Swapping

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We did that for a while four in a bed or lounge and only play with own partners,no swapping Lots of couples do that, it is hot. Go for it

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Is what its called I think, and no we never did it, couldn't see the point in it.Swapping was our interest.Variety is the spice of life, and there aint no variety in soft swing, or claytons swinging as we called it.Personally i think voyeurism and exhibitionism is the more accurate term.Though each to their own i guess and whatever floats your boat! as long as your having fun is the main thing.Cheers Nev.....not good with look but not touch!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Lots of couples do it some progress into more boundary challenging situations... some just love the idea of watching and being watched...Its more of an entry level, when a lot of couples are still discussing what each party wants and is comfortable with. You also have foreplay swap only. Which is exactly how it sounds.At the end of the day do what you (and your partner) are comfortable with, and you can be almost guarrenteed to find another couple looking for the exact some thing. As with all swinging communication is the key, between partners and couples.There can be nothing worse if a couple is expecting "full swap" and you only want "same room sex". Just make sure your upfront about how far you are willing to go and where you draw the line. Voyeurism and Exhibitionism is more of a generic term (descibing the personality trait) that covers the reason behind a lot of non-swapping engagements, I would be careful using these when discussing how you are wanting to "play" better to be specific.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We've tried the "soft swap" and it was still fun - just not as much fun as a full swap :) We are out for a good time, but accept that everyone has different boundaries and as long as we know what we are likely to be in for, we are quite happy to play at their comfort level. Of course that works both ways - we are happy to do full swaps, but only if we are all in the same room, and we make that clear before we meet, too. There are also lots of stages in-between as well, and we've quite often found that in the heat of the moment those people that intended to be cautious might just push their boundaries a little if we're really lucky ;)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi Our first experience was with a couple that didnt do a full swap. They did choose to do a bit of girl/girl kissing & breast play. Its important to disscuss with your partners before you get carried away. We knew what they wanted before we went into the bedroom with them. In this case the boundries were theirs so we let them call the shots & lead the play. We followed their lead. As it it turned out they did get into it more than anticipated so ended up doing swap forplay then back to own partners. They were very upfront about what they wanted (we met at a swingers club) They explained that this is what they do & they are happy with it. It was our choice whether we went along for the ride or not. It is different but also lovely. It wasnt less, in some ways it was more. It really depends on the couple and remember you get out of an experience what you put in. Mrs H xx

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  DonnaBrett

  15 years ago

  This is something newcomers like to to do. We are often contacted by people new to the scene but they only want same partner same room sex or maybe girls play..guys watch. Doesn't work for us, after being in this scene for over ten years those kinds of activities are boring. We realise lots of people start slow...but they need to find others the same. It's like going to a 20 person orgy one night and then sitting at home watching a porno the next night...a big step backwards LOL

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  Mr_MrsJones

  15 years ago

  I am with Sweetie on this one. Kind of like looking at the lollies but not tasting any. BUT comfort is very important, better to go softly. If you jump in with both feet it is hard to take it back when it all goes pear shaped. I am thinking that if you are interested in watching and being watched a club might be a better place to hang out for a while. In our experience there is no shortage of watchers in a club and usually you can find somthing to look at.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hey sweetie do they realy give out hugs in Brothels ?????????????

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  On your same room same partner we are pretty much the same as everyone else, Use that type of play if its your 1st time and you want to test if you both are comfortable with another naked couple fucking on the same bed watching you guys fuck while they watch you fuck. Be sure to tell the other couple this is what you are looking for and they are happy with that. Stay at that level as long as you like. We did that a few times and went to a club twice, then we decided Ok tonight is going to be full swap and the other couple said no....BUGGER We would not arrange to meet a couple even for coffee that did not full swap, as we find any thing else just a tease now and would rather give it a miss. Hey Donna Brent we dont do the girls play guys watch, we have this vision when we read this. The two butch girls playing and feable husbands are like weak little puppy dogs and if the girls give the command, their husbands have permission to move and touch the girls... Good boys arent they doing what they are told.

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  DonnaBrett

  15 years ago

  With you on that just watching girls thing...been there in our early days. It's very awkward just standing in the corner with some other guy you've just met watching the girls.....and the girls must surely feel on show? As lord & lady said..if you want to watch or be watched an open room in a club is the best place for that!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I wonder where a hug would sit on the pricing scale...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Would a hug cost more then a grope??????????? R&D

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