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Sydney Guys Mentalities
November 26 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Absolutely. I rank respect for a lady/woman WAY up there in the scheme of things.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Take some time to think about it. I don't think it would be Sydney that is the problem, more that you are changing/evolving, perhaps needing more from communication or partners. It can sneak up on you in the sense that you don't notice the change in yourself. That's certainly what happened with me anyway, I'm still trying to figure out what it is I want now, getting sexually frustrated in the process I have to add. The next guy I'm with will be in for a treat 😜
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have similar issues here. Local men are rude & crude or don't want to have a conversation at all. But I go to Bris (or even my short stays in Melbourne) and the guys are completely different! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Might explain a bit why I can't even get a look in. I'm always polight and respectful but I think the women are sick of receiving messages that you speak of so I feel like I get tarred with the same brush. We are not all like that.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I'm a Sydney boy born and raised and have never had any woman tell me I'm crass or rude. ? That includes local, interstate and international..? But I have met some women , who have this holier than thee atitude who will undoubtably get back exactly what they give out. If your comfort zone is in Melbourne and that's where you want to be , I'd suggest it wouldn't matter where you are , if it's not Melbourne it's not on... Touch summed it up beautifully...
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RHP User
8 years ago
What Touch said makes a lot of sense. Men( and women ), as a whole, aren't going to be that different in Melbourne, or Sydney, or Perth, Brisbane, Adelaide or any of the big population centres...I think.These cities are all very similar to the people living, working, loving and dying in them after a while. People have the same problems everywhere. Just, some places have more people. Time out sounds like the way to go.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am originally from Sydney and I am sorry that you have been subject to in-polite and crass behavior from people in my home town. As many have said, it is inappropriate and not excusable, no matter what site we are on. I personally have found Sydney to of lost its way. It now houses over 12% of the countries population and has become more raw and rude as a society. I am only new here so if I am out of line I apologise, but my understanding is that a lot of males think that this site is like a massive orgy. Its all in and they can say what ever they like. Then they see your pics posted and think "wow, she is up for it" so I will hit her will everything I have got. As I said, I am far from an expert, but maybe if you hid the really hot pics you might get the less vulgar of Sydney's best, but then again, I could be way off track
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Everyone knows it only takes 1 bad apple to spoil it for the rest.. I doubt Sydney is any different to anywhere else in Australia.. Besides ' if it's really that bad ,why are so many interstaters keen to live in this beautiful city ? So relax , there's no need to fret over your the people in your hometown ... I'm sure your hometown has just as many drop kicks as any other city.. including Melbourne....
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think Touch may be onto something... I am originally from NSW, and lived in Sydney for many years, and landed in Melbourne (7 years ago today!) after years of moving interstate and overseas.i don’t believe it’s the location, but perhaps a difference in what you are looking for now? That is a huge assumption on my behalf, as I don’t know you, but my experience on Pie has been very different, depending on what it is I’m looking for. Im very definitely more intolerant of crass, thoughtless, immature messages now than I was when purely seeking sex. I also think it’s interesting that when visiting somewhere, like Eilie described, that people are more polite. Again, only my opinion, but think that’s because they feel they can be nicer, without the risk of a connection, with someone who is only in town temporarily (colour me sceptical 😎). My advice is to be discerning about who you message or reply to, look after yourself a bit, take whatever time out you need. Hope to still see you posting in the fora, either way xx
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
When you get those messages. As some have alluded to, a few bad ones make the applebarrel look tainted. Soldier on Red. Maybe the ratio is tilted up there compared to the world's most liveable city but there are some worth seeking there.
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Fortunately I have been privy to some of the messages that Red has received back, and it is not merely a matter of her 'evolving' and maturing and having different expectations. Red is quite a considerate person, and when she notices newbies on site, she will generally send some of them welcoming messages to the site, and be polite to them in that manner. She is not looking to hook up with said individuals at that time, but showing that there are friendy people around. The manner of the messages that she receives back can be downright disgusting and extremely hurtful - no wonder she has become a grey ghost. And that IS the lot from Sydney / NSW guys she has received. Granted, there have been a FEW nicer gentlemen that she has been able to have exchanges with, but they have proven to be more the exceptions than the rule.I have tried to get her to report those individuals to the mods for the levels of the messages she has received, but she feels that she will not get anywhere with that action. Therefore the reasoning behind the topic posting. Hope that clears a few things up. Tall
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Sawadee
8 years ago
No one wants to talk about the nicer gentlemen .. To say only Sydney has the dickhead element is BS... Has anyone stopped to think that seeing Red's profile reads she is in Sydney , that's where the majority of contacts will be coming from.. No one can tell me it's a Sydney thing only..
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I'm a voice for the Sydney guys who do the right thing and who are in the majority.. as for the rest , we wish them to buggery like everyone else...
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree that it's not only a Sydney thing, and said so in my post, perhaps in a round a bout way... I believe others have also said similar... Being respectful, or not, has nothing to do with location, imo...
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'jayme2' No one wants to talk about the nicer gentlemen .. To say only Sydney has the dickhead element is BS... Has anyone stopped to think that seeing Red's profile reads she is in Sydney , that's where the majority of contacts will be coming from.. No one can tell me it's a Sydney thing only.. I'm also a Sydneysider. I have seen first hand the sort of messages she receives, and the messages she gets from the Sydney blokes in general, compared with what she receives from interstate, just isn't comparable. As I noted above, there are of course some with gentleman like manners, but they have been very few and far between. Sydney guys "outshine" like no others, and not in the good way. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
Jayme, how do you know the majority of Sydney men on RHP do the right thing? Hate to say this, but you don’t know. I understand that you’re taking this a bit personally which I get, but trying to negate RedHot’s actual experience isn’t making the situation any better. You can’t accept when a woman tells you something? I’ve had some Sydney people say to me that Sydney is really rude and unfriendly compared to other cities. Personally I don’t see that at all. Sure interactions with people become less personal the larger a city gets, but I have travelled to lots of different cities and I honestly don’t think Sydney siders are that bad. Or perhaps I’m biased too.
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FireHorse101
8 years ago
I agree with Betty & Touch somewhat- its easy to start to start believing that 1000 klms makes such a difference.Ive been on this site for many years and I must say that Red's profile write up may have something to do with it, its straight up yes but not entirely encouraging or welcoming, right or wrong this can leave some a little on the front foot when it comes to comms. I do however understand women get swamped /overawed with messages, yet I believe you just need to try keep your head otherwise you can be your worst enemy or just get out of the game.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Quote '. Hate to say this , but you don't know. ? Is that so ? OK , this is what I do know , and to make a point ' I'm going to draw on my past (and present ) where I have more life long male friends than most .. and I'm talking big numbers because of the very nature of the sport I played for approx 14 years.. Give me any 100 of these men and I'll give at least 90% who are out and out decent Sydney born and bred individuals.... if not more ? The rest are made up of drop kicks and losers whom lands themself in jail or drug-go's just like any other city in this country.. Unfortunately ' these are the same guys that go out to get themself noticed for all the wrong reasons.. Now if you can explain why all the decent Sydney guys get thrown into the same cart as these cretins , go ahead ?
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I don't doubt for one moment these messages exist ? What I am saying is you and a few others keep saying it's only Sydney guys who throw mud and I say BS... There are disadvantaged areas in and around Sydney just as there are in Melbourne , Brisbane , Perth etc.. where you tend to find ppl that way inclined because of lifestyle .. So do you judge all because of a few ?
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
To quote.... "Ive been on this site for many years and I must say that Red's profile write up may have something to do with it, its straight up yes but not entirely encouraging or welcoming, right or wrong this can leave some a little on the front foot when it comes to comms. I do however understand women get swamped /overawed with messages, yet I believe you just need to try keep your head otherwise you can be your worst enemy or just get out of the game." What...because a woman is straight up about what behaviour she will accept, what age group she is interested in, etc etc...it is not welcoming or encouraging? Give me a break. And thanks for the mansplaining about coping with the inundation of messages.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was discussing Sydney men on RHP. You do not know all those men.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I do agree you can't say all Sydney guys, or any large group of people, are the same due to the behaviour of a small sample. How many messages are we talking here Tall and Red Hot?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have to say in general, I understand what Red is saying. The majority of messages I get from guys who are love to me aren’t worth replying to, and display an arrogance and/or ignorance about what I’ve expressed in my profile. Not all of them, it’s true - I’ve met some lovely guys, and received some respectful engaging messages. But messages I will ignore are more common than ones I’ll reply to. Whilst it’s also true messages I receive from interstaters are more likely to be really interesting and polite, it’s possible that’s because they aren’t expecting me to be able to meet up for a quicky, so aren’t playing the numbers game. I don’t know if I’d be getting just the quality messages from Melbourne and Perth guys if I was local to them, as I’m sure that some of the other kinds would come out of the woodwork.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Most of the messages I receive are really good, particularly first messages. I'm unfortunately not replying to 99.9% because I'm either not attracted or in most cases, they are chasing a hook up/casual/nsa, when that's not enough for me right now. At the very least, they must want some sort of continuing connection, the ones who don't are easy to spot usually, and they are unfortunately the majority. So I don't have a problem with first messages not being nice, but DO have a problem finding guys who aren't scarred by previous relationships and simply want to fuck and run to avoid ties or 'strings'. But that's a whole other issue, nothing to do with the quality of early messaging. I'll occasionally get a gross first message but very rarely. And I don't believe the city I lived in would have any influence on what type of messages I receive or make a difference to the number of men who are battle scarred. Apparently all women will eventually turn into controlling frigid freaks? lol But it is what it is. I can't change the entire male race, so the choice is then with me. To stay online and beat a dead horse, or relax and enjoy real life interactions which is what I'm doing now 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
I thought it was well known that we're all cunts who just want to fuck you till we're done, cum in your hair then wipe our dick on the curtain as we leave. - insincerely, Sydney Pricks
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RHP User
8 years ago
Oh no, Perth pricks do that too 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Typo - who are local to me, not love. And S, if you wipe anything on my curtains, I’ll have to spank you. ;-)
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I don't know any of the men ur referring to and don't want to .. But you already knew that ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
This> "Whilst it’s also true messages I receive from interstaters are more likely to be really interesting and polite, it’s possible that’s because they aren’t expecting me to be able to meet up for a quicky, so aren’t playing the numbers game. I don’t know if I’d be getting just the quality messages from Melbourne and Perth guys if I was local to them, as I’m sure that some of the other kinds would come out of the woodwork" Yes I had the same thought myself. Much more likely patient and drawn out correspondence will happen with interstaters due to zero possibility of getting their dick wet that night oops you see you said it so much nicer 😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
The teamwork here is rather interesting
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FireHorse101
8 years ago
Oh my MS.My post acknowledged redhot666"being straight up" about her preferences for which you have have done on your profile yet its the way her "write up" is communicated, that was made clear.I think we all know by now, when words in txt is the only form of communication you need to be aware of how others may perceive you. If you choose words in CAPS etc etc, it can be and will be perceived by many as being harsh, rude & somewhat aggressive.That's all I am saying and do you need to be male to "mansplain" that one.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
...we know which team you bat for... Thankfully not mine.. seriously ? 🙄 🙄 🙄 ...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Do they all cry like you too?? :p lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'jayme2' I don't doubt for one moment these messages exist ? What I am saying is you and a few others keep saying it's only Sydney guys who throw mud and I say BS... There are disadvantaged areas in and around Sydney just as there are in Melbourne , Brisbane , Perth etc.. where you tend to find ppl that way inclined because of lifestyle .. So do you judge all because of a few ? You appear to be only taking in what suits your train of thought, and not taking in the whole point of the topic. The point is the experiences of Redhot herself. You made mention to Candy of the mates you play games with are mainly good blokes - which may well be the case, but those good blokes are seemingly not representative of the blokes on site. And has been stated prior, Redhot's experiences are what they are - sure, there are probably idiots in other sates as well, but they have not been prolific to the extent of the Sydney guys. She is not merely judging a barrel because of a few bad apples, but of her own experiences of what has happened to her. Maybe refrain from being so one-eyed and read what is actually put down. Tall
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' I do agree you can't say all Sydney guys, or any large group of people, are the same due to the behaviour of a small sample. How many messages are we talking here Tall and Red Hot? The amount of messages is not in the small handful category, but a reasonably significant number - enough to make a reasonable conclusion. I haven't counted the whole lot, but if you're really inclined for a number I suppose it could be done. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
No, you shouldn’t Waste anymore of your time on these guys. They are not worth it. Although I was only asking for a ball park figure not actual numbers.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
OMG ' Stirry right ? you could come to Sydney in your big bad truck and see for your self ? I'd be only too happy to show you Sydney and why Sydney boys don't cry .. BTW ... Now that your back , does this mean you reserve the right to pack hunt again ?
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I appreciate Redhot's concern , but it was aimed at one demographic ' it came across as she ' and you threw one blanket over Sydney in general.. and only now a admission that it's only the few , not the majority as it first came across.. Like I said before , the fact that her profile stated her location as Sydney , is probally the main reason these type of messages came . Local draws out the looney section in any state.. In reference to playing games with mates... I won't go too deep into this , but the games you mention were at a professional level which most of us made a healthy living out of.. So it wasnt just playing games as you say . it was a occupation..
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RHP User
8 years ago
The way I am reading your op Red is this....You are the one who has had your lived experiences in Melbourne and now Sydney and you are the only one who knows how it's left you feeling and rightly so. I hope at some point your situation does a 160% turn you deserve good things to be happening in your life. Much respect Rubi :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
And moving to Sydney from reading some of your other posts in other threads hasn't been an easy transition for you either. Again hoping things turn around for you at some point. :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Huh ??? Red
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RHP User
8 years ago
At least 85% of the guys have been rude, disrepectful - telling me I'm too old and this is from guys over 50 and I shoud do RHP a favour and get the fuck off. And this is over a period of 11 months span since I've moved up here. I do talk to all the other states / territories, and have found they are wonderful, respectful and have met quite a few from all over Australia, so excuse me if I've posted something if it stings the Sydney guys that don't appreciate myself. Red
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' The way I am reading your op Red is this....You are the one who has had your lived experiences in Melbourne and now Sydney and you are the only one who knows how it's left you feeling and rightly so. I hope at some point your situation does a 160% turn you deserve good things to be happening in your life. Much respect Rubi :) Actually I'll up the bid to 180 degree turn aroundMuch more betterer !
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
You still don't get it !!! I did not make any admission in my last posting about it only being a "few guys" spoiling the fun - again you are only taking in what you want to read., and I still reiterate that it is the majority of the Sydney guys that have acted inappropriately. I don't care if the games you played were at a professional level or at kindy, the fact is that those guys are not a representation of the Sydney guys on site, as I said before. If you can't be bothered to read what I put down, then please don't come back with half-baked replies. Tall
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Your right , I can't be bothered reading what you have to say anymore... Its either listen to what you have to say or nothing... try practicing what you preach... That'll do me...
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RHP User
8 years ago
I did mean that but you can't edit on RHP So I shall correct that.... meant 180% turn.... for you RedQuoting 'Sailbadthesinner' Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' The way I am reading your op Red is this....You are the one who has had your lived experiences in Melbourne and now Sydney and you are the only one who knows how it's left you feeling and rightly so. I hope at some point your situation does a 160% turn you deserve good things to be happening in your life. Much respect Rubi :) Actually I'll up the bid to 180 degree turn aroundMuch more betterer !
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RHP User
8 years ago
Being "old School" myself I do not blame Redhot666 for feeling like she is being disrespected.I live in a place where my options are very limited as far as single guys that I can see.However in saying that apart from the few idiots who don't know how to show respect (End up blocked) I have found most of the guys from every area that have messaged me to be mostly polite, funny or tongue in cheek.Anything else I take with a grain of salt.The internet in any form can be murky for those of us who aren't as tech savvy as people who have grown up with it.I looked at Redhot666 profile. It is a little abrasive in the wording and I don't know if this is before or after the experiences she has had on here. It is her profile though and she can put whatever she likes to get her point across as to what she wants. If some dickhead wants to be rude and vulgar in their approach quite frankly I would feel the same. If I am not interested I say so and be polite because that is the way I was raised. I have said something to these people though as well if they are being disrespectful. Some people just don't know how to act and that goes for men and women. I feel for Redhot666 and it is a shame her experience has been marred by idiots.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I hear what is being said here and believe that respect goes a long way, and goes both ways. The problem I have been facing is getting a response....... I have always been polite and respectful in all flirts and messages I have sent. I also understand that I may not be what everyone is looking for, but a simple reply telling me that there is no interest just shows some common manners, and all can move on. Would like to know others thoughts....... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Redhot appreciated what I posted by liking it, even with the mistake. Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' I did mean that but you can't edit on RHP So I shall correct that.... meant 180% turn.... for you RedQuoting 'Sailbadthesinner' Quoting 'Rubi_Rose' The way I am reading your op Red is this....You are the one who has had your lived experiences in Melbourne and now Sydney and you are the only one who knows how it's left you feeling and rightly so. I hope at some point your situation does a 160% turn you deserve good things to be happening in your life. Much respect Rubi :) Actually I'll up the bid to 180 degree turn aroundMuch more betterer !
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well said!!Lack of reply is common on other sites that I am on. Someone told me once if you don't have high or any expectations you wont be disappointed and this is how I view it basically.Being the net I do not have the same expectation from people that I would in life.I treat people how I want to be treated but not everyone does that unfortunately.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Without going too far off topic here, I think your profile is great. I'd be interested if you were closer. If your messages are respectful and attuned to the person you're contacting, I'm surprised you're not getting replies
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just before you go on.... *places a box of tissues on the desk in front of you* Now... What were you saying?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
180 degree turn not % any way I think you knew what I meant sailbad.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Whilst i tend to find Australian culture and therefore Australian men (Sydney Melbourne and definitely Perth, etc ) are often very deeply chauvinisti (sexist) c and sadly often quite mysogynist, (hate women) (maybe you arent like that but that does not mean that what I am saying is not true.) Since I have joined I find that in general the Sydney men who have contacted me and communicated with me on RHP to be surprisingly polite and respectful in fact more so than on Tinder or even on the "dating apps." - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'PatchworkGirl'And S, if you wipe anything on my curtains, I’ll have to spank you. ;-) I see the game you're playing at... I love games ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wow, the white male privilege is strong in this thread! Sad to say but he OP doesn’t surprise me at all. My wife has had a single profile a couple of times on here in Sydney. The messages she received from men were atrocious and such a turn off that each time she tried to play via this site it was very short lived and only left a rancid taste in our mouths. I spend a lot of time traveling this country and Sydney, my home, is my least favourite city. Our culture is so disposable and all about the quick fix, sadly it is apparent in the sexual and social attitudes of a lot of men here. All of my close friends are women and from what they tell me and what my wife has shown me from her dealings in here the OP is onto something. OP, I’m lacking advice but wish you all the best in finding some decent men here in Sydney. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It’s a bit like all these guys on twitter expressing shock that guys will whip their dick out in front of women who aren’t interested. You see all the women’s comment saying derrrrr.... happens all the time. First time I was flashed by a grown man I was probably 12 or 13? There are a lot of flashers out there. Am I right? Question probably should be - who hasn’t be flashed? 😝
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Great_vibes
8 years ago
I’ve travelled a lot around Australia for work over the years and to Sydney far more times than I’d like to count. In my experience, Sydney people in general are rude and disrespectful. One of my least favourite cities in Australia. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some of the people here agree that Sydney men seem ruder than average, and some disagree...what does that mean? And that's pretty much the result I'd expect when dealing with a group of people that numbers in the millions. Short of a large survey, conducted scientifically, anyway. I think the best a person can do when unhappy, is to look inside, and change their behaviour or methods to find that happiness again...changing the bigger world is hard.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Being from Newcastle I find they are only rude and crass if you say "no thanks" Be interested to know how many percentage wise are rude. Because seriously woman want a nice guy, not a goose who values himself better than her. You can keep your skinny Lego chinos in the city though. Real men wear Levis in a boot leg. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think the same applies to the ladies at times. What gets me lack of replies too??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
tears of joy watching you make a fool of yourself AGAIN ? vroom vroom.. lol... So who's on the hit list this time round ?
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playfulminx
8 years ago
I never fail to have a fantastic time in Sydney ;) Maybe it's just a set of unfortunate, coincidental circumstances and you've contacted prats? Sorry to hear but Sydney guys rate highly with me!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Australian cities are very different and the people there are also different. It is quite possible that Red doesn't connect with Sydney guys. I've been to different cities in different states and attitudes are noticeably different. It does however only take a few idiots to ruin it for everyone and the nicer guys are never given a chance. Manners are free. People can also attract certain types so you have to be careful what image you give out with your photos and your profile. That's nothing against Red..... I've not seen her profile, but I've seen it happen to plenty. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
And have met some amazing people there, long term (both male and female). Let's be honest, trying to find a great person in today’s dating environment (thanks to technology) is like masturbating with a cheese grater: stimulating, but you already know it’s going to hurt. And if you live in a major metropolitan area, the effects are doubled. OUCH! Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
On one side people seem more rude and narcissistic these days, and on the other side people are less tolerant and more judgemental aswell. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you for your kind words - it means a lot to me. However I think I will be putting a lot more energy into work again, and with my best friend. Tall is typing this for me as I have trouble with some of the wording. Red
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RHP User
8 years ago
You always find a way to touch a soul....... Somewhere between Q and S DG
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RHP User
8 years ago
Its not only the men of Sydney i can assure you. There are some downright rude and arrogant women from that area as well. Yesterday i sent a non sexual message to a lady stating that she had a great profile and great, sexy pics, as well as wishing her a sensational day. Her response? Blocked me! Is there something in my profile ladies that is offensive? Please let me know. Its not the first time i have had zero response from simple innocent messages. Its not like im trying to punch above my weight . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Wtf? When did sharing log in details to outsource responses from a non profile owner become acceptable??!! The only inference that can be drawn from that... is we can never know who is writing under your profile... and to what purpose. Dodgyville. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This question was written by Tall, on Red’s behalf.
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RHP User
8 years ago
why is it so bad to get hepl with spelling and i do say tall did hepl me so do tell me do you think i do not be long on hre at all
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RHP User
8 years ago
thank you so much and i have like a lot of your post and tall is my best mate and only person i have is ths world
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Always being the prat. See nothing's changed. Why is it so wrong to give a friend a hand ? Or is it you don't know what a friend is and therefore have no experience with such matters ? Red logged in herself and asked me to assist - nothing nefarious there. Everyone here can tell the difference betweens Red's style of writing and mine (well, nearly everyone). Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
See..... you can sledge me and point your thumb anywhere you like...... but the trouble now... ...... is that nobody REALLY knows who is writing what, from behind the profiles of you two. If that's how you like to play the game.... well.... that's up to you both Or.... up to one of you..... writing as both Who the hell knows 👍👍 PS Someone now owes me a $20 You know who you are 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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bonefide
8 years ago
Red positive vibes mate hope all is well remember stand tall walk proud. That was not a dig at Mr Tall but I'm gunna take a point for that one 😆
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Bonefide.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
.. with helping out a friend in need, that's a good trait to have.. Besides ' it's now become clear to why you became so stubborn and doggered in your opinion. ? I still beg to differ ' but that's OK... As far as Mischeivious is concerned.. he does have ' a ' friend . Need I say more ?
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Seachange73
8 years ago
I have no difficulty nor problems with Sydney men. I travel to Sydney and other major Australian cities for work and have met great men in all cities. Hard to generalise. The Sydney men, I find, in my experience, are just a tad more sophisticated or cosmopolitan than other men in other cities, bar Melbourne. maybe it may be attributed to Sydney being a 'world class' and fast paced city like New York or London. they are quite exposed to many culture and most are very open to new experiences. I find that sexy. I love Sydney and their sexy men. 😉 Never had any rude contacts from them and enjoyed most of the company of those I have decided to meet. A couple of men have become really good 'friends'.
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8 years ago
I think Mischeviouslad is onto something Red. Despite the way he has worded it :) Question for you Red...when you send a message to a man, do you write it or does Tall write it for you? As your writing styles are both very distinct and easy to pic, do you think maybe that the guys are a bit sceptical of the mixed messages they may be receiving? And they then crack the shits that they are being "scammed" by man pretending to be a woman.? Not everyone reads the forums....not everyone is aware of the friendship between the two of you. You do say you didnt have the problem when you were in Melbourne....only now you are in Sydney. Could be worth considering .....
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Bingo. I thought the same thing. The inconsistency of on going contact with different styles of both writers may cause them concern specially if they read Red profile and if a message is sent via tall. could this scenario be likely?
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RHP User
8 years ago
why is it not ok with you and rb that i get hepl with posting when i talk to a guy it me so back off all i want is to put things the right way and stop putting me down it not high school
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Red sends here own messages to the guys - I have nothing to do with any of it, except for if she requires a hand with some spelling, but everything is all her own. Therefore no "mixed messages" being sent to anyone, and also no question about scamming either. In that vein there is also no possibility / risk of "confusion" amongst the Melbourne or Sydney men. Red contacts both groups by herself (as well as others interstaters). Tall
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