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Swingers club
July 15 2020
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Aussielad93
4 years ago
Infusions in Belmont is by far the best I’ve been to here they are all super relaxed and chilled with a great crowd that goes and quick to remove or speak to anyone who makes anyone uncomfortable.
They’ve also done some new renovations and it is amazing with a big variety of rooms some hidden if you do feel inclined to have a play.
Can’t stress enough how respectful everyone there is.
As for advice alcohol may seem like a great idea but going into this you do need a rather clear head so you and your hubby can communicate openly and not make any decisions you may regret.
Saturday’s do tend to get busy and may be overwhelming for a first timer but if you want to jump in then go for it! They do a small Sunday session if you are free and that’s great to go see and then go back home and discuss.
Just because you are at the club doesn’t mean you have to play or stay the full time. And always remember nothing happens without your consent
SpicyKale
4 years ago
Ok, this is coming from visiting clubs in Adelaide and Sydney, I'd be assuming it's the same in Perth. Clubs usually have a socialising area and a seperate play area. The socialising area is just that, dress sexy/smart chat to people and see if you click. Most people will strip down to something a bit more reveling as the night goes on. Generally it's not cool to head into the play areas fully dressed, it's time to get down to lingerie etc... You can always dress down and check out the sexiness in the play areas with zero expectation of joining in if you're not comfortable... Remember consent is what this lifestyle is built on! It's more than fine to just check out what's going on without joining in... unless you want to, just ask first😉 Good luck and have fun! It's good to observe your first time anyways! You're lucky stuff is open over there! Oh, and see what their booze licencee is, a lot are byo only
RHP User
4 years ago
Our first experience in a swjngers club was a newbie night. It had some restrictions so not to overwhelme you on your first visit. Which was good in a way as i was very nervous. We stipped down and had a little play in one of the “soecial rooms “ then ventured to the large bed where you could play together but not intermingle ( one of the rules) there were provate rooms you could watch couples and if invited join. All in all it helped me see what a club is and settled my nerves.
All i can say is go with no expectations we are all there for the same reason. You can always leave if it is not what you are after.
😁 Miss Peninsula
cplusdee
4 years ago
By far the hardest step is walking through the door..
RHP User
4 years ago
It's Just like going out anywhere else, unless you want more, theres absolutely no obligation or pressure to do anything, undress, play, talk to anyone .
I've been to all of the Perth venues, some in FNQ, London, Adelaide, Melbourne, amsterdam, Barcelona, Cape d'Agde etc etc and you have nothing to worry about. Every one gad the same vive, welcoming but not intrusive, swinging from wild to mild, but no obligation to play.
Stand around and have a few drinks, watch, go home.
Go back next week,... Etc
Good luck and have fun 🥰
Dex1473
4 years ago
We go to Our Secret Spot in Sydney and go with no expectations and dress like we are going to a sexy night club. There is definitely no expectation on play and no means no. Newbie nights or theme nights are good as there is a good mix of people. We were very nervous the first time but love it now
RHP User
4 years ago
I'm single fun man looking for a bit of fun with you and your friends this Friday before I go back to work on Saturday. Happy to be a good time for all you sexy ass people that like a exxtra man
newfoundintrest
4 years ago
We found infusions really good for our first. Definitely a chilled non pushy crowd.
We also liked club 103, it had a slightly more kinkier side to it but still just as relaxed and non pushy
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