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Swingers Parties Again

February 15 2015

As a couple with mixed age, we are older than the guidelines posted for the advertised swinger parties, yet so many if the regular posters on this forum recommend them. These regular posters also appear to be in their forties. What's the story with age at these places? Where could we go that is broader. (Sydney west). Also, we get the feeling that playing with couples might be safer, but he doesn't really want to play, only watch. Might that lead to some kind of rejection feeling for the woman if a couple? As if we just wanted to borrow their man. It's all complicated and we are a bit wary. If anyone has any advice, we would be grateful.

Comments

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    11 years ago

    Honestly there is someone for everyone, and there may be a couple out there that the woman is interested in watching her man with you and not playing herself.... But that is pretty uncommon. I do think in your situation you are more likely to find success with a single man or at a party. With the free flowing nature of parties there is every chance there would be a man there who would be willing to please you. The only other suggestion I have is maybe up your age limit for guys a little, or be a little more patient. Good luck! It takes a bit of time to find what you are looking for, but you can definitely find it - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    11 years ago

    Add some more pics. Men are very visual, and they like to see some sexy pictures to wet the appetite as it were. You have one pic, and it doesn't look like you have any in your private pics either. You don't have to show your face if that is a concern for you, but at least a good face pic in your private pics is important for many people, me included, before meeting with someone. Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for your input LifeUnscripted. I have been looking around at other profiles and forums to learn more. I will definitely look at the private pictures option. It's nice to try to get opinions from others who know the scene better. I guess a lot of people are a bit dazzled with all this new world opening up. Luckily we are not in too much of a hurry, so I'm sure we will find what we want sooner or later. Nice of you to take time to answer us.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What is the story with age at swingers parties? Well I don't know. I have seen older people in their 60's at parties but I am not sure if it is the norm. Sounds like you are looking for a cuckold situation so you should look into some of the topics in the below section. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Cuckolding And yes, if you are just looking for men do not go looking for couples. Not sure what would be the point? Swingers parties are usually private parties and the people and kinks that they cater too can be wildly different between parties. They are real hit and miss. Some are great and some are terrible. Swingers clubs have a lot more people attending and you can just go to socialize and watch. Go and chat to some people or just go for a perv. It is an entertaining night out if nothing else.