RHP

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Swingers clubs,

March 12 2011

Hi, I am sure there have been many a post similar to this but I am just interested in different opinions on swingers clubs. The whole idea has captured me (F) but ....... hubby is very shy and not sooooo excited. Not to mention they all seem to be in Brisbane not the Gold Coast. Any tips for first timers or interesting information one should know? Appricate any feedback!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hey, i went to one on the weekend, all i can say is make sure u are both interested in it, set rules and know what you will and will not do.talked to a guy when i was there, he was getting more and more pissed off as the night went on, as i think he wanted FFM, whilst she wanted everything, ended badly at the end of the night. so just make sure your both comfortable and satisfied with the situations.Also be very upfront, and direct if you want to play with them, talking like a typical niteclub can make the other party think u are not interested, and go play elsewhere.well that's what i learnt anyway, very good fun nite and i will be back.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The best way is to find another couple to swing with who are not pushy and are friendly and fun to be with. we have met the most fantastic people this way and a few we did not like but at the end of the day swing only with people you are compatable with. Maybe then introduce a second couple to see how you go before you go the full hog at a swingers party. We went to partys that you meet and greet and socialise and go home or hotel as swingers night could attract some that just because you are there think you are a free lunch. Like I said before I have met the best people whilst swinging so just take your time and have fun and remember to set boundrys with your partner. Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Adelaide seems to be pretty dead on this front...and my man would sooo love to see me getting gang-banged at a swingers' club/party. I think I've asked this before but does anyone have any good contacts in Adelaide, or know of anywhere we could go? He doesn't want to actively participate - he just wants to WATCH! :) xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi we live in ballina bt we tavel upto to Brisbane to go to Ci. Our first time there we was nervous and not sure about it. But the owners of CI made us feel so welcome and relaxed that we had one of the best nights we had in years. We did travel up and back in one night but trust us it was worth the traveling to attend CI.. We find CI la great club and we wasnt bugged ppl or pushed into anything. Feel free to message us if u still not sure about it. Ballinacpl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    is there any in newcastle