M60
TO FLIRT or to NOT to FLIRT
April 28 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
There's a strong school of thought which believes that you need more than a flirt to gain interest.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Disregard flirts in general. Not everyone though. And if a guest flirts me i may message them. BUT If a paid member flirts me, i think i am not worth enough for one of their precious messages. 10 cents? So they can fuck off.
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RHP User
10 years ago
"If I send you a message, would you reply?" That lets me take a look at their profile first and I will reply accordingly. All other flirts get ignored, I'm sorry to say. I do appreciate them but it would take too long to reply to each one. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I rarely ever get them, the last one was way back in Feb (this year). Just a passing ship in the night acknowledging and thumbs upping my profile, went no further.Oh well back to the old tug boat. :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes and no to that. Lots of people use flirts to gauge interest without either party potentially being hurt/offended by personal messages. I am finding, now that I'm a paid member, most times I'll message straight away, but that decision is based on a few factors. Being a woman, I figure guys who are guests, will mostly appreciate being messaged by a woman, if not, they can just ignore. But flip the gender and I'm not sure if flirts aren't a better idea from men first. I would much rather receive a flirt than a message, that way it's less personal until I choose to make it personal. Important for new members and others who might not realise, it's commonly assumed women don't look at all flirts because they get so many. Firstly, I don't get a massive amount, but they come in bursts and it can be a time issue looking at them. On busy traffic days lol I go into the person's profile, if I'm not interested, I rarely open the flirt to see which one it is, so it will appear as though the flirt has been ignored, not the case. I say flirt or message if you so choose, but don't be offended if you don't get a reply. Just remember no-one owes you anything, entirely your choice, same with messages I send. I don't get offended if they don't reply. But nothing wrong with sending flirts 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
When you say you ignore flirts, you're not ignoring the profiles though are you, or are you? I don't reply to flirts or messages if I'm not interested but always look at the profiles so not worried about that, but do you look at the profiles? I sometimes lose guys when they've given me their number and I say I'll text the following day if it's late, then the message gets pushed down and I can't remember who they were, had a few slip through the cracks 😊
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do ignore most profiles who send me flirts, unless the pic captures my attention. I love a good perve 😁 But as I'm not actively looking, I hardly ever check out profiles unless they send me a message. And I do reply to all messages unless it's the persistent, "Could I have a perve of your private galleries?" then they're instantly ignored. You'll be amazed how many times the persistent ones will come back again with a "Hi, how are you?". I can be a real bitch, but I'm a really nice bitch 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is to message.....because flirts can never project my personality with the options that are given. I also think that it shows confidence in me as well.... And lastly, I'm not messaging to get a fuck, I'm messaging with the intention to connect....which is impossible with flirts.....the sex will follow all on its own.... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
the flirts are funny 'show us ya Brazilian' or whatever, though that one needs modernising 'show us ya crack' lol I used to have so much fun with them, guest to guest continual flirting back and forward sometimes, giggling like a naughty little girl
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'tulips4u' "If I send you a message, would you reply?" That lets me take a look at their profile first and I will reply accordingly. All other flirts get ignored, I'm sorry to say. I do appreciate them but it would take too long to reply to each one. - Posted from rhpmobile This is also what I do. In fact I prefer it over a message because it lets me say a very polite "no thank you" if I'm not interested and then the sender has not wasted a message.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ailyntara' Quoting 'tulips4u' "If I send you a message, would you reply?" That lets me take a look at their profile first and I will reply accordingly. All other flirts get ignored, I'm sorry to say. I do appreciate them but it would take too long to reply to each one. - Posted from rhpmobile This is also what I do. In fact I prefer it over a message because it lets me say a very polite "no thank you" if I'm not interested and then the sender has not wasted a message. Good on you Ailyntara for considering the needs of others :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I'm relying on them at the mo and it's going pretty good I have to say but could be better! Tempted to go the "full monty" (member) as there's a couple or so I'd love to contact! But you do get a few members who put me right off making that next step. We shall see..... By the way "good topic!" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
From my experience, which is little, they get ignored but I also think it's because I'm a guest. Messages are the way to go!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
So to give some idea of how things can get busy with flirts, I just checked and I have 24, one guy sent me 9, another 3 and another 2. The rest are all from different people and I haven't yet looked at any, so it can get busy. God knows how many the young chicks get. I don't always get this many, don't know what's in the water at the moment, messages have been full on too. Is it the excitement of the football season starting, does that make guys horny If so, bring it on
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
If a profile takes your fancy, gove it your best shot. You only get one go. If you are a premium member you get 5 a day. So select the most worthy. Flirts l perceive they are firing like a gattling gun. No thought. Just hopeful bliss with a dick in the hand. Way i see it anyway. I never/rarely chase so i am a receiver. Of everything really..........
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Disregard flirts in general. Not everyone though. And if a guest flirts me i may message them. BUT If a paid member flirts me, i think i am not worth enough for one of their precious messages. 10 cents? So they can fuck off. Sending you a flirt now.... check your mailbox.....
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sweetgem
10 years ago
How would you know if people you are messaging aren't interested in you without messaging them first? I know where you're coming from by sending flirt first to test the water. But that could be your chance killer to certain people. Well, at least it is for me. I often pass up a profile if I see that the man can send messages, but chooses to send flirt instead, even if it's a well written profile! Why?......well, it is effort that I look for and his willingness to lose one messaging access for the day (without knowing if I would reply back or not) tells me that he is worth to spend some time to get to know him. 24 hours are gone and come again in the speed of a rocket, so if a man is not even willing to take a chance in the 24 hour timeframe that he sends me a flirt, then I am not convinced that he would be willing to make much efforts later on to get to know me before we hit the bedroom! Thus, sending flirt to me while a man has the access to send messages doesn't sit well with me :) Therefore, my answer to your question is, DO NOT send flirts when you can send messages! But that is me and I don't speak for anyone here :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Thanks for the 6 flirts. You've saved yourself 10 cents. Very thrifty. And you got a message to boot. Now if only it doesnt go in the unmatched folder, i might not waste my 10 cents and l get another hot date.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
What???? There's a group reply???? Omg, that'd be a time saver ☺
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' So to give some idea of how things can get busy with flirts, I just checked and I have 24, one guy sent me 9, another 3 and another 2. The rest are all from different people and I haven't yet looked at any, so it can get busy. God knows how many the young chicks get. I don't always get this many, don't know what's in the water at the moment, messages have been full on too. Is it the excitement of the football season starting, does that make guys horny If so, bring it on Touch, pretty sure it is YOU and not the football season that make men horny
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im not actively looking atm but when I received flirts from guests Ive checked out the profiles to see it they were compatible. Some guys join as a guest to see what all the hype is about then usually join up as a paid member. Ive had a couple of guys join up so they could send me a message before after endless flirting which was sweet. But paid members sending flirts...I cant understand that. I think the flirt system is a good ice breaker, some guys ARE very shy and Ive had the "if I send you a message will you reply" one a few times. I think they are useful in context but Id much rather receive a ( friendly ) message?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Im not actively looking atm but when I received flirts from guests Ive checked out the profiles to see it they were compatible. Some guys join as a guest to see what all the hype is about then usually join up as a paid member. Ive had a couple of guys join up so they could send me a message before after endless flirting which was sweet. But paid members sending flirts...I cant understand that. I think the flirt system is a good ice breaker, some guys ARE very shy and Ive had the "if I send you a message will you reply" one a few times. I think they are useful in context but Id much rather receive a ( friendly ) message? I will just send you a "Thumbs Up"
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RHP User
10 years ago
You cant catch a fish with out a decent line, well you can, but its usually inedible. I rarely respond to guests.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think quite often guys will fish with a flirt first. "If a female doesnt respond to a flirt, she probably wont respond to a message" way of thinking. ( Which is opposite to what most women have said on here)From what guys have told me, and what I read here, there isnt a lot of return messages/flirts from the girls. And now that I have reverted back to guest status, I will send a flirt if I want to chat with a profile. Works from the female perspective...surprise! 😳
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' I think quite often guys will fish with a flirt first. "If a female doesnt respond to a flirt, she probably wont respond to a message" way of thinking. ( Which is opposite to what most women have said on here)From what guys have told me, and what I read here, there isnt a lot of return messages/flirts from the girls. And now that I have reverted back to guest status, I will send a flirt if I want to chat with a profile. Works from the female perspective...surprise! 😳 Now, why is that! LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' You cant catch a fish with out a decent line, well you can, but its usually inedible. I rarely respond to guests.. EWWWWW Inedible is always nasty - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
There is no right or wrong for sending out flirts to test the water first. It is a strategy of what feels right or worthwhile for the sender I suppose. I have sent flirts to men whose profiles caught my eyes, just to compliment on their efforts for writing up a good profile instead of using the template ones. But my intention is merely to give compliment and no more, that's why I send flirt instead of message. In another word, I use the flirts for when I have zero interest in hooking up with the person, otherwise messaging is always the way to go with me 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' And now that I have reverted back to guest status, I will send a flirt if I want to chat with a profile. Works from the female perspective...surprise! Of course it will work, hot shot... unless you ''dress up'' your lead profile picture wearing a baggy hoody, sunnies and track suit pants that look they belonged in last week's laundry! Besides, you've got 100% of the criteria that the average man searches... you're female and seemingly breathe without assistance! Luv ya, gorgeous woman...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Criteria is pretty simple.... Having a vagina. 😆
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RHP User
10 years ago
Love your shoes... spots...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I never look at my winks or flirts at all. Only if I have received notification that I have rec'd one from someone I know or might know from this chat forum. To all the men, do you ever look to see if your flirts have been read? I noticed when I went into the flirt screen they all changed colour to read even though I hadn't looked or opened any of them. So I was wondering, men may think women are reading their flirts when they may not be at all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Criteria is pretty simple.... Having a vagina. 😆 ...can I please borrow yours, even if just for one night? Promise, I will take really good care of....... it!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Isn't a group reply a bit arrogant or disrespectful, and I don't mean that in a nasty way, but in the sense that most men probably already feel like a number on here. We surely don't want to be throwing them to the kerb en masse. Where's the harm in sending a flirt as initial interest? I get flirts from paying members but don't assume it's because they don't want to use one of their messages for the day. I assume they're being considerate and not pushing themselves on me, that is until interest is returned. Most would be happy to send a message but are just gauging interest with the intention of messaging when and if it's appropriate. So to explain my feelings on that more, for me, it's a bit like text vs phone call. I'd rather receive text messages in the early stages of communication, less intrusive and easier to respond to when you have time. If you're busy, there will be a message waiting there for you, it also allows time to consider a response. That's how I feel about flirts. It puts the ball in our court, or vice versa if I've sent one. Interesting though that I don't send flirts anymore. I just send a message, but I've not long been a paid member so still deciding which way to go. I might change that up a bit and use the 'if I sent you a message would you reply'. It does depend on whether they're a guest or not, but it's interesting to know how others feel about flirts. There's no one set method that will be right for each person
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' I never look at my winks or flirts at all. Only if I have received notification that I have rec'd one from someone I know or might know from this chat forum. To all the men, do you ever look to see if your flirts have been read? I noticed when I went into the flirt screen they all changed colour to read even though I hadn't looked or opened any of them. So I was wondering, men may think women are reading their flirts when they may not be at all. this happens to me sometimes. If I'm on the flirt page, then click into my message inbox, then go back into flirts, all the unread flirts change colour so I don't know which ones I've read. When there's lots there, they can and quite often do get lost in the system, so good point
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'LUVORALFUN' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' So to give some idea of how things can get busy with flirts, I just checked and I have 24, one guy sent me 9, another 3 and another 2. The rest are all from different people and I haven't yet looked at any, so it can get busy. God knows how many the young chicks get. I don't always get this many, don't know what's in the water at the moment, messages have been full on too. Is it the excitement of the football season starting, does that make guys horny If so, bring it on Touch, pretty sure it is YOU and not the football season that make men horny after 5 hours sleep, pretty sure it wouldn't be me today anyone wants sex today, not a hope, must leave the cucumber slices on for a bit longer yet
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RHP User
10 years ago
I very rarely respond to flirts. For someone like me who has the attention span of a two year old it takes more than a flirt to catch my interest
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RHP User
10 years ago
a group reply to flirts is arrogant. It just saves time and people still get a response. Hek they wouldn't even know it's a group reply. I'm probably arrogant for not even reading them and just hitting the delete button. Go me 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' a group reply to flirts is arrogant. It just saves time and people still get a response. Hek they wouldn't even know it's a group reply. I'm probably arrogant for not even reading them and just hitting the delete button. Go me 😂 We are all more than entitled to do as we please in our own lives.Different bait for different fish - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Now I remember why I'm still in two minds wheather to become a paid member! Some of you crack me up on here! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
I don't read nor answer flirts. If a man wants to contact me I would appreciate a message or if the flirt is as our an tulips. I would reply, if I have the time. I am a paid member. It is not expensive. I don't send flirts nor do I approach men. Come to think of it. Maybe I am not actively looking as I have enough stuff on my plate. And if a man reads my profile, I specifically tell them not to waste their time sending flirts as I don't read them. I can't be more clear than that.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
I don't read nor answer flirts. If a man wants to contact me I would appreciate a message or if the flirt is as our an tulips. I would reply, if I have the time. I am a paid member. It is not expensive. I don't send flirts nor do I approach men. Come to think of it. Maybe I am not actively looking as I have enough stuff on my plate. And if a man reads my profile, I specifically tell them not to waste their time sending flirts as I don't read them. I can't be more clear than that.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
I don't read nor answer flirts. If a man wants to contact me I would appreciate a message or if the flirt is as our an tulips. I would reply, if I have the time. I am a paid member. It is not expensive. I don't send flirts nor do I approach men. Come to think of it. Maybe I am not actively looking as I have enough stuff on my plate. And if a man reads my profile, I specifically tell them not to waste their time sending flirts as I don't read them. I can't be more clear than that.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
I don't know what happened there. Sorry. Bit trigger happy to get my point across. 😁 Or just getting the shakes. Excited to meet my fwb tonight in some funky bar in the city. Lots of flirting there. 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd prefer to flirt first that way if there is no reply there's no interest, but if I send a well thought message and I took time to right it and there's no reply that pisses me off because it is free to reply even if it is a no thank you, this take a hint bs just shows you're ignorant - Posted from rhpmobile
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hotdelights
10 years ago
We think if u look at the profile. And pics on public look ..see if some attraction there .. then swap pics which will happen ...... .....why bother about flirting
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
You like my spotted boots? You should seem them combined with my spotted teddy and spotted crutchless panties........ Gawd...........do they make em? Candy. You wanna sell ya spotted bra?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Back on topic. OP. You havnt sent me any flirts for a while.......?
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RHP User
10 years ago
😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
..after seeing your pictures. 👅 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
As a couple we do send flirts..as well as messages..if the female likes what she sees she will reply..we have sent both..and it really doesn't mattet either way if she isn't interested she won't reply 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you like it respond with a msg or a flirt. If you don't like it your dance card is full. It's not hard - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
i dont mind which is sent first and i will generally reply either way
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Dorey12
10 years ago
Quoting 'Whynot02' From my experience, which is little, they get ignored but I also think it's because I'm a guest. Messages are the way to go!!! Messages tend to get ignored too from my experience.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I sometimes send flirts to say that I like a person's profile or to pay them a complement. Mostly I have no intention of messaging or meeting them. It's just a complement. I don't send any of the 'I want to fuck you messages', to people that i have not already chatted to or met - at least not from memory. I save messaging for people that I have met or want to get to know better. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Isn't a group reply a bit arrogant or disrespectful, and I don't mean that in a nasty way, but in the sense that most men probably already feel like a number on here. We surely don't want to be throwing them to the kerb en masse. Out of the flirts I get, about 95% get the "No thanks" response. I do check out all profiles before replying, and the guys/couples don't see the response they get is part of a group reply. g the "No thanks" response to all of them separately, and why would it be disrespectful? It's disrespectful IMHO if the flirts aren't even being looked at, as with some women as shown here, and it sounded to me from what you've said, that you yourself don't look at flirts or don't respond to them. Didn't you say you don't respond to flirts? So now you're saying you do look at them. What's the point if you're not going to respond anyway. I'm the one who's confused here
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RHP User
10 years ago
maybe I'm getting you mixed up with someone else. I thought you'd said you don't reply to flirts
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hardnslow
10 years ago
why did you block me for sending you a flirt a simple no would have done. I am a big boy I can take a knockback lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Flirt or not! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Travel_Bug
10 years ago
This is a great thread. Being relatively new here my initial take was to ignore the flirts and make the effort and send a message, as awkward as it can be to break the ice in that way. At least that shows that you've put a bit of thought into what to say, not just the 'click, click and done' of a flirt. But after looking at various points of view here I'm starting to rethink this. There's a range of account types and also a broad spectrum of personality types, and that will effect the way that people hope to interact. It might be a good time for me to sit down and review my profile to make sure that it's clear how to interact with me if people wish to do so. Some of you are already very clear about this in your profiles (which is great), but maybe others could do the same? I do find most of the flirts to be very cheesy, but that's the point isn't it? I do wish there were a few more that were purely complimentary (something more than the 'I just wanted to say that I loved your profile'), so that you could show appreciation to someone even if there is no likelihood or desire for anything else (location, don't meet the criteria that they have set). Giving and getting a genuine compliment is never a bad thing right? So I just send a short message instead.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get a lot of "flirts". I have stopped replying to them. I prefer to reply to the people that have actually taken the time to think of something after reading my profile and write to me over someone who has effortlessly selected a pre made message. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I always return a flirt , with the exception only of the " I just wanted to say I liked your profile" which I really don't understand. What does that even mean?? But seriously, do some people get that much attention that they can't return a flirt, even with a "no thank you"? wow, lucky them!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am appreciating all the feedback from those who send and those who receive flirts. I believe every should do as they see fit. I find it "interesting" that some people take the time to open flirts and read messages and not reply. But hey, free country :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Didn't you say you don't respond to flirts? So now you're saying you do look at them. What's the point if you're not going to respond anyway. I'm the one who's confused here I do respond, but sometimes not for a week, as I don't check them that often. The only flirts I don't respond to are the "Love your profile" ones, but I explain why in my profile. Hardnslow, you haven't sent me a flirt, but I have blocked a few men after they flirted me for two reasons: 1. They were married and looking for something discreet on the side (so obviously didn't read, or disrespected my profile)2. I had already told them no several times and they kept sending new flirts. Just my reasons though, maybe the person your post was aimed at will give theirs. Sorry, I should have read back through your initial post. My bad. I block for a variety of reasons, rarely just for flirting but like you, sometimes if they continue to flirt too much and are way outside age or whatever. Usually always other contributing factors, even if they're not aware. That choice is ours and personal, and up to us whether we want someone looking at our profile. I blocked one man who was much older, probably in his 70's, though shown as 60's, little bit of harvesting there but kept flirting and messaging also, he sent me so many message over a long period of time. He looked really nice but I eventually blocked him because it clogs up your inbox and becomes a bit stalkerish. I didn't want to block him but enough was enough. Lots of reasons sorry op, slightly off topic
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RHP User
10 years ago
not knocking anyone in their 70's, I'll be there soon enough but hangin out with the young dudes in their 50's
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find it interesting that some say I will not respond to a guest flirt, put you money where your mouth is etc. I singed up as a platinum member for 6 months, I checked all things RHP and have come to the conclusion that the interesting parts of this site are free. So I did put my money where my mouth was, but now it would seem I am some sort of lower class, because I wont waste my hard earned. Hmmm Odd outlook some have.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'playdate45' I always return a flirt , with the exception only of the " I just wanted to say I liked your profile" which I really don't understand. What does that even mean?? But seriously, do some people get that much attention that they can't return a flirt, even with a "no thank you"? wow, lucky them! Playdate I do have to agree that some people must have something that stop's them from returning flirts. Time, maybe. Ego, defiantly
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Nitrox1' I find it interesting that some say I will not respond to a guest flirt, put you money where your mouth is etc. I singed up as a platinum member for 6 months, I checked all things RHP and have come to the conclusion that the interesting parts of this site are free. So I did put my money where my mouth was, but now it would seem I am some sort of lower class, because I wont waste my hard earned. Hmmm Odd outlook some have. I understand exactly what you mean and have always been understanding of the fact that men have to pay on most of these sites. This is quite often not the only site they're on, there's only so much money it's worth throwing into the investment, I understand that and have always appreciated it, since I was a guest up until recently. There are sites where women don't have to pay, I'm on a cougar site where it's free, I can message, do whatever I like, but the men have to pay for the same privilege. So I've never been one of those who looks down on guest members. People join when they're able, otherwise it's no-one else's business really
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Quoting 'lilyorchid' I don't read nor answer flirts. If a man wants to contact me I would appreciate a message or if the flirt is as our an tulips. Still not sure what you mean? Haha. yes. bit confusing I agree. typoIt should read 'If the flirt was as per Tulip's message'. thanks.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' That wasn't even close! 😂 I know... ... I think my fingers just got lazy and fell asleep.... the typist's version of a 'narcoleptic fingers' EEEEEkkkkk
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'LUVORALFUN' Quoting 'playdate45' Playdate I do have to agree that some people must have something that stop's them from returning flirts. Time, maybe. Ego, defiantly Interesting.. we have given you our reasons. Why judge it as ego as the main culprit? That is presumptuous and judgmental on your part. So if I was very specific in my profile for people to PLEASE not to send a flirt, and they ignored my profile (only skimming the pictures) and decided to send me flirts just the same. Then they expect me to respond and if I did not respond, I am branded rude and egoistic? Who is rude and egoistic in this scenario then? Would that be a case of them feeling entitled?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'LUVORALFUN' Quoting 'playdate45' Playdate I do have to agree that some people must have something that stop's them from returning flirts. Time, maybe. Ego, defiantly Interesting.. we have given you our reasons. Why judge it as ego as the main culprit? That is presumptuous and judgmental on your part. So if I was very specific in my profile for people to PLEASE not to send a flirt, and they ignored my profile (only skimming the pictures) and decided to send me flirts just the same. Then they expect me to respond and if I did not respond, I am branded rude and egoistic? Who is rude and egoistic in this scenario then? Would that be a case of them feeling entitled? Lily, I was empathising with playdate and not branding all people
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im sorry, I very seldom read them let alone return them! I find them all a bit naff 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's just in dna to flirt... Like breathing and drinking water for hydration yeah. Where would we be with out it?? Just my humble take on the topic :)
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Pablo62' It's just in dna to flirt... Like breathing and drinking water for hydration yeah. Where would we be with out it?? Just my humble take on the topic :) I think you missed the point. It is not about the act of flirting. If you refer back to the OP above, the OP's topic was seeking opinion of a more effective technique to engage a target recipient(s). I quote the OP to juggle your memory "I am after people opinion if it is better to FLIRT first or send a MESSAGE? " Cheers
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Pablo62' It's just in dna to flirt... Like breathing and drinking water for hydration yeah. Where would we be with out it?? Just my humble take on the topic :) Pablo, I must say the Mrs is stunning. Oop's my DNA made me do it
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm one of those that often don't want to look like a wanker that sends out endless templates of messages. I send flirts and messages, either way we are sussing out interest from the other side, but I understand women and couples getting tired of both from DH"s so it's a quandary either way, but once you think you might have something more.... the messages start anyway....... Good can come from both.......
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