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RHP

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Swingers club or brothel

October 07 2013

Hubby and I being new to the swinging scene have been searching out clubs, parties, groups etc. So when we drove out to a 'swingers club' it was a shock. We paid a non refundable amount, we then had to strip off before going in (we got a towel). In we go and there were other girls and guys there, the girls were really friendly offering us drinks, chatting with us. We were a bit confused as the guys didn't appear to be attached to any of the girls. Yep, found out why when a girl asked a guy if he was ready, took him to a room and you guessed it 'took care of him'. Ok, we thought we will take advantage of the situation and thought its a night to play with ourselves. Nope, as soon as my man and I entered a darkened room and started playing we were joined by the other guys. Now don't get me wrong, I LOVE playing with other guys except this wasn't playing. These guys did not know I was with my man, they thought I was one of the girls working there and that puts a totally different twist on things. So in the end I paid money to 'work for them' ahh NOT...

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  • time2getlucky

    time2getlucky

    12 years ago

    Sounds like a real dud. There seem to be a heap of clubs like that that are essentially brothels dressed up as swing clubs. Try the couples club at surrey hills. We've been there a couple of times now and it is 100% genuine. I've also heard nbo is ok as well but haven't been ourselves so couldn't validate that one.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Name and shame. We should all be warned so we don't have the same experience- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think you , unwittingly , walked into a Brothel . GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This was in Sydney Kaleidoscope, you might be safe

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some swingers clubs can be pretty bad, and while we haven't had any bad experiences, we've heard some real horror stories. Feel free to talk to people here about the different clubs and experiences, the socializing sections in a lot of places tends to be a little lacking (or in full view of the play area or the designated smoking section) so it can make meeting and greeting other swingers a bit daunting. Watch out for certain terms used by clubs/events that may not suit your desires eg. "we let select males inside" usually means the floodgates are open and there will be tons of single guys.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Couples Club is good and can be an entirely different vibe depending on what night you go. There have been other threads written about Couples club and the themed night Angel & Demons which is the most popular night. NBO (nude bi-orgy) can be really fantastic too but it's mainly bi-sexual men and a handful of women that like to be gang banged, and a few couples and single gals. Maybe a tranny or cross dresser or two. Anything goes!! I don't even know any other swingers clubs in Sydney? Did you go to a brothel?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yep, we love the CC but wanted to try different areas and this place advertised themselves as a swingers club. Have been to some great house parties, private parties and group get togethers, we were just trying to see if there was anything else out there. Thanks for the advice everyone, once bitten twice shy.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Been to both CC and NBO, I agree with Meeka.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ummm I visit Sydney for fun times several times a year.......- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    hi all,just wondering if people know about cum play @ Melbourne swingers Elsternwick. we are only new and have never frequented a night before as its our 1st time. we are quite shy is there anything we should worry about??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would give cum play a miss as its pretty full on for a first time, really high numbers of men. I really recommend attunga, it's the same venue but on sat nights and the last weekend of the month is the best night for first timers (couples and single women only) if you'd like a friendly face feel free to message me as I go regularly enough and will be there this month - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Not sure if I am allowed to give out names?. Message me and I will message back to you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lots of good advice can be found on this forum. Just go searching for it, some in this couple section and more in the newbie section under Hot topics. I will add, that you are in control at all times, don't let anyone pressure you into anything you don't want to do or are not comfortable with. If you are not interested, say straight up "no thank you" or "I am okay for the moment thanks". You do not have to have sex with everyone, you do not have to sex at all. Some couples just have sex with each other, some people have sex with as many people as they can, some people just watch. It is best to ask someone before touching. And if someone touches you without asking and you don't want them to... speak up. Let them know straight up. Ask before you touch, in a nice way of course. It is normal to start a conversation with someone by asking them what they are into (as in men/women, sexual stuff, etc). Don't what they do for a living or where they live, etc... be discreet. Sorry that seems self evident but I took a newbie to a swingers club recently and she was talking to people like she was at a dinner party! Eek! Some people don't mind it but alot of people would rather every day life not intrude on a sexy swingers night.It's okay to go and just watch and observe. You don't have to get undressed, well unless it is the policy of the party that everyone is undressed. Some people just go to watch and others like to be watched. Have fun.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sorry for preaching. Its just questions new people have asked me before so I am just passing my knowledge on.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Don't apologies, all is helpful. All is appreciated as well.

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