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Take the sex out of it
September 08 2013
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Except for when I was at an all girls school and so had no contact with boys. So my answer is yes, take the sex out and I can have frank, honest and fun conversations with blokes. As long as someone's on my wavelength or has a good sense of humour I find it easy to relate.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you take the sex out of it, men make great friends for women and the other way around.One of my daughters has a swag of gay friends so yes you can be friends with the opposite sexBut once sex raises its ugly head things can turn to shit in no time at all.For good sex all you need is chemistry, that is why you can fuck a stranger you don't even know if you like them or not.Fucking is the easy part.Developing a relationship is a whole different ball game, and that is why today its hard for people to find a relationship.most men and women that have been burnt , just op out for sex , yet deep down they want more than sexits a bit of a paradox at times.That guy or that girl you want, is only in the movies
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RHP User
12 years ago
just everybody's friend
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would prefer a male's company over a woman's to be honest. I only have a couple of close girlfriends, who i dont see often, but have males who i talk weekly to-not necessarily about sex
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RHP User
12 years ago
They don't talk about sport too much (I'd rather play than watch and never on a TV) Don't drink too much and get so belligerent as men Do stupid things in packs when drunk (sure a good challenge can be mounted) I've found my closest friends have been women rather than men!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm better at being an awesome best female friend, cause I really suck at being girlfriend/partner. FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
With or without sex. With strawberry topping is even better.
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
I love men, not just sexually but have always had lots of male friends although I do believe that gets harder as I get older. I was a Tom boy when I was a child which meant I felt equal to boys/men (probably didn't reciprocate but never saw or thought that), in a social situation I would rather talk sport, outdoors, reno's or sex, then I realised I wasn't seen an equal therefore became a strong feminist and had lots of gay friends...... I was never a girlie girl or princess but have a small tight group of female friends who understand me......!!!! Love funny kind chicks!! Did I also mention I am an outrageous flirt!!!!!! ;))
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do we like people?? Coming from someone who has for the best part of 4 years now, lived out of a suitcase, city after city, with very few friends to actually interact with, share stuff with then the answer is yes. Loneliness is a C.O.A.T that eats away at anyone like a cancer that's terminal. Hence why I don't look for orgasms, but merely contact that messages, and phone calls etc just don't offer. There I said it :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I worked in a male dominated industry for many many years. Take the sex out of it and men talk about things that interest me. I have never learnt the games that women play and there have been times when this has been a disadvantage yes. I just for the life of me I can not be poor helpless woman.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I work in a female dominated workplace but I choose to spend more time away from work with great male friends. I get enough bitchy stuff at work and my male friends don't buy into that sort of thing. Give me a great male friend any day. :-)
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Can I have the sausage pic please??? Loved the morning with you and Freya!! Me I can count my female friends in under 10 fingers, and half of them are RHP Ladies who I am so thankful for. In relation to the question OP, I have been fortunate to have alot of make friends abd acquaintances whom I am proud to call friends and even prouder stillthat they consider me in the same light. Completely platonic relationships which I calue and enjoy immensely. Only a couple have become Lovers and this was prior to my marriageabd thise men are still in my life today as "friends without benefits". I'm a man's woman and as my mother once said in one of our discussions about why "most women in the workplace" don't like me, she as a publican for 20yrs and business woman for another 35+ simply said, "You're just like me in that regard. I have always preferred the company of men. I'd rather talk football than have morning tea chatting about what's happening with the celebs in Woman's Weekly." I don't but women's magazines and much prefer the paperback westerns my co-workers would leave for me to read and chat about thier latest fishing/camping/powertool acquisition or adventure. I love men, they make the best friends. I might also add I love the current ladies in my life too.....just sayin'. :) much love Indy On Safari cos I'm gonna need you all to keep me on the "up" soon....riding the highs and lows of love and marriage lost and newfound freedom gained. A bit excited, a bit scared, a bit sad and going to be a bit lonely at times too I imagine.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
"SNAP"
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is unfair and somewhat selfish to bring any 'past negative interpretations' about a 'past shitty happening' into a relationship you have today. Did your partner of today bring any with her?.Similar foul event happens such as yours happen to others too. And worse. But your doubt and fears exist today for a happening in the past. You cannot change the happening - it's in the past. You can, however change your interpretation of the event and give up all that hurt and mistrust in women. Do it NOW! Right NOW. Choose to be over it and put it in the past where it belongs. It is defining who you are in aspects of your character labeling you "Damaged Goods"..If you cannot give up the victim story and choose indifference/acceptance about this unpleasant betrayal - I assert there is some pay-off for you being this way..Man-up and choose a future. Now live into it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... And female company, either with or without sex but take the sex away and yup, I'm there.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is male. I have told him I consider him my best (girl) friend. No, he is not gay. He is just my best buddy and I love him to bits. Never had sex with him and never will.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, I love female friends, I have a few male friends, and apart from them I'm probably closer to their wives or my other female friends. I never really "got" the blokey scene... Lady Tuscan, are your daughters gay friends really of the opposite sex ? Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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madotara69
12 years ago
We have ,three friends we have had sex with, one was a long time ago, and two walked in on us, hehe. That was the end of that, but is started out hot. Otherwise we have had a fantastic life with many sexy friends. It is so enjoyable to be around others who are comfortable to feel sexy, that is way more important than having sex with them. And if we have sex with them, then they are still way more important than sex.Oh, one we will see again, two we caught up with recently and three was from here.Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ding26' I would prefer a male's company over a woman's to be honest. I only have a couple of close girlfriends, who i dont see often, but have males who i talk weekly to-not necessarily about sex Same here. I find males much more straightforward and hassle-free.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden'Take the sex out of it and men talk about things that interest me. I have never learnt the games that women play and there have been times when this has been a disadvantage yes.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Men and women....regardless of if i am having sex with them, or desire to ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
My circle of friends (non sexual) is very well balanced at the moment though I find it easier to make friends with Women than Men and then seem to make friends with the woman's other half latterly... don't ask cause I don't know why but this is how all my good friendships have started.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Do we like people?? Coming from someone who has for the best part of 4 years now, lived out of a suitcase, city after city, with very few friends to actually interact with, share stuff with then the answer is yes. Loneliness is a C.O.A.T that eats away at anyone like a cancer that's terminal. Hence why I don't look for orgasms, but merely contact that messages, and phone calls etc just don't offer. There I said it :p- Posted from rhpmobile Take your coat off, and put your suitcase down, Sirlurk, if you ever come to Perth.
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