sweetgem

sweetgem

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Thank you, Gracia, Salamat, 谢谢, Mercie

January 29 2017

When life throws lemon at you, do you really make lemonade out of it? Can that theory/thinking be applied to all circumstances, or does it depend on the situation? I would rather make some detoxing & refreshing lemon water, or lemon tarts, from those lemons 🙃 It's been a long hard week for me to get through emotionally, but I'll make it out of that dark tunnel soon. Hence, I would like to express my gratitude to those whom have reached out and given me their kind support and advices, in this challenging time. I am sincerely thanking (in no particular order): Auntie Annie DG Lily Summer Ms_Dragon ElkeM Mr & Mrs urn Mr b (of boobs_or_bust) For all your generous supports and times given on guiding me through the process and what to do, as well as offering a listening ear and time to chat, etc. your kind hearts and wisdoms are well received with gratitude 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Thank you my friends, you are wonderful humans and I wish you all the greatest health and happiness in life! 😘😘 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sweet gem I hope that you come out the other end soon xxx brighter and shinier as well! I've been having a rough time of it too.... and there has been 1 person from here, that I have never met that calls me to check that I'm ok and actually talk to me about what's going on. I'd like to say thank you to him too 😊 (You know who you are, and I hope you know that you mean the world to me for your friendship & support ☺)

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    9 years ago

    And thankyou for posting up you were struggerling in a hard place ,no one can ever help ,if no one knows ,well done you ,for reaching out Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You opened up and you had the support of amazing people behind you Sweetgem ♡ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Even the most challenging and wrenching events have a positive result somewhere in your life.It is hard to see sometimes but as the fog clears and life continues, you will find something. Doors will open and as you enter through, you wont forget the pain and trauma and life of course will be different as you will have evolved in some small way and your thought process altered. The good memories will remain foremost, the bad moments soon become less sharp and just part of the memory of life to take forward as a lesson you can share with others. I too have had a challenging few weeks, but moving forward it has evolved rapidly and the lemonade I am now making is tasting that much sweeter than I had before. The lemons have turned to limes. So yes, it happens. Keep talking to those that you respect and never hesitate to get professional help if required. Hugs and hope your lemonade flows soon. Auntie xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    So very sorry to hear you are going through a difficult period. It's lovely that the pie community has reached out to you. I think Auntie Annie said it beautifully xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sorry to hear Sweetgem that you have been struggling over the last few week's.😔😢 Annie beautiful word's 😍 You have many admires here within the forum Sweetgem. I personally I enjoy reading your comments. Life can be like a lemon tree. lol You will continue to grow with love and attention, die if your not given enough room to grow. You will branch out when the time is right You'll find a few fruits on the way, lol but they will drop off. Some even may become bitter 😂 But eventually you'll turn something bad into something sweet. x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Is to live in the moment,accept what is happening,believe that this too will pass,and change what I can. Q

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    9 years ago

    For your kind words of support and advices 🙏🏼 I am truly touched with the responses and helps that given to me during this difficult time. So thank you once again 🙏🏼 As a tough cookie (branded by my other friends), I will overcome this devastation in a matter of time, though it won't be an easy thing to do, as it involves a foreseeable death of the one and only person whom I have been caring for for some years! Hence, I am devastated! And I' also letting myself feel the pain instead of telling myself to suck it in and soldier on, like I always do in other circumstances! This time, I am not going to deny how I feel so soon, otherwise it would be twice as difficult for me to handle it later on. Summer - glad to be the first to use Chinese characters on Pie :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    9 years ago

    For your loss Summer 😢 I just saw your post in Auntie Annie's E&N thread about the passing of your best friend, I'm so sorry for your loss, hugs xx My deepest condolences to you and hope you're coping ok in this heart breaking time! I can certainly relate to your pain of loss right now! 😢 take care Summer, I am also thinking of you xx I don't know what else to say to you to make you feel a little better, as I am poor in that department right now 😢😢 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sweetgem I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time. But so happy to hear that you have such amazing people for support. I've been having a really rough patch lately too - but a few close pie friends have been the ones that have given me the most helpful advice and comfort. Even while struggling through their own issues. Who would have thought that a site like this would bring so many outstanding people together, and give us life long friendships? When lemons are delivered by the barrel I usually want to set fire to the fuckers! But that would be a real waste. Instead I juice every last ml of them, it's exhausting and painful but I come out stronger, more insightful and with a sense of achievement. Summer ❤