M53
Swinging saved my marriage !!!!
February 25 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
No!!!!...swinging is only for those who r secure in themselves n their relationship...very very rare!!!...theres usually one who is not quite keen..n theres the prob...its same as can men n women be just friends...only if one is gay otherwise there is one who really wants more....its our natural instinct!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm waiting eagerly to hear the comments on this... Being single for the last 5 yrs has given me plenty of time to think about what I'd do differently if I ever find someone that I want become involved with long term again.. In that 5 yrs I've been through some experiences that have definitely changed the way I view life and relationships and what I want out of both.. I'll be watching this space 😄
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madotara69
12 years ago
We were having a naughty one time some time ago to now, I had an epiphany, while Tara was particularly enjoying giving me a head job, we don't keep things from each other so we say to anything as habit now. So I started a conversation that is still on topic to this day with her. just compliment normally, but I had this feeling of guilt well into my conscious, and said to Tara she was so good at making me feel so good, I felt a sense of greed in a way, and suggested to her that some other lucky fellow would really get a bang out of life if he happened to be with us at the time and Tara did the same things she did to my cock alone, It made me horny to think of her doing what she does, one for the knowing how he would be feeling, and that she gets so wet doing it, which brings the passion to it for all purpose. We both enjoyed talking to the idea of it for what it is and sex other than that came some time later and we got horny to our ideas for how that would be and the what nots for better understanding. We easily came to a basic ground and based a decision to have a go at it, at all times in contact with each other, in case something wasn't feeling right to it, we are in love and that speaks for a lot. So the reason we are here still and now, is all based on how much we enjoy each others time to fucking, as we don't make love to this, we keep that for what it is. We have only made friends over the time and we like to have fun, it's just a good way of walking this trail. We had a mishap first fellow, got past that easily and second time round, we all three fucked all night and Tara really enjoyed double penetration so did we fellows. We are not in any rush and have it as a lifestyle to what of it over some years not just at a whim, We enjoy the feelings of turning on some pretty good feelings and sharing that with someone who would care to it same that we do, then fucking is better than words can justify to it. It's not until you have experienced how high and intense passion can take fucking to levels well into a state of euphoria, as we discussed last night when I had to fuck Tara again for you, you lucky cheeky fkn poet, once Tara has two cocks getting into the swing of things, everything goes out the window and that moment then she just wants us to keep fucking her until we are done, and that takes some doing once there because it doesn't matter who cums, who doesn't so much, your cock has been hard for ages and Tara has a saturated dose of dopamine , us fellows too, that you can fuck plain air and it feels good, but cumming is not much above not quite cumming, but so fucking close you're having involuntary spasms continuously all of us, it'll see your cock just with no thought to it just all by it's self thrust straight into Tara's throat, she didn't know it was coming at that very instant but well aware that it was at any time, so she's got a cock deep throat and to horny so you just start fucking her throat and she gets so wet to it, it's just fucking awesome and the normal little triggers that go not now or can't do that, just yet, or don't do that, in particular cease, because we know that we are at that level of body impulses to the energy and cocktail of good shit we feel the slightest touch and could cum but not quite, finally when we do cum and all together is the intentions, then we cum for some time and cum like the gates have been released boys blow all over the shop, cover Tara in cum and she is just a trembling puddle of absolute beauty and everything special a woman is right then and we all just have a look and just know we just did that together and hats of eye to eye wasn't that fucking awesome, a woman looking at the boys with that equal respect and job done is an honourable achievement and I don't think there is much more that could show for better intentions, other than the love we have at home, our home , us, even if we are in our bed with, well you ocean, because your it. And we have burnt of most of what last winter and Christmas put on us, that's gone, back to pics Tara put her little outfit on again last night as we talked of you, watched a couple DP flicks and fucked to it on the sex ball with handles, setting up the drum kit and then looking for some hanging points for the sex swing because Tara wants us to fuck her outside in the wild and feels like hearing some music. So OP to your questions, one for you, did you have any sort of thoughts to posting those couple of poems that they may invite some interest, such as the above we just mentioned? Tara xx Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
OMG, my whole body is pulsing after reading that one, wow......................... OP, for hubby and myself, YES!!!!. 23 yrs of marriage, the last two with a marriage councillor, divorce papers signed up...... I then said "let's go" and we went to the couples club!!..... The rest is history, we talk more, I found out things about my husband that I never even knew, we guide and support each other more.......... Swinging has enhanced all areas of our life and we only wished we had done it sooner.......
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gazpacho
12 years ago
I'm very happy to hear that bigmamma. Finding fun things to do together is perhaps what rekindled your relationship. It may not have been swinging, it could have been Square dancing, for instance. Something you both are passionate about is the essence of the cure. I think it's wonderful that you're both passionate about sex and liberated enough from your inhibitions and conditioned upbringing to explore its nuances together. A relationship can survive pretty much anything if both partners are willing and ready to let it. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was having dinner with a friend and this subject came up. We were wondering how couples became involved in swinging. How do you broach the subject with your partner? If your partner brings up the subject for the 1st time, does it not make you feel inadequate as a lover? Whilst swinging, do you not feel jealous when watching your partner with someone else? I apologise for all the questions, it's just my natural curiosity, as this is something that I would never have considered with my ex. Also, damn RHP for not creating paragraphs when posting from a mobile, lol !!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' I was having dinner with a friend and this subject came up. We were wondering how couples became involved in swinging. How do you broach the subject with your partner? If your partner brings up the subject for the 1st time, does it not make you feel inadequate as a lover? Whilst swinging, do you not feel jealous when watching your partner with someone else? I apologise for all the questions, it's just my natural curiosity, as this is something that I would never have considered with my ex. Also, damn RHP for not creating paragraphs when posting from a mobile, lol !!!! What an interesting person you must have been having dinner with that this became the topic of conversation. Did he talk you into trying out a couples club?? Or were you the one keen to explore? What other subjects were brooched?
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RHP User
12 years ago
How could i have ever predicted something so erotically intense and unselfish i for once in my life are speechless:-)) Excited aswell:-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I did try to bring it up with my husband, many years ago when I was still married to him. I was reading the Sunday paper and saw an add for swingers party. just as a throw away line I said, hey lets go check this out. To my surprise he said ok. It was a benny hill moment. We could not find the place and he walked into a big fat Greek wedding, I was in the car and he said, is this the swingers party? Well we were like Brad and Janet, we had no idea what a swingers party would look like. We found it , in a brothel that was really dark and seedy place. It was dreadful. We huddled in the kitchen. So did a few others. A couple of girls came in and one very drunk hit on my husband but he was not interested at all. Every time I left the kitchen men followed me around, and I found a chair to watch people have a fuck but the guy next to me kept touching me. Hubby was entranced, he was at the end of the bed looking like a gynaecologist . the floor was sticky and I was trying not to think what was it I was stepping on. There was a really huge huge naked woman with some huge huge old old man who could not get it up.So every young pup in the place was on this mound of flesh giving it a few pokes and getting off. the woman never moved at all. I thought shit that must be like sticking your cock in a big mound of jelly on a plate. we fled , scurried back to our sensible home in the burbs. I was having very bad sex, I did not have a clue what chemistry was all about.I thought it was me, something wrong with me. I even got a girlfriend to seduce my husband. I organised a threesome for him with a girlfriend, but got really upset when I saw him go down on her and he never did that to me in 18 years. I ask him why many years later and he said, I thought you did not like oral sex, he was right I did not like oral sex or though I did not as I had never had it. we ended up divorced, were not in the right head space. we divorced and thirteen years later, life threw us back together. however I said to him if I cannot have lovers, then I am not going back there. he said he was not happy about it but he did get what I meant. I ask him recently if he would like to have a profile here as a couple, he said sure but when I ask the big question How would you cope with me having an orgasm and doing with a man the things I cannot do with you, and loving another man in me. He just said no, I could not stand it. so asking the questions, and planning how you will feel under each kind of circumstance is important. I never ever take a lover when my husband is around, and its rare now that I do take a lover and its only someone that I have been with before. No new lovers its to exhausting and I am very lucky as the few guys that I have had a lovely time with are still in the picture. a woman does not need a lot of men, she just needs a few good men.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Doesn't everyone talk about this stuff with their friends? Or is it just me that manages to stop all conversations around me cause they are too busy trying to listen to what I am saying. Bwahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am not part of a couple per se but i think you only feel jealousy when you feel uncertain of how your partner feels about you or there is some ambiguity or uncertainty in your relationship. If you are confident, and confident of your relationship than I am sure jealousy wouldn't often creep in. But this is why communication is so important... You need to speak up and never let anything fester. So if your man is spending too much time pleasing others... It's time to yell, I am feeling left out here. Or just yell "geronimo here I come ready or not" and dive right in. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
LT... I can picture that party scene SO CLEARLY!! lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
First time I saw hubby with another girl, I was entranced, I was so turned on it was amazing and when I brought another guy to our bed, well I was in candy heaven and I don't think either guy had a chance to feel left out :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
@Hightower, it was a very interesting dinner indeed I once organised a 4some with a lover and another couple, with a full partner swap. I guess I did it for the wrong reasons, as he was the one who wanted to try it, and I hadn't even considered it up till then. I started chatting to them and set the whole thing up. The other couple was stunning and made us feel very welcome and at ease in their home. The sex was great, BUT, I couldn't handle watching my partner with another woman. This made me realise 2 things. That I was becoming too attached to him, and that swinging isn't for me. I do still want to try an MFM though
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ooo! Ooo! Ooo! Miss quality can i be one of the M's in the MFM ?? Please pretty please?? :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
That is after i help our mr mado hang a swing in the trees for mrs Tara to dangle , and for us to fuck and please ! You know what ? i am a little bit excited and nervous to by geez ! But to madotara69 i say well thank you and yes please. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never tried it ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I still dont believe it can save a relationship it may prolong it but if theres problems this is not the ideal way to fix it it will eventually fall apart...as ive said ud havto be so secure in urself to do this...id luv to be with a man who's keen...im secure in who i am..I just luv sex n want my man n me to enjoy it all but knowing we'll always go hm happily together is the best..if not n he or I find someone else in the process we'd rather be with..then so be it move on n keep havin fun!!! Life is short : )
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Doesn't everyone talk about this stuff with their friends? Or is it just me that manages to stop all conversations around me cause they are too busy trying to listen to what I am saying. Bwahaha There are very few that would openly have that conversation within earshot of others knowing that a few eyebrows would be raised or that at very least, any males within the vicinity would be finding a whole new set of muscles to strain in order to get close enough to the conversation. HT
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' @Hightower, it was a very interesting dinner indeed I once organised a 4some with a lover and another couple, with a full partner swap. I guess I did it for the wrong reasons, as he was the one who wanted to try it, and I hadn't even considered it up till then. I started chatting to them and set the whole thing up. The other couple was stunning and made us feel very welcome and at ease in their home. The sex was great, BUT, I couldn't handle watching my partner with another woman. This made me realise 2 things. That I was becoming too attached to him, and that swinging isn't for me. I do still want to try an MFM though I can almost see the line forming in the ES of males and their wingmen from my place!!!
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