rupamohan

rupamohan

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Tell us your dating myths - Pushy members, Time wasters...what ever

March 25 2011

few myths based on our exp...hope our exp is typical...lol Myth 1 - Many PPL not matching your criteria may try to approach you. Not true if you really make yourself clear. Yes some members can be dumb but very few are idiots Myth 2 - PPL can be pushy. (One of the popular myth with first timers)Serious players know pushing is counterproductive. We found if you make yourself clear and don't give false hopes. PPL are NOT pushy. If you are an adult nobody can push you to make choices. However you may feel pushed (which is your own fault) if you are not confident to make decisions. Also when you want to go slow, but you are not ready to admit it bcos you think you will be labelled as time waster, you may like to accuse others to be pushy. If you make it clear how long it will take you to make decision PPL will not push you to decide earlier. Myth 3 - fake PPL are timewasters Not really you can ignore them nd move on. Real time wasters are real PPL who cant decide. Myth 4 - Waiting is Wasting. Not really..if PPL take time to get back..it is waiting...if PPL want to chat endless it is wasting.

Comments

  • redhotozz

    redhotozz

    15 years ago

    LOL..the main myth is that you and another couple will be able to organise to be horny, kids looked after, ready to meet and be interested in each other all on the same night. Most times one of the stars isn't aligned, and you need to be patient.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You have a profile on RHP so that means you are going to fuck everyone that contacts you. errrr Wrong.............sorry

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The old "man pretending to be a couple" myth, well there are actually probably lots of them out there. We used to come across them but not many anymore. What does frustrate me is that when I am honest and tell people it's Mr Pup doing all the rhp groundwork then many people assume there's no Mrs Pup. Well if I could be bothered with pretending surely I would pretend to be the woman of the couple eh? Mrs Pup just isn't into the virtual side of this, she's only interested in getting to know people face to face. I'm the same but these damn forums have be a little hooked and it suits my adhd to be doing 10 things at once so I can RHP, do the washing, cook dinner and mow the lawn all at the same time (and you think I'm kidding!)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    No matter how clear we are about what we're after, people see the little box when they send a message telling them "this is what this person is after and you ain't it" and it doesn't stop a lot of people. They're not all idiots, just hopeful in many cases. Sometimes it works out and it's fun to play outside the criteria anyway. . Also, the pushy people aren't people you've given 'false hope' to and not people you haven't been clear with. In my experience they're people I've given my contact details to with a view to meeting, and they immediately send a dozen messages in less than 10 mins and before i've even had a chance to reply they're pissed that i'm not immediately on their doorstep ready to fuck and have started banging on about whether or not i'm a 'serious player'. In my opinion, they can go fuck themselves and call me whatever makes them feel better, i don't care. Playing is about fun, and being serious about playing doesn't mean I'll fuck just anyone. I don't care if they have a cock like a firehose and a vagina like a vice grip, tongues like lizards and Masters degrees in Tantra and Erotic Massage, I only fuck people I like, and if the only "personality" they project consists of 'let's fuck let's fuck let's fuck' then that's boring and I ain't gonna waste my time. . This site has remarkably few fakes compared to another site i am on. I think RHP is doing a great job there! Keep it up, guys and gals! <3 . xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'puppy' I can RHP, do the washing, cook dinner and mow the lawn all at the same time (and you think I'm kidding!) that's hot!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Doesnt mean i want to "do" every woman i meet........or any woman you bring along !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Does not mean I want or need a 20 year old "stud wanna-be"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xxticklishxx' You have a profile on RHP so that means you are going to fuck everyone that contacts you. errrr Wrong.............sorry Quoting 'missbowpeek'Doesnt mean i want to "do" every woman i meet........or any woman you bring along !! I second these ones.....can i add to MissB's it also doesnt mean I have a friend that si automatcially going to want to join us - arent I good enough for you on my own??? . Myth - its only single men that can't read - many people seem to have this affliction men, women, couples and groups.. . Kisses Focus

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    15 years ago

    There are host of members who don't put much in the profile..or may be have pics worth 1000s of words...whatever it is their choice..we have never assumed any reason.... However we do sometimes come across members who think just bcos we can write what we are up to...it means we must be inflexibile...does it means PPL who don't tell (or don't know what to tell) are only flexible...lol

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xxticklishxx' You have a profile on RHP so that means you are going to fuck everyone that contacts you. errrr Wrong.............sorryYes there r these sort of PPL who did whatever they did bcos they never had any other choice...so they think others too do things for same reason...lol for them the only reason you are here is that u just want to get fucked by anyone...loll

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    curiousnewgirl bang on the head with what pushy is.Story of not so long ago.We met a couple after a short chat and we met at their place for dinner.We had a nice meal and befor we knew it the husband was in the pool naked and saying come on in, the waters warm.The wife was a little reserved and also just wanted to get to know us and was feeling a little embarrassed and said sorry for his actions.We let him play around the pool by himself while we chatted to her and eventually we left.Next day he was sending us rude and abusive letters about leading him and his partner on.I can remember nothing but us saying we will meet but were not into getting into the sack until we were comfortable.I feel his wife would also agree.We feel sorry for her and we wish her luck she was a lovely lady but he was a rude pushy arrogant prick.Glad we didn't or we would be feeling sick.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If a male messages you and you do not respond you must be playing games or a cock teaser.... WELL HELLO..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Why do men send messages like Fuck me tonight, You horney, Can you blow me later, or i am single but can only meet during the day.. Honestly, and then you wonder why i don't respond...

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'japaniso'curiousnewgirl bang on the head with what pushy is. Story of not so long ago. We met a couple after a short chat and we met at their place for dinner. We had a nice meal and befor we knew it the husband was in the pool naked and saying come on in, the waters warm. The wife was a little reserved and also just wanted to get to know us and was feeling a little embarrassed and said sorry for his actions. We let him play around the pool by himself while we chatted to her and eventually we left. Next day he was sending us rude and abusive letters about leading him and his partner on. I can remember nothing but us saying we will meet but were not into getting into the sack until we were comfortable. I feel his wife would also agree. We feel sorry for her and we wish her luck she was a lovely lady but he was a rude pushy arrogant prick. Glad we didn't or we would be feeling sick. If someone calls us at a private place..we make sure they know that we don't play at first meet..so far it has worked but if someone still try to bully us with rude messages V can get very nasty...V r polite by choice!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We also met this couple in Melbourne a few years back.Seemed like a nice guy when we chatted so why not we said.We met at a coffee shop in the main street.His wife was Japanese so my wife and her got along very good Until my wife asked her how she felt about playing.UMMM well the shit hit the fan.I guess he will never meet another couple where the wife is also Japanese again, lol.I think they maybe divorced too.