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Suggestive Profile names... a turn off ...
September 08 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
At least with Big _fat_cock and the like you know what you are getting.The same with Little_Dick,but have never seen that one,strange.Your selection pool must be very limited if you are expecting something like,Perfectly_Pleasant or similar.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I suppose its a way of generating interest for some of them. A bit like monty python with "Biggus Dickus" in "The life of Brian". Its maybe a joke name. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lets face it men like their penis, good for em Most poor guys get on here cause some other guy said, hey go to rhp the girls are gagging for cock So they think they need to advertise the goodies. Fair enough men are not women, we do not think the same and that is fine with me. I do not have red hair but I am Tuscan red, what an odd name for a sex site I once went on a site as blonde concubine, or justablonde, or silken yep you get it, all saying one thing Come get me I am a blonde bimbo. Sometimes its all just shits and giggles,so we do not really think to much on what is going to happen when we hit the sand pit of RHP. My intent was just to find models for work, nothing more so no sexy name there for me. Turns out I got more than I ever bargained for , very nice I am always surprised when I meet men who have these silly names they they are often nothing like the name, it was just a silly thing they did on impulse and cant be bothered to change it back to something a bit more thought out. In the end if its working for them anyway or if women do not acer what they call themselves its all good. But your right, most women just roll their eyes at he big dick, long cock, huge donger, lady licker, fast fuck, poundyameat I am sure there are hundreds of nicks like that on rhp
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bahahaha Freya, you shouldn't always believe the advertising slogans. False advertising abounds round these here parts.Justjuice....I reckon there was a bottle of the stuff on the table when they weretrying to come up with a name.The really blatant ones I always use as an indicator as to the lack of class of theproponent.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have found after 12 months of being here, there are no rules about what "indicators" lead to finding a great match. I've had lots of messaging, little messaging, in depth questioning or flirty and dirty talking,....and names, I don't make judgements on either after finding a fabulous man that had a very provocative title that previously I would have turned my nose up at. Smart and thought provoking names certainly grab my attention, but I don't dismiss others because of their illicit or uncreative nature:) Msminx3
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RHP User
13 years ago
Look there are some really clever names out there...with great taglines that go with them but if a guy contacts me with a name like...gonnalickuallnitelongtillucumonmeface..its just such a turnoff for me....yet to be honest, I really dont know why...just is...must be my Elizabeth Bennett persona...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'I agree. Ive spoken to many women who all say the same thing in different ways.... if a guy CHOOSES a name based around his own dick, or self proclaimed sexual ability However..... I AM now wondering what the story behind "justjuice" is... and if others might interpret that negatively?! DGI have to admit that I agree with both Mischivous and JJ on this one. I am a little put off by some of the usernames, but there might be a nice person that lays underneath that poor choice of username, so I still hear them out and chat to them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wish that the names were advertising......there might be a grain of truth in them then! If i'm being honest, i probably wouldn't bother responding to someone called gonnalickyouallnightlong, as enticing as that offer might sound, I just like a man with a little more class. No apologies for that!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Never judge a book by its cover. My next question would be, what else do you intend of being critical about??
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RHP User
13 years ago
It doesn't say a whole lot about the person in itself, and given the main purpose of this site, you'd expect to see one or two. Even the profiles don't really say a whole lot...if I see something interesting on the forums, that's when I go look at a particular profile.
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RHP User
13 years ago
we'll say 'no' , on the basis of finding a 'user name' offensive..... after all, its first impressions that count......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Freya... I would suggest you dont know what your getting if this is the only way they need to go about gettiing attention. ? Some girls would like this , like minded people attract .. thats your choice..Hardtruckin... whenever I buy a book' the cover has everything to do with wether it attracts or not . ? If it looks interesting, I'll look further, if it dont ' I'll pass ' and move on to one that grabs me.. Most interesting guys dont need to create attention grabbing names...Mischeviouslad... To answer your question... When Mr JJ created our profile he was drinking a common juice known as ' justjuice' and used the name.. no juicy story behind it... sorry to disappoint... Mrs JJ
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RHP User
13 years ago
That my profile name hardtruckin is also misinterpreted by people and am judged therein. I like to think that I possess an articulate and intelligent conversation with some light hearted dry humour as a side dish. However, my profile can, and has in the past, been interpreted as denoting to the condition of my penis. This assumption couldn't be further from the truth. In that sense, my point being, and I apologise if I've misinterpreted your reply, should this be the thing I'm judged on before someone has a conversation with me?? I would like to hope not, before given the chance to prove otherwise. Chris
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can't say I ever thought that, didn't you used to have a pic of you driving a truck...or am I confused with someone else.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
I believe jj, that you cant always judge from a name or a profile,and you are correct, like minded people attract like minded people. Small minds attract small minds,attractive people....subjective I know, attract attractive people
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a photo of me standing in front of a red truck with sunnies on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It was right in front of me
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RHP User
13 years ago
.. are borderline.. and I believe ' Hardtruckin' has this protential. sorry' just my take...Already realise you are a articulate guy from reading your posts.. Just as our name is justjuice' its what the person reads into it that counts.. We didnt even think about it until some of these sordid guys' ( usually with a name like ' fuckuallnight ' ) tryed to make something out of it .?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Right. Because guys NEVER exaggerate about the size of their cocks.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Unless a guy was born in 1969 I won't reply if he has '69' in his nickname.
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RHP User
13 years ago
In esscence I agree with you justjuice, however I do also believe in confirming my suspicions of ability or what can only be described as borderline narcissism, through conversation. Be it may that my situation may also differ greatly from yours due sheer number of approaches and I understand completely that everyone needs a system to short list their potential playmates. May I just also add that I've greatly enjoyed this topic.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Did you notice that too... guys dont lie about their cock size... noooooo never... and 69 must mean their birth year.. we all know that... and pigs can fly....hardtruckin : now u got me..... my dictionary doesnt even have ' narcissism ' in it..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is essentially a person who's own view of themselves and their abilities exceed that of their ACTUAL ability. Basically someone who talks themselves up to be something that they're not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
That my definition is a very basic definition.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I take it you mean its a word thats used to stiffle another person who has a different opinion to the user. ? Not so uncommon really when you consider some have a need to practice these words to satisfy either their own self esteem / ego... not saying this is you of course, speaking in general...The other day' a close girlfriend was called a 'slut '.. The user is also one of these opinionated people who may fit that narcssium lable you so describe.. So whats worse' being called a 'slut ' or narcissist . ? Neither really' they are both used only in a attempt to make the target feel bad about themself, giving the user a sense of personal acheivement..So at days end, using names for the purpose to belittle another person for self gain, isnt that smart.. Just my opinion... Mrs JJ
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RHP User
13 years ago
There are personality types if you like. Narcissist, sociopath, and psychopath. When I get my laptop out I'll be sure to quote a passage about the narcissist for you, it may be more able to explain it as I had no dramas :p.
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RHP User
13 years ago
according to the Greek myth, was very beautiful and broke many hearts,both male and female.He fell inlove with his own reflection,and because he couldn't endure to possess yet not possess,grief drove him to stab himself in the heart. The flower white narcissus sprang up from where he fell.Daffodils are also called narcissus and now it's Spring, lots of narcissus around hardtrucking....and when summer comes the narcissists will flower. Interesting profile name perhaps?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Justjuice:) Thanks for the Topic.. Yes I know what you mean some are very grosse but I try not to take their ID on face value so to speak ..I check out their Profile too it tells we more if they have mostly auto replies except the sexy bits then I tend to go hmmmmmm. That auto reply about themselves Man that annoys the craop out of me.. how much effort does it take to say something about yourself using your own words..If they're a guest ..which most are ..Then I just move on without a 2nd thought . .If they Contact me well! that most Important Contact MSG says it all for me ..If they're so not My type I say in a nice way and wish them Good Luck! finding Women who want what they offer.. Bye,, Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was just trying the old tried and trusted "Jedi mind trick" method
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Lu.. Good points you make there.. It would take a quite a smooth talker to convince me otherwise that " whats in a name ' has no bearing on the way other people perceive you...Wanting your first impression to mean something ' must surely be important .? Put it this way' if a guy is willing to take the chance on a suggestive name , he risks only having replies from like minded people who like that sort of thing .. Meaning he is possibly segregating himself from a larger audience...hardtruckin2011.. Thanks for your offer' but I would really like to get back to the original topic rather than pursue the meaning of narcissim. maybe another day...newscrew : What do you think.. ? I believe your user name is borderline, just my opinion.. ?
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