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The Co-Worker

April 16 2013

I've always managed to establish lasting friendships with co-workers, but they have never pushed into relationships, because I was always faithful to my partners and have only had eyes for them. Now that I find myself single again, I am finding that I have become a lot more flirtatious ( did i spell that correctly?), particularly with a collegue who I work with everyday. The question I am now asking myself is, should I suggest a little more than the naughty conversations, and just invite her out for some fun, knowing full well that she is not wanting a relationship, which is fine with me.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Has the potential to get complicated. If you are a full time employee and intend to say there for a while I would say don't go there. As some will tell you, don't shit on the hand that feeds you.

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RHP User

13 years ago

You don't shit where you eat, remember? But if that hot colleague that wants me were to get a different job, I'd do her in a second.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Is that the saying? Or can you also shit on hands? LMAO.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Cost me more then one job... INCLUDING, I do believe.. a damned good one.. which was the follow up contract - from the one I was just on.. But.. fck.. she was hot..and being Russiann.. damned exotic *grins*

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RHP User

13 years ago

that we cant do that anymore in my day a lot of hanky panky went on at work people meet their husbands or wives at work but those days are loooooooooooooooong gone step away from the co worker

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RHP User

13 years ago

F*ck that Shit...don't go there to fulfill sexual needs because now you're single?? Pick real life over fantasy dude...FOXY

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RHP User

13 years ago

I think it's to bite the hand that feeds you. I hadn't read your comment when I posted, but we thought the same thing!

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RHP User

13 years ago

I didn't sleep with my boss and she made it that uncomfortable for me at work I left. So to shit or not to shit in your own nest can still fill the nest up with crap.

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RHP User

13 years ago

it is fine when all is going well between you,but if it all goes pear shaped,then things can get nasty. Recently a close friend of mine celebrated a co-worker relocating to accept a job interstate.They had, had a very discrete relationship that ended badly.They continued to work together for four years and he made her life as difficult as he possibly could during this time. I have known other couples who have ended up married when the met in the workplace but it is indeed a risk,especially if one person is the other's supervisor,then there can be issues around sexual harassment......so tread warily OP and good luck....ps just because people say they only want NSA doesn't mean they wont change their mind.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Know the pain... have a co-worker who is just awesome and would love to go there myself... but have seen lots of tragedies and few triumphs of office relationships. Suggest serious rethink on any actions and a cold shower.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I had hoped that someone would have disagreed with my gut instinct but your saying the same thing...Cold shower it is. Maybe she'd let me scrub her back.....damn it no. the forum has spoken.Thanks lovely people.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Ms_Devious you're spot on with the saying. That's what my boss said to me at our lovely meeting when it all came out.- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

Oh just man the fuck up and shag her on the photocopier already.LOLNah.Meat and bread ... never get it from the same place.(Unless you, or she are temporary staff... then go for it like wild monkeys)

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RHP User

13 years ago

As long as you are both on the same page....go for it! It only goes pear shaped if one is seeking more out of it than the other! I had a bit of a work office affair and even though the sex stopped we still got on well...no dramas because none of us wanted more than just the sex! I also had a 4 and a half year affair with a boss at a place I temped at and things never got awkward and I was called back there all the time for more work! As long as you both feel the chemistry and know what you are both after I say do it and do it well! xFunlovingx

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RHP User

13 years ago

I'm with you- Posted from rhpmobile

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