Swingers or Not

Hi all,Lately, While Ive been working away, I have been pondering on the term " Swinger " at length, and, I'm surprised to find that although I class myself as a swinger, as opposed to a guy just trying to get an "nsa" root or multiples if thats the way it goes, I feel that the lines become somewhat blurry the deeper you delve into what justifies the term and what does not.Of the many factors, that in my honest opinion, differ between the two labels, a few definately stood out to me ( and pelase realise, by my voicing my opinion in this forum, Im not tyring to Judge, Offend, Stereotype, or Belittle people, this is just my thoughts Ive had and would like to share with you all).To me, chasing a casual sexual relationship with one or more partners or even just seeking one off encounters, is is far different from swinging, as swinging is a combination of a sexual/physical and social nature, with swinging couples generally wanting more out of encounters with people they like therefore adding friendship to the equation.And the one BIG thing that has been bugging me lately, is, where do I fit into my own classifications.I enjoy fun with singles, couples and groups. I would rather a social as well as sexual connection with the people I play with ( as the situation allows).And though Ill be the first to admit that one night stands can be mindblowing, am I subconciously fencesitting and am I just a glorified root rat/ male slut in my own mind, or am I really happily embracing this lifestyle as a sounding borad off the core of who I really am.....Or maybe I'm just overthinking it all...............