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Talking during sex.
June 30 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
drive me nuts, moans and groans are awesome but I can leave talking, I just find it distracting. I was focusing on giving and/or receiving pleasure then the moment is broken by trying to decipher what someone just said .
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't watch porn much maybe that's why I looovvvee dirty talking lovers. Love love love it. The more, the dirtier the better. That said, don't insult me or put me down. That's a real turn off. Op, just stop watching porn.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wonders which role play outfit to bring out for subsea... ... the caveman or the mime
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RHP User
12 years ago
Totally agree with you! Very frustrating when caught up in the moment and you have to stop to say "Sorry, what was that?"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mischieviouslad..... Fck.. I do that WITHOUT trying
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I had a man once (just he once) put his hand over my mouth and told me to shooosh....and I wasn't even talking, well maybe breathing a little heavier than normal - which to me is OK to breathe. LOL....No one tells Foxy to Shoosh and puts a hand over her mouth !! Yep you betch ya I bit it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you awake yet? :-) xQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I had a man once (just he once) put his hand over my mouth and told me to shooosh....and I wasn't even talking, well maybe breathing a little heavier than normal - which to me is OK to breathe. LOL....No one tells Foxy to Shoosh and puts a hand over her mouth !! Yep you betch ya I bit it. You go girl...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Him : Do you want my .... ....Me : What?Him : I love how you suck my .... and make me ....Me : What?Him : I feels so good being in your ... .....Me : What?Him : Yeah baby, like that baby, I'm gonna ...Me : What? I think it's true. Too much sex does make you deaf
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3' Are you awake yet? :-) xQ Ha, that's just what you'd want to hear if there was going to be any talk, for sure. That, or "Are you still awake?"... It's so true though - a bunch of third-rate porn platitudes are hardly going to raise the temperature. And everything ends up sounding like that. The only things worth putting into words are the odd bits of brief "instruction". Though those are better dispensed physically, too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' I think it's true. Too much sex does make you deaf
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank god, I thought it was because of all my masturbating. So I take it I won't go blind anytime soon. Lol.
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Isn't rude to talk with your mouth full?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't mind the grunts and moans or the OH YES or MORE MORE Don't stop, Oh Fuck Yeah.. But to start a conversation or to say something not related to what your doing, Its like wtf ?I must admit though it does put you off your pace... Or is that the intention ?
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madotara69
12 years ago
So I like to suggest what those dirty little secrets are. It's what you say, how and when it is said. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
She said "talk dirty to me!!" Apparently "I shit the bed" was NOT what she had in mind*. * - taken from a meme off Facebook and adapted to make myself appear funny :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't mind a little direction and/or encouragement so I know I am heading on the right direction. There is obviously also the need to ask if it is ok to do certain things before you do them, which can always be made to sound so much better by using the adjectives "dirty", "wet" & "big". But I don't need blow by blow commentary. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
you crack me up dude its people like you that make me keep coming to the forums love your work
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' She said "talk dirty to me!!" I yelled: "Your kitchen!" I like the whole "Fuck, this feels amazing", but that's about as much as I can handle. No questions please, other than "You have any more condoms?"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Appearances can be deceptive.
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twintownjack
12 years ago
Do you want them talking in your ear when your partner has an accent.....?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Omg, I'm so in the minority!! Oh well... A neat anagram and true for me - tremendous sex / extreme sounds
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was so ambivalent about this man....he was incredibly skilful but omg there was a running dialogue,including lots of yumm,yumm,yums,oh my gods you were madefor this!!....etc non stop....I was completely speechless...somehow I don't think it mattered because he was in a zone of his own xQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
bet that's the last time he said shooosh on ya foxy...
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you yelled "your kitchen" chances are; I'd reply with a little whisper "it's not mine, and I have no idea who's it is ;)" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't mind him talking dirty in my ear, just don't expect a sensible reply from me while I'm concentrating. Sometimes I will blurt out something in between orgasms..... maybe a white lie LOL - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I'd be fucked if someone put a gag ball over my mouth and a blind fold as well as no whispers of sweet nothings in my ear - I don't think I could handle just heavy breathing sort of dead silence. I'd be afraid they'd have a cardio arrest or somefink!!! *shuddddders at the very thought* Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Thank god, I thought it was because of all my masturbating. So I take it I won't go blind anytime soon. Lol. I thought masturbating makes you grow hair on the palms of your hand. No wonder I know so little about the birds and the bees. Mum has a lot to answer for
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MissBishere
12 years ago
I don't like questions, I generally have my mouth full and cant answer anyway so don't interrupt me. Happy for him to talk dirty though and give clear instructions, I like instructions.Its very rare that I would say anything much though, I'm really not a big talker apart from "yes, yes, that's its, don't fucking stop"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Doing it silence is sort if a fantasy of mine... I'd love to meet a girl ! Just the head nod and smile ;) no name nor a single word spoken... Then we take each other as the sounds of pleasure is the only sounds heard :)) We part ways at the end still not a word spoken... It's a challenge but maybe one day lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never really got into the dirty talk whilst having sex ? More about body movement a and sounds:) Turn off anything that sounds like fake porn lol Never really got into porn either
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' Him : Do you want my .... ....Me : What?Him : I love how you suck my .... and make me ....Me : What?Him : I feels so good being in your ... .....Me : What?Him : Yeah baby, like that baby, I'm gonna ...Me : What? I think it's true. Too much sex does make you deaf love it :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
A womans biggest sex organ sits between their ears.It is what you say and when you say it that can make a big difference.Just sayin,,,:p
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RHP User
12 years ago
but I agree the cliche "I bet you like that you dirty girl" sort of stuff is a bit embarrassing. Sometimes when I feel up to it, I'll ad-lib a full fantasy scenario story, and not just the sex part. The story always has the woman I am having sex with as the main character and she usually ends up having some kind of illicit / dangerous / surprise sex scenario. And I don't just start with a sex scene I'll do the full setup that leads into the situation and I'll describe scenes and what characters look like and stuff. I get a kick out of it because I have total control over what she is doing in the story and that feels deliciously naughty for me. If I want her to be standing in a bar queue at a packed nightclub next to some totally hot guy then she is and if I want her to surreptitiously bump up against him and cop a lingering feel his hard cock through his tight denim jeans while looking the other way and pretending nothing is happening, then I can because I'm telling the story. As for the whole can't hear what their saying thing, I'll usually do this whispering directly into an ear while nibbling at it between sentences. But yeah I don't always feel up to it, it's a bit of a "creative performance" all on it's own to be making this sort of story up totally off the cuff while I go along and I need to feel like comfortable that I am not going to be judged to closely on it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Less talking and more moaning ! If you dont have to moan, keep quiet. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' She said "talk dirty to me!!" Apparently "I shit the bed" was NOT what she had in mind*. * - taken from a meme off Facebook and adapted to make myself appear funny :) - Posted from rhpmobile You are hilarious - always luvin your comments!
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RHP User
12 years ago
In the heat of the moment , I've been known to cradle her face look her straight in the eye and tell her how good fucking her tight / big wet pussy / cunt feels... If she squirms and give me the fuck me harder command I'm libel to say anything, but never, ever a running commentary. You usually get a feel for the lady who like s a lil talk and those who don't..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Absolutely.... I may appear to be funny in the outside; but deep down I just want to be cuddled lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'twintownjack' Do you want them talking in your ear when your partner has an accent.....? That is even worse, I would prefer a foreign tongue where I don't have to understand what they are saying, lol. Although I did ask a guy to talk to me in Greek once, sounded brutal, not sexy, lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta3'lots of yumm,yumm,yums Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'somefink!!! Both words would get someone kicked of my bed immediately.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
I once was with a man and he was so quiet, no moaning nor a peep, while having sex and I have to stop occasionally when I was riding him to make sure I have not given him a heart attack! Shit. times like these make me think I should have paid more attention to my CPR/first aid course rather than fantasizing on the hot ambo instructor. :( - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Yes please... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
it is doing less kissing, licking, sucking and nibbling
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twintownjack
12 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'twintownjack' Do you want them talking in your ear when your partner has an accent.....? That is even worse, I would prefer a foreign tongue where I don't have to understand what they are saying, lol. Although I did ask a guy to talk to me in Greek once, sounded brutal, not sexy, lol. Wouldn't you prefer knowing exactly what the tongue was saying (if you know what i mean)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hindsight is a wonderful thing....there was no return visit:-) xQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
*puts on his Ritchie Benaud voice* Yes, welcome back to amory for the 10th time today. The players have just finished tea and are making their way back to the centre of the bed; and while doing so we'll recap on the conditions for today's marvellous play. The pitch itself holding up well despite the a couple cracks starting to open up and rightfully so too; it'll help to make this afternoons play just that little bit more exciting to see balls that are faced bouncing all over the place. And I can tell you there's nothing quite like facing a couple of balls from those members end either..... Ok players are set, and we'll cross over to the centre now for the start of play, in just a few moments. :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Speaking in tongues. Lol. I do speak in different languages at Times. Just last week I spoke dirty in spanish (mi abuela would be shocked) with this gorgeous man and he just got more turned on. Lol.got me giggling. The other time I spoke French with another guy and that drove him crazy. My french tuition in Montreal and Paris have borne fruits. Dir-teee!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
theres nothing hotter than a bit of dirty talk.. but dont like being called a slut or a whore or a c*** when ur doing it!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd hope the lady is too busy cumming and moaning for too much chat! Although one ex liked to talk occasionally, about fantasies such as a threesome with her best friend! That could be very hot!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ill just settle for "roughly taken" mmmmmmm
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Seachange73
12 years ago
"Babe can you move to the left a bit so I can check the final score? " Dirty! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's why doggie is so much better.... We can both watch the tv together and I've got somewhere to place my can ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bridie73
12 years ago
Love my miss's talking dirty to me. Fuck what a turn on - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nope, totally disagree! All for it... The dirtier and more descriptive the better! If you can't hear what they said, then maybe they just need to say it louder! lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just talk all the time. I can't help it. Although being asked 'what' would shut me up. If you didn't hear, you've just got to roll with it. I don't like dirty talk per se though. That much concentration just drains blood away from the good bits. Accents are always sexy and screwing without ever exchanging a word would be really, really hot. I could buy into that fantasy. I have two games I like to play during sex. One is who can hold a normal daily conversation during sex the longest. First to mess up, looses. The second a bit more fucked up. You'd only do it with someone who got off on how weird it is. Basically you just tell them (facetiously of course) how terrible the sex is, generally while looking very unimpressed. Imagine screwing Blackboard from Mr. Squiggle! If they can come, they win. It's a special brand of intimacy mine ;) Luckily my partner's similarly wired :) Xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It turns me on more to hear a guy moan and groan.. It just tells me I'm doing a great job. But it's Definitely a turn off if his louder that me though lol :) I love the dirty talk, just not ott. Because then i then have to concentrate on not busting out laughing haha
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hate it . The sweet talk , the moaning and groaning, ive been around and I know what that all means, I also hate phone sex tooo. Gee I think im feeling my age...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am not religious but god certainly gets a mention a lot and the F word is usually somewhere near it , for a man of the cloth he certainly gets around :O)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I Mrs Bella love my dirty talk ( but in a sensual way)also drives Mr Bella crazy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know just what to say just like you know when to say it. Respond to each other in realness, not porn talk. Ask things like if they like it. You want more.? The gentle ones your with, if they would like to move you to another position. (The rough sex ones you don't have to ask ;). My point is, everyone's not the same, and porn talk is like professional wrestling. 'Fake'. It's all in your 'Tease Pack'. Some of you must have done it with people that have to work on the technic. But I have not had a problem talking dirty or having a response. Practice makes perfect in any situation. Hope this helps.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
While doing doggy, I'd say "Honey not too rough, I'm reviewing our Christmas card list" Kidding - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ive had to ask a few girls after sleeping with them if they had Tourettes syndrome or not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...sweet statistics in her ear. That's what I'm talking about.
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Tart_Du_Jour
12 years ago
My favourite thing to talk about in bed the first time I'm with a gentleman caller is what names we are going to call our kids. Then if things are getting really hot what schools I would like to send them to.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jessica_Rabbit_x' I have two games I like to play during sex. One is who can hold a normal daily conversation during sex the longest. First to mess up, looses. The second a bit more fucked up. You'd only do it with someone who got off on how weird it is. Basically you just tell them (facetiously of course) how terrible the sex is, generally while looking very unimpressed. Imagine screwing Blackboard from Mr. Squiggle! If they can come, they win. It's a special brand of intimacy mine ;) Luckily my partner's similarly wired :) Xx I've never done these but I totally understand where you are coming from, and I think it would be totally hot. It's a special kind of intimacy when you can be brutally offensive to someone and they love it and dish it straight back at you. It means that you are so in sync that there is absolutely no fear of rejection on either side no matter what you say.
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RHP User
12 years ago
To funny
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CaptMoonlite
12 years ago
I generally run through a proposed batting order of the Australian cricket team including those sweet statistics but this often ends up in a loud argument because I stand by my belief that Watson is a dick farmer.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
Thunderstorms heighten my sexual pleasure.....please go check out this forum this is where you belong http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Calling-all-WA-men-45440
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have you seen a fish Called Wanda,hilariousxQ
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Oui, Oui. Bien sur, One of my fav. A cult classic when Archie seduces Wanda via a striptease...Russian has not sounded so sexy until then... I love Italian and it is a very sexy language. My next language to learn and master.... That is why I giggle when I see the effect on men as I thought it only happens in the movies.... Life immitates art or vice versa?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do get talkative at times....That's usually when there is no cock in my mouth so....not my fault. :-) I keep telling my lover to keep me occupied.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' I once was with a man and he was so quiet, no moaning nor a peep, while having sex and I have to stop occasionally when I was riding him to make sure I have not given him a heart attack! Shit. times like these make me think I should have paid more attention to my CPR/first aid course rather than fantasizing on the hot ambo instructor. :( - Posted from rhpmobile That is just as off putting.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
A portable Defibrillator, place 2 drawer bedside table - in case of emergency. I bet that would wake the poor bugger up! Foxy
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' A portable Defibrillator, place 2 drawer bedside table - in case of emergency. I bet that would wake the poor bugger up! Foxy ahhhh. So funny. Yes it would. If only they would legalize tazers. the fun i would have with them...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love a bit of dirty talk! Never enjoyed it until I met the right person but now.... Ooooh! Knowing that hot words turn your partner on & in turn, turning yourself on more... I'm just horny at the thought ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Take it slow for starters and play along with the forplay otherwise if you're just in it for the sex (like skipping the for play) then there really is no reason to hear the other person completely just use your imagination to come up with the rest of the missed words and hope it doesn't get awkward when you misunderstood them =x its what I do ;)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Heheh @ the very thought of a Tazer and wearing a cop dress up out fit! Zap that somewhere and the nerves would come to life! Foxy
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Seachange73
12 years ago
ddefinitely. I asked hum if he was ok and if I was boring him. He said "I'm just in a zone when i have sex". Errr. More like twilight zone! Yawn. I thought I was boring him and he fell asleep. Hahaha. I certainly not that bad. Lol. Subject for another thread... X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can't relate to people that make no sound at all?! Its not normal and makes you think you're doing something wrong. Its all good - moaning, groaning, sexy talk, sexy talk in a any latin language is super hot!
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RHP User
12 years ago
abit of dirty talk is fine,but recently met someone who never shuts up i was waiting for him to start telling me about his day while having sex , if only he went down on me abit more he might have been quiet for 5 mins.and then when not having sex still doesnt shut up ,so glad that one is gone>>>>> next. and they say women talk to much some men could talk under water.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Actions speak louder than words dirty talks ok during foreplay my mouth is way too busy during sex but in saying all of that nothing gets me off quicker than moans and crys of pleasure mmmmm lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm afraid I like a bit of dirty talk, especially from the lady involved, some moaning and sighs of pleasure as well so that I know I'm doing things right and when I finally "pop the the cork" I'm quite verbal myself, a lady recently remarked that it was great to hear a man "letting go", It's not something I plan, it just happens after a long session of foreplay etc. Cheers P.L.
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Plain280
11 years ago
Moaning and making all the right noises and the odd request maybe, and possibly the odd OMG, but talking suggests to me the body and the mind is elsewhere. Me I am into concentrating on being a cross between a very attentive passionate slow lover,kisser and fondler and stroker to the right moment, most of the times, to being, have to pinch the Caveman,s line here a caveman some of the time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's awesome when a woman has a dirty mouth but I hate it because it makes me cum to early, leave it till the end lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Anything hot and spontaneous is arousing to me, lost in the moment stuff, spontanious " god your pussy is so fucking wet, I want to fill you up with my big cock"…or from me things like " fuck your cock feels so good in me, open me up, fuck me deeper" ………..…….however having a man lay on me telling me a dirty story is a whispery type scenario does not do it for me at all…….neither does having a man call me a dirty whore/slut etc………I'm not offended by those terms, just not aroused. To each their own I say, however for me, when things happened through primal desire and being lost in arousal, that is when I like dirty talk.
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Spontaneous, quick quips about something feeling good, yes please, tell me. A narrative, of sorts, please STOP. I also love sexy/dirty text talk, but again spontaneous and inventive please. Mary xx
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