That Euphoric Loved-up Glow.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If he was not available would you have persisted? I have a theory that we "allow" ourselves to fall in love and it is time together that does that. We all know we are capable of loving more than one person in our lives and indeed often more than one at a time so do you think love is something we can avoid by not spending the time with someone we find so attractive? If say, we meet someone and find that huge spark, go weak at the knees, all soft inside but he is taken...if we walk away and not see them it cannot develop into love thereby negating the idea of not being able to help ourselves?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I dont fall in love unless i feel safe...and I havent felt safe yet...I have felt loving though...and do feel love for others...but Im just not "in love".One day I might get lucky.JMO...BJxxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I liked my guy from our first conversation but since I knew he was with someone else I kept my head. A couple of weeks later when he came for coffee and stayed the night I thought that maybe I could be in with a chance. After that it was just a matter of waiting with fingers crossed. When I knew that he wanted to be with me I could let go and allow myself to fall in love with him. We have been together six months and the wonderful feeling of excitement at being with a new partner still hasn't faded.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Do you remember back when .... say you were a teenager... and saying "I love you" is awful difficult. The connotations you attach to the word... like forever committment and "you're the only one for me" .... it's no wonder people shy away form the word with all that heavy bullshit attached. Clearly people are capable of loving more than one person. We all do, we just don't have sex with everyone we love. I'm not into the love at first sight thing... but I do agree that there can be an instant recognisable attraction. Perhaps it's pheremones. It's worth sorting through the miriad of lovers to find those special few with whom your body naturally interacts. It is very special. You can fall in love in an instant like that.HUgsStalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I totally know it is possible to love more than one at the same time. Same degree of love also...just a different kind! I do believe in love or falling in love quickly...but i think it more the concept of the idea that i fall for...a euphoria of feelings...I LOVE that feeling!! I am in the same kind of dilhemma really...and its so hard to know what to do...should i walk away right now...even though i dont want to...but by not walking away...am i tempting something that i should just not tempt... Its a hard one really...! Good luck with whatever you decide...we are human after all...it is these dilemmas that seperate us from the other mammals... Sally

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I think that feeling of euphoria is a major lust attack. Now I do know that sometimes this lust can be strong enough to last for a few years. For myself...I walk away. I would never allow myself to fall in love with someone when it is wrong. I may lust after them, I may even have sex with them, but I would never give my heart. I can love them though and that is another story. Loving someone and being in love are differant.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Yes...i hear what you are saying. It definately is very different to love someone and be in love with someone... Perhaps I should just walk away, but i am the kind of person that has to clear up all what ifs!! THat is my problem...but i shall take your advice...and walk away! Sally

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  For it to happen-Yes-it is that easy... it is to have participated in the great experiment- to see how many times it will happen or if it can happen to any of us... It would take an essay to explain it-I'm not in the mood to write it today... not sure if I'll ever write it... Just believe me-it is that easy-if you have experienced it you know what I'm talking about! It's different to anything you would have ever experienced-it's not a crush and it's not the lust that makes one selfish that leads to the humiliation/collateral damage to the lives of others- however it may lead to many lives changing forever as a result of the two of you meeting. It is what it is and many people run from acknowledging it at first as it is quite powerful and frightening.... You feel you are with them-wherever you are, whatever time it is that you are finally awake and you are at home. This can be unsettling-most people are resistant to small changes-and this-it's like an atom bomb exploding on an otherwise uneventful day-you can't help being affected or forever changed and you won't forget it. Whatever was meant to happen in your life-as a result of this union it usually does- sometimes the connection lasts forever or sometimes only through the conception of a new phase/child in your life, being your companion through a death or the death of a dream. There is plenty of info online and in the libraries if you are really interested-to know more- if you disagree-please feel free to go and fight with abandon all the authors that ever have discussed the subject and not me if you don't like my reply. I wish for everyone they experience it just once before they are replanted- I don't want to do it anymore-as I've found something better to do... Butterfly effect-is something else I believe in too-as very small precious beautiful things really can affect your whole world and what does or doesn't happen in it as a result of their actions. NymphetamineDrm The Scientist - Coldplay Come up to meet you, tell you I'm sorryYou don't know how lovely you areI had to find youTell you I need youTell you I've set you apartTell me your secretsAnd ask me your questionsOh, let's go back to the startRunning in circlesComing up tailsHeads on the science apartNobody said it was easyIt's such a shame for us to partNobody said it was easyNo one ever said it would be this hardOh take me back to the startI was just guessingAt numbers and figuresPulling the puzzles apartQuestions of scienceScience and progressDo not speak as loud as my heartOh tell me you love meCome back and haunt meOh and I rush to the startRunning in circlesChasing our tailsComing back as we areNobody said it was easyOh, it's such a shame for us to partNobody said it was easyNo one ever said it would be so hardI’m going back to the startOh ooh ooh ooh oohAh ooh ooh ooh oohOh ooh ooh ooh oohOh ooh ooh ooh ooh

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