The Yin and Yang of things

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Most men are a bit shy of a Smart well educated Sexy Lady , They probably feel a bit insecure and think why would such a Gorgeous creature such as yourself be interested in me . The chase AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHYEAAAAAAAAAA LOOKS LIKE YOU WOULD BE WELL WORTH IT. The chase -then Pounce--Not to forget the teasing ONLY THEN would you be LUSTFULLY RAVAGED xxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  A SINGLE WHITE ROSE and a glass of what u are drinking brought to you by the waitress with a small note saying the rose pales in comparison with your Beauty . My Animal insticts tell me to come over to you and take you by the hand onto the dance floor wrap my arms around you , hold you tight and let the moment take us

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  There are times when this is an issue for me as well. Yes men tend to get a litle intimidated by intelligent women. I have a natural reticence ( Okay, those of you who know me can stop laughing now ). It comes across as being shy but I like to weigh a person in my mind before opening up at all. This is in real life or on line. I find things easier on line as I can be more open, more direct. In reality there have been times whenI have waited for over a year before making a move on the unsuspecting male. I like the Alpha Male. I like being treated as if I was someone special. I like the dance and in today's society, it is all too confusing. I admit myself that there are lines which should not be crossed and I will not tolerate bullying, being ordered about or anything rough. Try a shy little half smile in thier direction...the flirty little glances. Unless they are obtuse...or not interested...they will soon pick up on it.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Ahhh LustLicksem...you big romantic you! As for your question Frack_Me So how does a girl make the first move to show she's interested without threatening the man's inate masculinity? Buggered if I know. But I think maybe she doesn't make the the first move...which is actually hard to do when she is in charge of her life. She just opens her mind to possibilities but makes no commitment. If a man wants her enough, he will jump hoops for her. Jx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hiya Frack,Alot depends on the bloke and I think the best way to get him to chase you is to give him signals like a brush against his arm or a lean towards him over the dinner or drinks table and a cheeky little smile.To tell you the truth not all guys are not the best for picking up signals when it comes to sexual advances.I took an ex out to dinner and a movie and I dropped her to her front door as a gentleman does. We had chatted before about about ending up in the sack together for some mutual satisfaction but when I spent the evening with her I couldn't see any of the signals that suggested she was even remotely interested so I went home with a raging hard on.I was talking to her a few days later and she said why didn't I make a move on her and I explained that I didn't think she was interested as I didn't get any signals from her and she said oh I didn't really give any hahahaha but she also said she was more than happy for something to happen that night.I would love to chase someone but signals need to be shown so the guy will know its game on and the chase can begin.PK !!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Some guys are just not the "Chase pounce and ravage me type" Shyness and their own insecurities get in the way.No matter how good looking a guy can be, they can still come across as aloof and showing no interest even when it feels like to you that you have a neon sign painted across your forehead saying "I'M HERE COME GET ME!!!!!!"."Either on line or in real life... if I find a nice bloke, I make the first move, sometimes successful, sometimes not. But I wish sometimes that those guys would make a move on me so I can lead them a merry chase... for at least an hour....So how does a girl make the first move to show she's interested without threatening the man's inate masculinity? " So for the real obtuse fella that cant see whats in front of him (and for the shy dudes..) Humour never goes astray. Im a shocking flirter as Mr Sat will attest too.Sometimes I have no idea Im doing it and it all stems from easy going convo and humerous conversation.So my advice is engage in free flowing conversation peppered with lighthearted fluff and let him be taken in by your words, then look thoughtfully at your face, your smile, your eyes your???....and let the magic and fun begin.Otherwise move on..if it takes that bloody wrong he might not be hat a smart sassy women is after!Have funxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  "Either on line or in real life... if I find a nice bloke, I make the first move, sometimes successful, sometimes not. But I wish sometimes that those guys would make a move on me so I can lead them a merry chase... for at least an hour....So how does a girl make the first move to show she's interested without threatening the man's inate masculinity? " was a quote from Frack me but i stuffed up the highlight and quote thingo...just in case it sounds like Im the one looking for a dude lol..

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You want to tell the guy that you're interested so that he'll be interested and confident enough to sweep you off your feet by making a killer first (or... second, actually) move that will make you feel as though it was all his idea in the first place? Then when he does make his move, you want to string him out for an hour or so because... well, that's actually just for your amusement. When you talk to another man, he's supposed to know that you're doing that as part of the game, to make him jealous and get him to step up his efforts. Of course you're interested in him, but My God! You don't want him to know that! Think of the potential massive loss of control if he thought that you wanted him as much as he wants you!Is it any wonder that we men get confused? You're planning on messing us around before we've even said hello! Not being one for games, I've been known to walk away rather than waste an hour wondering whether I'm making progress or not. Give me a smile across the room and I'll happily pick things up from there. Coquettishly pretend to ignore me and you may well find me talking to someone else. Games can be fun, but generally I don't feel the need to waste an hour of my night on them.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' As much of a move as a green light. Guys seem to be intimidated by me, for some reason think that i won't be interested in them. I have no clue why but i just give them a little boost of confidence. It's my way of telling them /letting them know i already like them and they're not facing some crushingly cruel rejection. That's the equivalent of my "smile across the room" and is always appreciated, if for no other reason than it may signify honesty and openness. I sometimes think that women get too wrapped up in the game and forget that they're actually playing for the prize.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You hit it on the head - the annoying part is the unilateral nature of the game. Often it involves keeping the man more or less in the dark until such time as she's finished playing with him, or making up her mind, or weighing her options, or whatever reason she's doing it for. It's really more like playing with a toy than playful interaction with a person - as such, it's kind of insulting sometimes.I could see how your circumstances could result in a different type of play - speaking for myself, the more direct approach you describe is certainly more appealing to me.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' And now Snowshoe old bean.........we have the beginning of the mutual "rightness" party! hehehe (sorry, weird sense of humour is in the gene pool) xx Sweetie There'll be no party associated with the right operating out of my house, thank you very much! Besides, the "Wrongness Party" sounds like sooo much more fun! Different genes, but same kidney-shaped pool...

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