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The Sheer Truth : A Reply to All Threads About Looks..Personality and Size.
January 19 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Your mind is there to choose from it's alternatives. Your body is there to act on that choice. Your soul is there to observe the experience. . GigglyBBW you are complete, whole and perfect just as you are. And what's more, there's not another to swap you with. . In this physical realm (3D holographic matrix - if you like) beauty, self image and self projection are an important realisation and especially when you are young. I'm happy for your realisation of beauty in yourself and others. Acceptance does not come easy to some, but has arrived to you by the sounds of it. An inspiring, thoughtful post. I like it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow Giggly what a wonderful post to read..well written and love the advice.. A truly lovely read...and couldn't agree with you more. Care xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well done on your post, and well done to you xxx If only more people had the same thoughts... perhaps this world would be a lot different now.. I have read many posts in the forums and even replied to a few. But your post stands out to be the best and wisest post by far Well done girlfriend trips xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I only wish Giggly, that I had come to the same conclusion at your age, when it might have made a huge difference to my life, rather than having to wait until I was 40, when I was already stuck in a rut and a marriage that doesn't work. Yes, we are all beautiful, if we only SEE OURSELVES that way. We can all be kind, loving, generous, gracious, affectionate, empathic human beings if we let all our bitterness and hatred of ourselves fall away. Accept yourself for who you are and you can pretty much accept anyone else too; their life experiences, choices and way of life, without judgement. Some of my friends and colleagues might shake their heads and have a little laugh to themselves sometimes, about how amoral I have become in the last few years, but that is simply a response to self-realization, and reaching a conclusion as to what makes me tick and what I need in my life. I may be madly in love with someone I met through RHP, but that doesn't mean I will let him use and abuse me - I will only put up with as much as my self-respect will allow, before I walk away. For me, not settling for second best means having him in my life for as long as he suits me, because he has been totally enamoured with my curves and jiggly bits, and has never uttered a critical word, but also he's there until that day I find someone better, who will take me on for something more meaningful. Somewhere out there is the person who will 'complete' me - I just intend to keep having my fun while I'm browsing the shelves. I love being me...I just need someone else to see how special I am too. Good on you for penning a very thoughtful post. xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wise lady gave u enough! for u to find your way! Self love is a wonderful! thing! U will never look back Sweetie! We are all Beautiful! We Should always look for the good in people! Share the love! Make the World a better place! Love Jensta xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thank you
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RHP User
15 years ago
We come into this world with the gift of unconditional love that seeks nor asks anything for it's own sake. Much is the pity that...over time, our feelings, thoughts and experiences rob us of that gift. I dream one day find that yet again...and believe in my dreams. Thank you for sharing yours. It is nice to know there are other dreamers in this world.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now that you have the knowlege you also have the power. Never settle for anything less. Best of luck to you.
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RHP User
15 years ago
deep down inside we know we are all beautiful only problem is we try so hard to show it to others.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness. We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little and watch TV too much. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things. We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less. These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete... just thought I'd share that
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RHP User
15 years ago
deep down inside we know we are all beautiful only problem is we try so hard to show it to others.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'youngblack'The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness. We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little and watch TV too much. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things. We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less. These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete... just thought I'd share that I love it...Can I please copy this? Is it from a book? Is there more? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I knew from the very first Post you wrote that you were very special and I am so glad that you can now see it in yourself! You are a treasure hun and you deserve the very best that life and the Universe has to offer you xox xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
So there are some more nice people around here! It's great to hear an opinion that doesn't put someone else down. Thanks
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree hun.. Its nice to feel positive. I for one would love to read more positive replies in these forums instead of people stirring for the sake of stirring... perhaps they are bored with their life and have nothing better to do... Well...... to the negative shit stirrers in here...... fark off and go chase a parked car or something.. MAKE LOVE NOT WAR Trips xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thankyou all for your beautiful comments :) Youngblack...your quote sadned me.. such faith in humanity it failed to display.. the errors of our past do not sway over our future.. although many people sadly have forgotten what life is about.. there is still much beauty and love in this world that your poem does not mention.. we are saving more lives today than we ever did in medical history.. we are able to help the blind to see.. and the deaf to hear.. we can create limbs to help people move more easily.. our wars while still few.. are less severe.. more people are recognising how wonderful families are and take the time to spend with them..we are becoming more accepting of difference and slowly learning to care for our environement.. these principles are still a long way off being perfect .. but our generation and those before us have started a chain reaction that one day will spread slowly through the hearts and minds of our future generations.. and although others will always seek to distroy and prevent change.. kindness will always win.. I will never loose faith in us.. I will hold you all dear in my heart.. wether I know you or not.. you will always be with me. Giggly
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RHP User
15 years ago
Giggly BBW, What a sensational post!!...... It just goes to show, you dont judge a person by whats on the outside.Its whats inside that counts. You are a beautiful women, inside and out...xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'youngblack' The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness. We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little and watch TV too much. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things. We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less. These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete... just thought I'd share that Sorry to burst anyones bubble over this inspirational piece.....but it was not george carlin that penned it and he emphatically denied having anything to do with ( R.I.P George You Da Man..!)He referred to as "a sappy load of shit," and posted his comments about being associated with this essay on his own web site.The true author of the piece is Dr. Bob Moorehead, former pastor of Seattle's Overlake Christian Church. (He retired in 1998 after 29 years in that post). The essay appeared under the title "The Paradox of Our Age" in Words Aptly Spoken, Dr. Moorehead's 1995 collection of prayers, homilies, and monologues used in his sermons and radio broadcasts.We like pieces such as "The Paradox of Our Time" because they summarize all the problems of modern society into a neat laundry list of "What Has Gone Wrong" while presenting possible solutions by way of juxtaposition.The pairing of "We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values," for example, implies that increased affluence is responsible for a decline in morality and carries the underlying implication that if we turn our backs on the almighty dollar, our kids will no longer murder one anotherClear-cut cause-and-effect pairings provide far more comfort than does accepting the harsh reality that we live in a world of no assurances at all, a world where bad things can happen at any moment, to anyone, for no discernable (and thus no preventable) reason. Our ancestors coped with that feeling of powerlessness by inventing myths about petty, lust-filled, vengeful gods who, even if they were capricious in their actions and insensible to the human misery their warring caused, were at least tangible entities who could be identified as the cause of otherwise unfathomable catastrophes. Our sophistication has loosed us from our belief in those myths, leaving us vulnerable to a sense of a world careening out of control.Those intent upon taking inspiration from "Paradox" should consider the following: during Bob Moorehead's tenure as pastor of Overlake Christian Church, seventeen members of his congregation reported that he had sexually assaulted them. These allegations, which surfaced in 1997, prompted his resignation in 1998. After a year of publicly supporting Moorehead the church elders withdrew their support, their own investigation into the charges having led them to conclude their pastor had indeed been guilty of molesting a number of male churchgoers.Guess its another one of those pieces that you have to remember whats important is the Message...Not the MessengerAnd I Love The Message in this Post...I Feel The Love...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Great post Giggly, However, I'd have to slightly disagree with something that you said in your 2nd post further down...that "our wars while still few.. are less severe." The only reason that you and most others would think that... is largely due to the "exttremely sanitry (& glossed over) tv coverage" designed not to offend us that regularly graces all of our tv screens whenever there's a story on the various wars overseas. Believe it or not Giggly, they tend to cover up the trus facts (including casualty numbers on occasion) and/or not report most of what really happens under the guise of military intelligence and how it could posibly affect the outcomes of their current military operations, or maybe their reasoning is that we probably couldn't handle seeing all that graphic imagery of death and dismemberment etc.. on a nightly basis. Though, my thoughts behind their reasoning s are a little more cynical than most, as I personally think they only tell us half the facts to de-sensitise most of us to things like that for more dastardly reasons - but more importantly it also keeps their arms sales/ war-machine and potential access to the mineral & oil wealth in these countries constantly ticking over! Giggly, maybe you should speak to some of the soldiers that have done a few tours of duty in those regions or to the survivors of war-torn areas before you actually make that blind assumption about the horrors of war being "less severe." * I have several friends that come from war-ravaged areas where it has been a regular daily part of their life experience for the last 10-20years and from many of the dreadful images that they could show to you, me and countless others, that never ever reach our television screens are truly horiffic . - Darlin, just don't believe what the media tells you or what they would like you (and us all) to believe via the idiot box !!! MAKE LOVE PEOPLE - Not War... !!! Keep on Smiling Giggly - "You are a Truly Beautiful Soul!"
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ok so as nudierudie2 pointed out it was actually written by a suspected pedophile, with I think a rather pessimistic view of life. So time for a more optimistic view from one of my favourite humans: A pessimist is an optimist who has become frustrated with his optimism. He hoped too much and failed, he dreamed too much and could not achieve anything substantial. The pessimist is an optimist standing on his head; they are not different fellows — that’s what I want to make clear to you. Unless you have been an optimist you can never be a pessimist. First you have to become an optimist. And each child is brought up with great optimism. All parents think that they have great children. Ask any mother: she thinks she has the unique child; the most superior, rare, incomparable. Each mother brags about the child. Parents bring up children with great optimism that they are going to be Alexander the Greats or Jesus Christs or Gautam Buddhas. But slowly slowly life proves just the contrary. Slowly slowly, the child becomes aware of his ordinariness. He becomes aware that these great dreams, that these great ambitions, cannot be fulfilled. And by the time one is coming closer to forty, forty-two, pessimism starts settling — gloom, darkness…. Now medical science is aware that most heart attacks happen nearabout forty to forty-four, between those four years. Most people go mad between those four years, forty to forty-four. Psychologists, psychoanalysts, are aware that that is the most dangerous time. If you can remain sane beyond forty-four, that means you will remain sane. But many people fall flat. And don’t think that if you are sane even beyond forty-four… that does not mean that you are very intelligent. It may only be that you are very dull and it takes a long time for you to understand. It may only be that you are very insensitive. It may only be that you are foolhardy, that you don’t listen to life, what life is saying, that you go on hoping. But sooner or later, a person starts feeling that life has gone down the drain. Optimism turns sour and becomes pessimism. Optimism, that hopefulness, turns upside-down; a hopelessness settles in. Then everything looks dark and dismal. First you used to count the roses, now you start counting the thorns. First you used to say, “How beautiful this roseflower and what a miracle! It grows amongst thousands of thorns.” You were poetic, you had some aesthetic sense; you still believed that life is going to be a fulfillment. But soon the day comes when the roses start fading away and you start counting the thorns, and you cannot believe in the roses anymore. You start saying, “It is impossible! The rose must be a dream, the rose must be MAYA, illusion, hallucination. How is it possible amongst thousands of thorns, how is a rose possible?” It looks contradictory, it looks illogical, it cannot happen in the nature of things. You start counting nights; before, you used to count days. The optimist says, “There are two days, and between two days just a small night to rest.” And the pessimist counts the nights; he says, “There are two long nights — nightmares, ugly dreams, tortures — and just a small day sandwiched between the two.” Life is the same: you can count the days or you can count the nights. If you count the days you are an optimist, if you count the nights you are a pessimist, but there is really no difference. The optimist can become a pessimist, the pessimist can become an optimist. They are not contraries; they are two points on the same spectrum. One has to go beyond both. Neither hope nor hopelessness. No need to count days, no need to count nights. Be a watcher! No need to count thorns, no need to count roses. Be a watcher…. I don’t teach you optimism. In the West it is very fashionable nowadays; it is called “positive thinking.” That is a new name for optimism; the old name has become a little too out of fashion, out-of-date. The new name is positive thinking. I don’t teach you positive thinking, because positive thinking carries the negative in its wake. One September morning after Labor Day, Levin and Ostrow met for lunch. They had not seen each other for several months. “I have just lived through a summer I never thought I would see,” said Levin. “June was a disaster — never have I seen a June like that. When July came, I realized that June was terrific, because with July I went right into the cellar. July was so bad….” “For heaven’s sake!” interrupted Ostrow. “Why are you coming to me with these piddling matters? You wanna hear real trouble? I got it. Yesterday my only son came home, told me he is gonna marry another fella. My boy is a homosexual! What could be worse than that?” “I will tell you,” said Levin, “August!” Just wait! There are people who are continuously looking for the negative — and if you look for the negative you will find it, because the negative is there in the same proportion as the positive. If you look for the positive, you will find the positive. But by finding the positive you cannot destroy the negative; the negative is there, side by side. They are always together like negative and positive poles of electricity. You can’t have electricity with one pole, you will need both. Life needs both: thorns and roses, days and nights, happiness/unhappiness, birth/death. Be a witness to it all and you will know something that is beyond birth, beyond death; something that is beyond darkness and beyond light; something that is beyond happiness, beyond unhappiness. Buddha (I am not a buddhist) has called it peace, nirvana. - Osho -
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RHP User
15 years ago
Glad you're seeing your beauty Giggy, thanks for sharing it xo
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RHP User
15 years ago
When I started this thread my purpose behind it was to point out how lovely we all are in our own unique way.. and that we are similar for wanting the same things in our lives.. now having read through afew of the posts on here.. I would just like to point out.. to expect perfect people in an inperfect world is unreasonable.. we all have our faults.. we are all guilty of negitive thinking and we all make mistakes.. to hold this against ourselves and others and judge them on their decisions based on their life expereinces is something not any of us qualify for. *hugs* to see yourself..and people for everything they are.. good points and bad.. and to love them as the unique people they are.. is the most amazing gift you can ever give someone.. dont put each other down but love them for their difference and enjoy seeing them along lifes journey.. where ever that make take them.. as I will give all of you this gift and wish only happiness and good fortune for all. Giggly
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