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Swingers Clubs
September 01 2012
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
13 years ago
Well for me its about meeting new people in a safe and much nicer place than in a pub ...Whatever people think it is that have never been are usually wrong. Its like a nightclub chat play pool can talk without offending people if someone touches or does something without asking first they can be told to leave No means No there not like a pub where the bouncers are watching on usually. Cis is really friendly have meet singles and couples that ive been friends with for years now. Clear your mind go with the idea that your going to a normal nightclub talk to your partner about what your both ok with... you might not want him talking to aothers alone but have your bounderies set BEFORE you get in there... Then have a drink chat play pool... if you go home meeting some new friends or friends you want to play with thats a bonus... You dont go to a nightclub with any high hopes set... 2nd visit is a walk in the park then... have fun
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RHP User
13 years ago
go with an open mind and enjoy what ever takes your fancy, with others or yourselves. Everyone we have met has been lovely and understanding if the answer is a no, but usually its not.
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jandv
13 years ago
For us its all about the excitement. Getting ready, seeing your wife dressed really sexy, driving to the club. The last time we went to a club that we have not been before my wife wore a mesh, see through top with a black bra, short skirt and heels. After getting there and talking to people we felt really comfortable. Anyway, my wife went to the toilet while i got some drinks. When she came back i noticed she took off her bra and you could clearly see her breasts. It was so hot. We then meet a great couple and had a fantastic night. My advice to ANYONE is go to a club. Even if your not going to "play". Just go, see whats it is like, talk to people and go home and have hot sex ! Clubs are fantastic !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi guys, We started our swinging life at Utopia on the Gold Coast (such a shame it has closed) and loved the atmosphere, the people, the non pressure environment. We find them a great place to network, meet new people, be who you want to be and if you like (as we do) a great place to fuck in front of people and never be judged. Do go! You will enjoy the moment...
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RHP User
13 years ago
So which club would you recommend and why? The venue, music, classy,atmosphere, age group, and the people that you meet there. We are planing to go to our first club but not sure where to go. But it will be over east as we're to keen on running into work colleges or other parents form school. There is always the chance.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a playmate and we are going to the Couples Club in Sydney on Friday 21st. It will be our first time swinging. I am a BBW/cuddly chic and 36yo and would love to explore things with another woman, he is slim to medium build, straight and mid 50's. He knows how to please a woman and can keep going without the use of little blue pills lol. For those that have been to swingers clubs before, have you met other couples there that you've been able to meet up with regularly?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I go as a single usually but here are some other reasons people go...-Some people like to watch others fucking -Some people like other people to watch them fucking. -Some people like group sex -Women get to play with other women. -In some clubs men get to play with men...... lots of men. And women get to play with them too. -There are loads of like minded people there... so easier to find what you want or what you are looking for instantly without having to put in the ground work of finding others to play with . - It can be anonymous-It's safer... especially for single girls- It is not sleazy like clubs and pubs can be and people are not drunk. - Its fun adult entertainment with no judgements. Meeka
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foxandthehound
13 years ago
We are new at swinging and are attending the pool party on Monday night. Our question having never done this before is1; What should we wear as the event doesn't state a dress code ?2; What is swinger's party etiquette?
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DonnaBrett
13 years ago
We go to Swingers' club solely for the purpose of meeting like minded folk to have sexy fun with. We don't always play unfortunately because more & more people are going with no intention of playing and that can be frustrating. Not that they shouldn't go of course...different strokes for different folks...but maybe the "Lookers" should wear a giant L on their backs so the people intending to play can see who's who? LOL(How long now before I get attacked over this comment? Bahahaha)
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a relatively recent inductee on RHP, my visits to a swingers' club were kinda marred by several things and I would like to put those out there for discussion.A woman (who I had met on here) and I decided to go to a swingers' club to see what went on there. Like most people, we were both curious, but unlike most people, we decided to actually go and check it out. Because neither of us had been there before, we really didn't expect our own reactions and the situations that this may create.More specifically, we never discussed what might happen if only one of us was approached. My unspoken expectation was that we would approach this as a couple and include both of us, whereas my friend's approach was more as a solo venture.As I found the whole scene extremely intimidating, and I have never consumed Viagra, performance (LOL indeed an erection) was an embarrassing impossibility and mitigated against anything but either (a) observation of the proceedings or (b) chatting to other people who were not playing. Indeed, I felt that my normally utterly reliable penis - on a one to one basis - had utterly betrayed me. OMG - talk about being let down by my previously predictable friend of 56 years. Considering the lickings of fear that were fluttering through my abdomen, this result was hardly surprising and very predictable. Live and learn.So, the end result was that my friend had a fantastic time, off with many others and, basically, I was bored filling in time until she had had enough, due to my essentially quite shy, and a little insecure, nature. This wasn't quite how I'd envisioned such an event and it made revisiting that scenario unlikely for me, except in a purely observational capacity with a friend/partner who utterly concurred with that approach.1. Remember, it's utterly easy for a woman to have sex under these circumstances - there are no......errr.......prior performance requirements that are essential for a woman (well, nothing that willingness and lubricant can't fix anyway). 2. There will be lots of in your face coupling (not so much making love).3. There may be predatory single men at any event sticking their appendages in any available orifice. Remember, no means no.4. Avoid getting plastered in order to develop some Dutch Courage. This isn't the best way of remembering about the essential usage of condoms. These scenes are an ideal way of spreading STD's very effectively and to a large number of people rapidly if bareback. Also remember that condoms aren't a bulletproof protection against disease.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There's a few others that are great clubs, Mikes Place and Chateau Vino.. Look around to what suits you, as they all vary in quality and price.. Enjoy yourselves! T & B
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RHP User
13 years ago
Clubs are a great place to meet more than 1 couple in one nite. Saves alot of time emailing and trying to line up dates for months..then meeting and NOT being interested in them..or them in us. We go to play with couples...but its always hit and miss, the ol numbers game..so pick a club you feel comfortable at.Mikes is the best in our books...pool table , new big venue, great lighting ,new spa are all things to do while you mingle and chat.and of course price ...if its cheaper to rent an apartment and invite others why go to a club? Sometimes we just get ph numbers for a more private meet another time :>
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RHP User
13 years ago
Where is Mike's Place and Chateau Vino? What days/nights and times are they open?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Any reveiws for the couples plus sundays??
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have travelled around the country a fair bit visiting clubs.Victoria is a bit more full on. Most places make you "dress down" on arrival. There is usually some expectation of play.NSW, we have seen a few open and close. Couples Club is a mix of social and play. Their play areas are more open and a bit more hardcore.QLD - The clubs tend to be a bit more keyed to social than play at times. This can depend on the night. Big nights with lots of people generally mean its harder to get a room anyways. When we lived in Sydney and went to clubs, we used to play heaps. Now living in QLD, we tend to meet new people or socialise with our swinging buddies and rarely play at clubs anymore. We love house parties though.Clubs can be an awesome place to meet new couples to find out about other aspects of the scene.Every club is different, every night is different, visit as many as possible to see what suits you.Cheers
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RHP User
13 years ago
My husband told me last night that going to a Swingers club completely fascinates him.I am a little worried about the approaching issue that was stated. I've already been approached for many threesomes to NOT include my hubby. I guess people aren't as attracted to him as they are to me He's 12 years older. Unfortunately that's not what we're in it for.I guess we can just go and see?!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi cupcakefortwo been to a few swingers parties loved them im more into 3some fun but mfm hit me up any time you want some fun happy to play buy your rules & pace kermy
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RHP User
13 years ago
My husband and I go quite frequent to the Swingers Club at Surry Hills we love it for all the same reasons that everyone else has given , I can't tell you how many great fun couples and girls we have meet , infact I so look forward to going at least once a month now we have so much fun we even end up going out night. Clubbing afterwards we still stay in contact with friends we have meet there but only by Tex or Rhp try it you will go back xxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have been attending swingers clubs for about a year now and have found them to be great fun. We first started going to CI, what a terrific place and theme nights are fantatsic, then decided to try Mikes at Slacks Creek as it was closer to home and have now met so many great friends there. The great thing about clubs compared to a normal night out is the cost. You pay and entry and then it is BYO. So you can go out for less than $100 including drinks for a couple. Where else could you do that and be with like minded people. Just treat it like a party, if you sit in the corner and dont chat you will be bored, if you chat to people you will undoubtley have a good night.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Send us a message, we can't send one to you, your profile is locked.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would love to go to a swingers club,Just a tad nervous about if I went Im quite shy till i get to know people.Even the thought of going turns me on
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RHP User
13 years ago
My partner and I have been talking about going to couple club for a little while now, and it's such a turn on just speaking about it. We are going tomorrow night, but I'm extremely nervous as I am also shy untill I get to know someone. Please what's some advice for a first timer... And is there an expectation that you will have sex, or can you just look? :)
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
To Sapling Nothing like stage fright.Its happened to all of us.
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RHP User
13 years ago
including old and new versions of x-club, utopia, chateauvino, CI, paradise couples, mikes place as well as couples club in sydneyI loved them all and had good sex most of the times, you shouldn't hesitate, just go and have fun :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hello we're two new to the scene and we live in the central west area. Is there any Party/Clubs in our area we should know about or that would be good for a first time couple I would love to surprise my wife who is talking about such for the last 3 months
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