F52
Swinging
May 08 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Where on earth are all the couples complaining not so long ago, about how hard it is to find a single girl to play with. I would have thought you'd be inundated with offers.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Last thing you want is some clingy man holding you back. If you need some moral support take someone that will be fine to let you go and have fun. So buckle up its going to be a fun ride.. (in buckle up I mean get something to wear that you feel sexy in and strut your stuff)Enjoy..
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RHP User
15 years ago
If you're looking to play alone - this isn't really swinging and you could probably just find a couple that you can get comfortable with to try things out, or if you're quite confident and adventurous you should just try a few of the local clubs and events to go along and meet people there. Swinging is when you are in a couple and try swapping/interacting sexually with another couple - so being a single girl I wouldn't consider it swinging on your part, but 'dontgothere' is right... you would be highly popular with couples in the swinging scene who would like to meet with a single girl. My advice - be more specific, think about what it is exactly that you want to try and then people will be able to recommend something more helpful to you :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey there Sweet checks, there are quite a few swinger clubs and parties about, If you are keen to go, i will come along as your partner LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sweetcheeks, do you have an FWB that would go with you? I think for the first time you should probably go with a buddy for some support. I think some of the places and things you hear can be downright scary, all you have to do is read the GangBang theory thread. LOL. Of course I would assume that ain't the norm. Or if you are an out there brave girl, yes go to a couples club alone. I am sure they will look after you there and it would be safe to go on you your own. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
haha! Damn it..this swinging business sounds like fun! I want a turn!What exactly do you think swinging is Sweetcheeks? If it is sex with more than one person you seek? OK... then I suggest you start with one and work then invite at least another.If you just want to get out to some sleazy sex party that is relatively safe and you can get naked and squirm around with a lot of other naked people you might not know and may never see again.... then I refer you to the events page..... Where do I start? lolz... why is it so difficult for people to get a shag?HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Find a friend with benefits, or some friends that go swinging. I am a single lady who goes swinging (I know I'm single so technically its not swinging but just leave it at that for the sake of this comment) to clubs with a group of couples that I am friends with :) they are wonderful, very supportive and encouraging and heaps of fun! I guess I am lucky.. I have had plenty of offers of males wanting to come as my "partner" so thats always another option. I suggest you go with someone you feel comfortable with honey :) And go in with an open mind. It's heaps and heaps of fun as a single lady if you just go with the flow :)
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N4November
15 years ago
Some of my most amazing experiences have been when I've just decided to go and usually on my own!! Just make sure you actually talk to the host before you go and explain that you are a single lady intending to attend on your own and you will be treated like a princess... and most will make a point that no pressure is on you when you arrive and during the night. How you want to play from there is up to you!! Its only been in the last 6 months I have taken male FWBs along .... and at the last party I took 2!! . My rules: only I decide what I want to do sexually don't drink much keep your wits about you check that a condom is on EVERYTIME tell a grown-up the where, what etc lol don't have too high expectations go to a party with the view to socialise - not for the sex . which usually results in having a GREAT TIME!! . Please keep us posted if you decide to take the plunge!! . Good luck xxx .
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'baygirl2315' My rules: only I decide what I want to do sexually don't drink much keep your wits about you check that a condom is on EVERYTIME tell a grown-up the where, what etc lol don't have too high expectations go to a party with the view to socialise - not for the sex . which usually results in having a GREAT TIME!! . What an excellent synopsis for a great time!!! I don't think I have any more rules worth adding!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
u r in the right city to party sweetcheeks stillettos is a gr8 party if u go alone u will hav a gr8 time the hosts r gr8 at the end of your nite they r happy to walk u to your car one of the friendliest partys u will find deburchery is another gr8 party at the end of the nite u will b seen safely to your car we r going to both this week & know we will hav a ball luv to see u come n enjoy yourself
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would love to go to a swingers party, but as a single guy... it's really hard.Being with couples are really great fun. Good luck with your first experience SweetCheek. I hope it will be a great one with loads of fun.WinkSaozdudexx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am always happy to help out and to go along as a chaperone to a good swingers party...whether it be at a club or private affair....would recommend a chaperone for any 1st time ladiesBaygirl if you need a friend I am am more than willingAny other ladies. that may need a gentleman at their side just ask
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N4November
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'baygirl2315' My rules: only I decide what I want to do sexually don't drink much keep your wits about you check that a condom is on EVERYTIME tell a grown-up the where, what etc lol don't have too high expectations go to a party with the view to socialise - not for the sex . which usually results in having a GREAT TIME!! . What an excellent synopsis for a great time!!! I don't think I have any more rules worth adding!HugsStalkyIs this a first?!!! Nothing to add to a post??? holy shit!!!! xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes its still something i want to try , but i think i need to look into it a bit more. I do have a fwb to go with me but timing is not on our side and im getting impatient. lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
"So desperate to go swinging.But do I go alone or do I find someone to go with?? Someone tell me how this is all meant to work."I think if you go with somebody or go alone, it would not matter, as long as you enjoy yourself Sweetcheeks:-)
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