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Telling tales out of school.

January 08 2011

So recently we were at a club and we ran into a couple from our distant past. Haven't seen these people for quite a while as they live out of town. Needless to say we were very happy to see them as we had both had great experiences with them. At first they seemed a little distant and we thought "OK, well, time has passed they have moved on and so have we." | However as they were going out the door they mentioned that we might meet up again as they were in town for a little holiday. "YAY" we think | A couple of days later he contacts Lady and they chat for a while; or rather he pumps Lady for information about people that she knows. Lady gets the feeling he has looked through her friends list and has a pre-prepared list of queries actually. | The conversation ends with a vague promise to "Catch up later in the week when we work out our schedule as we have some muggles we need to catch up with" | Needless to say they never contacted us again. Our question is; Are we justified in being a little peeved at being treated as a backup plan and is it very rude of him to expect us to pass on info about other people we have met?

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RHP User

15 years ago

i think the question is...did you pass on any info???...if you did that could come back to bite you on the arse later but back to your question....sorry but i think maybe you were forgotten till they got back on RHP and went "ahhhh its them...look who they have on their friends list...lets see what we can find out and see who we can meet up with" hence the phone call for infomation sorry that sounds really harsh and i dont mean it too...but some people are just like that...they tell you "yes we want to meet up again i cant wait" and they really have no intention of ever seeing you again i get that all the time...its sucks if i was you id try and get passed it and call "NEXT" and i wouldnt talk to them again roxxy

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RHP User

15 years ago

the infomation you passed on may have set this person up into something good or was it to warn them not to go with someone because of something bad you experienced ???? that may be the reason they never returned ,,, always think before you share info because the next person asking may be asking about you?????? and may just get told exactly what you said Andy xxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

there are rude people sometimes for sure and i think you should keep your contacts to yourself ,let others decide for themselfs ,who is right for them and who isnt....had a guy sleep with my wife witch was fine ....and ever since hsnt given her the time of day even a short hi when online ...they both had a great time so wasnt a bad exsperience but the hight of rudness to ignore someone after the fact...and or ask about someones other contacts....

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RHP User

15 years ago

They sound a bit rude & non commital. I agree with your assesment. I would take them off your private gallery list! Just a thought too. We often ask our new friends about who they have seen & what they have done recently to get a feel for what they might expect from us & what we can expect from them. Though we dont expect them to name names. Mrs H xx

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