked across the road to Hungry Jacks. When she asked why we were heading the wrong way I told her that I had decided to eat somewhere more suitable for her attire. Funny she walked off then, never to be heard from again. The evening did have a good outcome, I dropped back into the restuarant to cancel the evening and the Maitre-de gave me a voucjer for a free dinner for two - as long as I bought someone else lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm here for play meets only.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hope you enjoyed the dinner with someone who dressed more appropriately! Looks like you got out in time Mooka. Be thankful... And, normal women (like those who have responded) would make the effort for a nice guy. xxCalam
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RHP User
16 years ago
I for one believe that first impressions are hugely important. I'm not the kind of woman who keeps up with all of the latest trends but I do ensure that I am neat and tidy and clean and wear something appropriate whenever I go out. And it's important to be comfortable. Nothing worse than trying to relax over coffee when your pants are so tight you can't sit down and your left nipple is trying to escape your oh-so low shirt.Be neat, be clean and be comfortable - then you can be yourself.................
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well your pic certainly made a good 1st impression....berry berry nice! Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
the local coffee spots get a tad unruly if I rock up naked...:) intrigued & curious ~~loving our warm autum weather...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'savannah36' I for one believe that first impressions are hugely important. I'm not the kind of woman who keeps up with all of the latest trends but I do ensure that I am neat and tidy and clean and wear something appropriate whenever I go out. And it's important to be comfortable. Nothing worse than trying to relax over coffee when your pants are so tight you can't sit down and your left nipple is trying to escape your oh-so low shirt.Be neat, be clean and be comfortable - then you can be yourself................. I'm with savannah all the way! If I'm going to be pulling tops down and sucking a stomach in all night, I'll feel self conscious and you won't get the best of me.I really suck at random hookups though, so I've usually built a bit of a rapport up with someone before meeting. Mooka, I'd have turned and done the bolt! If the girl couldn't even pull out her best thongs to meet you, it doesn't demonstrate a whole lot of respect for all the hard work you did to land a meeting in the first place!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I mean if the hair is all messed up thanks to rain and wind, the jeans have that wet patch creeping up the leg and you're still blown away - what does it matter. Clothes should be discarded in < 5 minutes, they just make for awkward conversation and the hair is going to get messed up anyway. Maybe you need to raise the bar a little Mooka
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'customer69'One latte and they think they can maul a girl to pieces...huh? They have already seen my pics and know that my belly wobbles as it should, so why do they think they have permission, to touch the merchandise, without being invited to?Taking off my heels and making a run for it...just as well I can move when I have to Lippy!Trish Hey Trish, Seems like there is a direct link b'tween a blokes brain and his dick...yep you read it here folks! lol Am soo over the groper!
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RHP User
16 years ago
hehehehehe if you knew i wasnt wearing any knickers under my skirt would you notice what I wore ?? clean kitchen.........tidy houses .................clean clothes.......... dressed appropriately all important ......all expected..................sorry dont do scruffs love my tradies in their work clothes but only if i know to expect them that way mmmmm fussy like that miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thish, I think the coffee will go cold - suddenly I don't need a caffine boost
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Bubbaj
16 years ago
id rather be comfortable really.... thongs are the best foot attire! heels kill me after a lil while :Pbut on the other hand i only seem to have dresses and skirts and no pants for the cold!i dont tink i have met ne1 badly dressed as yet....more like underdressed at some of these parties! too many naked bodies around that i just dont know where to look! talk about awkward talk! lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Trish what time is breakfast ??
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RHP User
16 years ago
lols Bubbaj.... I can well imagine you at a sex party.... and you'd know exactly where to look for the greatest effect! :p The great thing about being nude is that many pretensions are dropped... it's not like you can walk around with your armani handbag.... well you could I guess... but ... being naked is a great social leveller.... 5283 naked people onthe Sydney Opera House steps can attest to that. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Stalky were there any hard ons at the Opera House ??
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'customer69'I was clean and had perfume on, but no clothes! Fancy a coffee Mooka?I also like raisin toast for breakfast...Trish Hi Miss Trish or is it still Mrs Trish I too enjoy my morning coffee every mornin naked sitting on the veranda over looking the paddocks.There not a better feeling than letting it all hang out in the breeze.Have even been known to let the dogs out and feed the horse`s butt naked its good to be free(just dont let horse`s think its a carrot) .But one thing has always bothered me though,if the nice old lady next door has a heart attack at the sight of me frolicking around naked can I be charged ???...lmaof
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
For me if the guy cant make an effort to present himself nicely (not done to the nines but clean and tidy) then i have zero interest in taking it to the next level and i show him the same respect, i go to the trouble to make sure i am presented cleanly, legs shaved, hair done, showered and deodorant not too much to ask really i think it is only fair to do a runner on someone who hasn't bothered, skull your coffee and make a hasty exit.Better luck with the next one Mooka hope fully she will have read all this and know what to do
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RHP User
16 years ago
I derive a somewhat sick and perverted pleasure from reading others 'when meets go wild' experiences. Whilst each and every one get my heartfelt sympathy, it also helps me realize Im not alone in feral territory...lol I'm guessing you've learnt a few invaluable lessons in the screening process tho...think of it this way..may be a bit shocking at the time but gives us a belly laugh down the track..and thats gotta be a good thing... xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' I derive a somewhat sick and perverted pleasure from reading others 'when meets go wild' experiences. Whilst each and every one get my heartfelt sympathy, it also helps me realize Im not alone in feral territory...lol I'm guessing you've learnt a few invaluable lessons in the screening process tho...think of it this way..may be a bit shocking at the time but gives us a belly laugh down the track..and thats gotta be a good thing... xx that should be the next forum myname...who has the weirdest/scariest/head shaking experience?? id have a few to add to that... then after that one we could have...the most wonderful/sexiest/mind numbing experience??? id have a few for that one too roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
As long as we have human beings inhabiting planet earth, we will never be lost for topics to tease, tantalize and stimulate the senses Roxxy! Truth be known, I've heard a rumour that there may be a whole lot more to write about once the Easter bunny has blown his load. It appears two of the Banga sista's are taking their show on the road, a trial run if you wish.... Ooo, got chills just thinking about it....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now do they really Miss Trish .......LOLOLOLOLOL you are being spoilt lill miss....and about time hon !!!! Now Ive heard that Some tradies will even come on time.....and clean up afterwards !! Now thats gotta leave you satisfied LOL Id definately source their services again to met my needs ... Is the coffee extra ?? renovators delight ?? miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
We come on time and clean up, (all part of the service...but cheaper if you want to do it...clean up that is...lol) Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well Thanks Nev......Ill certainly keep that in mind will i need a dust buster or a cloth ?? lol glad you specified the clean up bit.......Id hate to cause issues by doing the tradesmans work for him !! union rep miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
I my self have trouble about what to wear on a coffee date. I have to dress slightly down as I don't want to be over dressed. Jeans, good shoes and best polo shirt. Fab.
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