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M42

Thanks for the chips and gravy

September 18 2010

I've been trying to avoid this for a while as I'm not really the sort of person who gives up when things get tough. There is just no reason to be on here any more. I'm finding that being a single male almost an affliction when it comes to meeting people through this site.This has been a great time for me(on the whole) I've met some lovely people many of you know exactly who I'm refering to. I'm not going to list them as the forum regulars will know who they are.I will be back no doubt as my subscription doesn't expire till december but I will not be posting or looking via this site in hopes that I will become someone more confident in myself as a result of it. Rob

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It feels like you haven't been here that long and I will miss your posts. I have followed them with interest and been impressed in general. Wherever you find yourself as a result of your decision, I hope you're satisfied with it in the long run and cum back here if you realise it is here that you do feel more comfortable.Hugs... Mrs P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well results on this site do vary - I've met some truely wonderful people here, and some real fruit loops too :-) Take a break, and see what happens - you might just find that you miss us all and the crap that we carry on with and then come back. For me - I'm here less regularly now, mainly due to a very high workload, but if it was not for this site, I'd not have met my special gal - aka NinjaGirl (not her real name). So I am greatful for that for sure. Take care dude Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    baby dont stay away for too long il miss you sweet thing roxxy xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    He Joined He Posted He Left Mate, I can fully understand your situation and as some might realise, have taken long sabaticals away from here myself. You are right, for many, the dreaded SINGLE MALE is the lowest form of life here. We, us poor single band of brothers, are the ones that are derided, belittled, and dismissed without thought, without a hint of compassion. Women do have the upper hand, it is a simple numbers thing. But too many women here believe the crap that is fed to them. Just visit the chatrooms, women who would not get a second glance in the street are lauded over, as long as they flash a bit of skin of course. Unfortunately some of those women believe they are God's Gift to Mankind and treat everyone with an air of snobiness that in real life would be embarassing. Me, I realised long ago that I won't meet anyone here that will fit the criteria I seek. And to be honest (I will probably lose most of those on my friends list now), there are very few single women locally that I would even consider meeting. I have never been after the random one night stand, that isn't my style and I will admit I want more than sex. So that cancels me out for the majority of the women. I am only on here now to post the occassional comment in the forums and to chat to friends in the rooms. I don't think I have sent a flirt or into msg to a woman here for months and actually have zero interest to change that. Total, I have thoroughly enjoyed your posts, it is refreshing to see a youngster who can not only pen his thoughts in a coherent and readable manner, but also has the backbone to sometimes go against the norm here and voice your own opinion. Total, take a break, clear your head and hopefully you will return to again entertain us with your wit, humour and thought provoking comments. Mooka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Pretty much the only reason we are still here is for the Forums. Like some one else said, came for the sex stayed for the people!Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I know your reasons, you know we will miss you, you also know we are here when and if you are ready to come back to us...stay for the forums if nothing else my sweet...you know you cant stay away form the ooze pond..lol...unfortunately for the local women here they have missed on a very very special man because of the stigma that gets attached to a single male profile...and as you know I ma one of those that definately joined for the sex but am staying for the forums.. Mooka baby - you are stuck with me honey...lol...oh wait I am not a local woman does this mean I still get an invite??? lol... Back to the gorgeous Rob...honey I am always here for you...you too cant get rid of me that easily...heres hoping your sabbatical helps you find where you should be within yourself... Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    "Total, I have thoroughly enjoyed your posts, it is refreshing to see a youngster who can not only pen his thoughts in a coherent and readable manner, but also has the backbone to sometimes go against the norm here and voice your own opinion. Total, take a break, clear your head and hopefully you will return to again entertain us with your wit, humour and thought provoking comments. Mooka" I'm with you Mooka. I don't often feel the need to comment on what goes on in the forums but I must admit to enjoying reading the posts of Total_Recall. Good luck with finding your self on your life away from the ooze pond, and hope you return to let us, once again, know your thoughts. xxJ