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The age old question...
November 16 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
What someone looks like is very important, but how they act even more so. Some men may think they would love being with a supermodel. Until they realise she's cranky because she's hungry, smokes to stay thin, can't drink and won't have sex because it will ruin her make-up/hair/fake tan. Then they meet a woman who is not a classic beauty, but she eats, laughs, is passionate and just heaps of fun. Do the famous guys who cheat on their partners (and get exposed publicly) go for women as attractive as their partners? Hardly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think we all have a personal need..we dress to impress or create an impression for a good reason. but at the end of the day if there is no connection generally there is no future.. I would much prefer a sexy person who is comfy with themselves..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes it does and sometimes not. Its not all about the overall "packaging" of them being super sexy. It could be something she's wearing, could look real cute in specs, the way she laughs...anything. Those good looking men probably got married to those pretty women for more than just being sexy, but it may have dried up. Now they dont get the sex from their wives as much as they want, maybe the interest has gone, and they go looking for someone to hit it off with. Its personal taste and not everyone has a set description of what they want, like only blondes would appeal to someone and not brunettes for example.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Appearances matter... we all have a conscious and subconscious reaction to someone appearance when thinking about sex etc. The good news is that not everybody's tastes are the same... Some people like tall partners, some short. Some people like over weight partners some people like thin ones.The other good news is that sometimes the conscious thought of personality overrides the thoughts of appearance, but that is a discussion for another time. (I have preferences on height, hair colour etc etc but that doesn't affect my choice of partners that much)As for why people "dress to impress", I think that is because some dress how they want people to see them which is not necessarily how the people actually do see them (mutton dressed as lamb anyone?). I've learnt recently that my self image is not quite how other see of me.And Mes, I SO would take Jennifer Aniston over Angelina Jolie any day of the week... what was Brad thinking!SG
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RHP User
12 years ago
If they want a long term lover they might first be attracted to looks then love the person they are inside and then looks won't matter as much.... If they just want sex, then looks don't matter ... Skinny, fat, whatever ... I just want to fuck you!! And because it's a new person, it's hot.. If they are ugly, it's kinky... Only work for 1... 2 meets max and then they won't be able to perform if they are dog ugly, but while it's a new person they are fucking, bring it on ... And that's pretty much it how it's works.... But that ugly person could also be the perfect t woman and then looks won't matter once again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
when stoking the fire, I'm one of them
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RHP User
12 years ago
I make the effort for myself, because it makes me feel good.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's the different sexual connection He seeks that his beautiful one at home is unable to give (or he's unable to experience)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think there has to be some level of attraction for sex.Sure, you could have sex with anyone, every night, for the sake of it, and I'm sure some people do. But I personally don't and wouldn't want to be one of those people.I'd rather enjoy it on the rare opportunity it does happen, and would like there to be a level of attraction there. A level of attraction heightens the pleasure on a mental level, and it doesn't hurt to put in a bit of effort on all levels, to ensure each of you gets the most out of the encounter.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cant speak for others but for me I select andcould never screw just anyone.But with that being said if she was a submissivethose rules could change fast.LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
Could it be these guys are so far up themselves they think less attractive women are an easy target? Guys who like to stroke the ego's of others for their own satisfaction maybe? Maybe unattractive people are now trendier than more attractive people. Do see lots of hot looking guys with not so hot looking women & vice versa. But who am I to judge!.... beauty is in the eyes of the beholder after all! Good question though!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
But if you're not able to give your partner what they need, then of course you'll go elsewhere. Fuck....why wouldn't you??- Posted from rhpmobile
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