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Sympathy For the Single Guy.

October 22 2014

After spending 6 years in the scene as part of a couple, I now find myself amongst the single male set. Having a very hot wife made hooking up with people so very easy, even though I am a very fit and toned guy as well. I always enjoyed the social aspect of the swinging scene as well as the sex. I was doubting whether to even put up a single mans profile on here, as I know how hard it must have been for single guys, especially the 40 plus age group. Most women (not all) are after the younger guys I suppose, even though I have never failed a woman in bed ..both younger and similar age. My ex has a single girl profile on here and has been over run with messages, I've had 2 in 2 months lol. I'll battle it out and hopefully find some friendly hot girls who appreciate a mature guy who has looked after himself and knows how to make a girl happy in bed. I'm not really trying to draw sympathy, or boast how good I am... I am just saying I now have sympathy for the single guy.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm calling bullshit :) And I'm not saying there's anything wrong with advertisement....but that's what this is under the guise of pity... Which I might add most guys wouldn't want or need. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Maybe do some better pictures. Change the image a little, and the star over the face does not look good. Just turn your head away if you do not want your face in public profile. Also how old is that one with your hands up? Its your experience that women want, how you think , its no longer the body beautiful so much as what comes with that. I am old , so I know its not my body so much as the laws of attraction I guess good luck I am sure you will do just fine

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I hear you! Keep cracking on though, good things do happen! :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have sympathy for the single guy as well. It really is a buyer's market for women here, which seems to be the opposite of "vanilla" dating sites in my experience. The best thing you can do is stand out from the masses, with interesting messages that are clever, respectful and never titled "hi". You're off to a good start by being a paying member and not having a template profile, though personally I'm really not a fan at all of the phrase "At the risk of sounding vain, I have had more than one woman whisper into my ear that I fuck really well, lol." Good luck!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' though personally I'm really not a fan at all of the phrase "At the risk of sounding vain, I have had more than one woman whisper into my ear that I fuck really well, lol." Those sort of bragging statements about sexual prowess are offputting to me, for a few reasons. And 95% of guys on here have some variation of 'I'm a sex god' in their profile so it gets pretty boring to read. And yes it is difficult on here for single men but posting in the forums will help to get you noticed, which I suspect is one reason you did so (particularly given the remarks about being very fit and toned, and that you've never failed a woman in bed). But hey why not...one of the functions of the forums is self-advertisement and getting yourself noticed, even if some people don't want to admit it

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It would be a buyers market. Question is.....how many are buying, or just looking because they can ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I believe that you'll get back what you put in on here. I don't feel any sympathy for the single guys on here. It also helps to be gorgeous, intelligent and witty but I can only work with what I got.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Funlover71' It also helps to be gorgeous, intelligent and witty but I can only work with what I got. your humbleness and modesty

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool' It would be a buyers market. Question is.....how many are buying, or just looking because they can ? I have got to a point where I am just looking but I don't believe I do it because I can, I feel I have been driven to it by liars. Everyone claiming the same as the OP. I could probably sue for false advertising, lol. I have given and given on this site but when anyone rarely gives back, then it becomes pretty disheartening. I have bought heaps from the market but I only got a bunch of lemons and I got sick of making lemonade.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    perhaps you need to try tarte citron:-) ...OP,perhaps women think that you are only looking for girls...can be confusing for some us...just as if a woman says that she is looking for boys ,you would probably assume she means males under twenty five....you certainly have a pulchritudinous bod OP,which some women may find a tad intimidating ....but then again many would think you were sex on a stick:-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But really I am ok, no sympathy required

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I just had a rush of blood !

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Funlover71' I believe that you'll get back what you put in on here. I don't feel any sympathy for the single guys on here. It also helps to be gorgeous, intelligent and witty but I can only work with what I got. I really like your attitude to life. Your always a nice guy on here and funny. Keep it up...umm the forums I mean

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  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    You've described yourself very well, couldn't have said it better if I tried, I guess that's why you're the Funlover...💋

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Funlover71' It also helps to be gorgeous, intelligent and witty but I can only work with what I got. your humbleness and modesty It just takes some looking to find.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for your input one and all. No offence taken. Yes time for a less intimidating profile shot, and yes "that phrase" does sound like a bit of a wank.. even though it's true lol. I'm taking it off, Cheers.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quote"At the risk of sounding vain, I have had more than one woman whisper into my ear that I fuck really well, lol." Dude..... if they're only whispering it, and not screaming it.... you're not THAT good.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is always equipped with her magnifying glass Fun.I am sure she would be most happy to lend it too you....it has an extra strength lens for finding even the most elusive :-)

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