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Submissives
November 20 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
So tell me has anyone ever accepted anyones offer to clean etc for them......I just wonder what the offerer gets out of it often they say they dont necessarily want anything sexual.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I ironed a dates shirt once ... And I don't even iron for myself!!! It wasn't on for long, and it was worth the effort. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am still waiting ! lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Or service oriented? I know someone who is service oriented and gets pleasure from doing things for others and does go and clean someone's house when asked (ordered). I'd like to ask but don't have the courage. service oriented submissives . . . .walk this way thank you!
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
I offer, and have given, massages without the expectation of sexual interaction after, though most times it does happen due to the intimate touching involved. For me it is the pleasure of giving someone something they enjoy while doing something I enjoy and getting more experience with the technique at the same time. A win-win ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do nice things for people each and every day. I wash, cook clean and iron for my man (and we do not live together) If he works late then I drive the ten kms to his house to feed his animals, once a month I go out and give the house a thorough clean. If I am staying with friends or family it is a given that I can and will help out wherever I can...be it laundry, cooking, cleaning, babysitting or whatever. All this I do because I can and not because I want or expect anything in return. What is wrong with society whereby someone can not help another person without expecting anything in return?
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RHP User
13 years ago
give something special to someone you really like...it's a present of your time...and always a lovely present to give...Several years ago I knew this girl whose front door worked but was fitted appallingly, she never complained about it but I knew it made her house very cold in winter and very hot in summer. She never complained and was quite stoic about it but I knew that it really irked her, so one day, I gathered my tools and went around and spent hours reshaping and refitting her door...the smile on her face when the door closed perfectly is something I will always remember...ricky
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RHP User
13 years ago
...you need to understand a bit about bdsm in general. Usually it is a part of their sexuality, and there are many types of submissives, just the same as there are many types of dominants. other then the service orientated sub, you can have ones wanting pain, or simply to please their dom/domme. They like to serve their dominate, this either excites them sexually or goes hand in hand with their sexuality. Some ask for nothing in return but the gesture of you letting them clean your house as a way of stating that you are better then them (which they sexually crave), but others may with in returen for doing housework that they may do it naked, be confinded to a cock cage, get to give oral sex to the dominate etc.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes AlwaysOnce this was the answer I was looking for as the people offering were in no way known to me and these gestures were not offered for me in kindness but were from total strangers.I did have to be careful how I worded my post as my previous one did not make it to the forums.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I received a message from a woman on this site,{she lives interstate},asking me if I would watch her slave on cam, he needed to do some housework.She was his Mistress in the bdsm sense and he couldn't find a woman locally who needed some housework done. I had exchanged a few messages with her previously and she was a regular forum poster.Her slave and I chatted on the phone,and we arranged a time for the housework watching.It was hilarous,this man wore a very cute maids outfit and was a very entertaining maid,I am not sure about his cleaning skills though lol. I have also received a couple of requests from men here to come and clean for me,one was just last week and his profile states that he is lookng for any women,including students and pensioners...lol...to watch him clean their house,the woman is to stay clothed while he is in naked cleaning mode.He does want something sexual at the end though.l haven't and nor will I take up an offer like this,it doesn't float my lil boat but to each their own.x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL - So there are actually women who would do this for free and get off on it, maybe even throw in a few sexual favours too. Between the cleaning lady, the laundry service and the gardener I could save a fortune! Probably not going to find one of these in the Yellow Pages am I, oh well apply within and without clothing please.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I waited in line for my coffee once
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'AlwaysOnce' ...you need to understand a bit about bdsm in general. Usually it is a part of their sexuality, and there are many types of submissives, just the same as there are many types of dominants. other then the service orientated sub, you can have ones wanting pain, or simply to please their dom/domme. They like to serve their dominate, this either excites them sexually or goes hand in hand with their sexuality. Some ask for nothing in return but the gesture of you letting them clean your house as a way of stating that you are better then them (which they sexually crave), but others may with in returen for doing housework that they may do it naked, be confinded to a cock cage, get to give oral sex to the dominate etc.
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RHP User
13 years ago
A very interesting topic. When it comes to anything kinky, fetish or bdsm related there is a multitude of possibile answers, thats what makes it unique and never getting any precise answers. Asking why someone is submissive or dominant, a switch or a masochist, it like asking why there is fish in the sea or why you do or dont like a certain food, there is no precise answer. When looking at the interraction with regards to a submissive/dominant situation, it is about the dynamics, one gives while one takes, yet the one who takes, is also giving, its a circle with no end, thats why when findin the right person to share that dynamic with, it has a degree of perfection. Example, a woman cooks a nice romantic meal for her partner, she is happy and putting in a lot of effort, he eats it and enjoys it, this makes her happy, and after a nnice romantic meal he is appreciative and is often more romantic in return. There is many variations and depths of that very basic scenario. For some, they ctually thrive on that dynamic, they are able to see and enjoy how positive it can be, the exchange that goes on between 2 consenting adults, and there is those who also find that serving even a stranger by doing their housework, makes them feel good. There is people who do volunteer work and the likes. In a form that is being submissive to 'something' or someone. Because for each individual, the reasons for doing these things and the need behind their behaviour cant be explained, by them except, they enjoy it. For some it has a sexual aspect, just like denying a submissive pleasure by orgasms, why the hell would you want to be brought to the brink and denied all the time, or be in chastity.... asking the questions and trying to find a true answer will just do your head in... accept it, and be thankful in your own way, let them have an orgasm, or be a bitch and say get out or even be sweet and say an appreciative thank you... whats important is you be you, and let them be them and enjoy the experience. A good houseslave is hard to find! ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
taking it out of context I could seriously think you have no wild imagination or substance
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RHP User
13 years ago
I actually had to rewrite this thread as my first was not ever put up and I still havent heard back from the powers here.....I really do hate that. It's not the first time I have written a thread only to have it never appear and when I request an explanation I am given a ticket number and no one gets back to me....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Id give sexual favors if a man came and cleaned my house naked.....god how hot would that be watching a naked man vacuuming
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RHP User
13 years ago
If only you were in Sydney I'd be your nude slave.
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RHP User
13 years ago
30yo male here prepared to be your nude slave.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I too find the discussion in this post to be interesting. Mentioned above was a comment that this was in part a BDSM thing. While I agree it can be I also feel it can exist outside of the. I call it the June Clever syndrome. June was a character on a TV show called Leave it to Bever. She is the epitome of the perfect house wife, dedicated to to making her family happy. You could argue the June Clever was submissive which is why she left punishment to the father/husband. To answer the question with a more modern spin is that we do things that please us, pleasure us and make us happy. Doing thing for other people is because it please us to see others having pleasure or being happy. We do things to make other proud of us…its all well and good to be proud of yourself, but it is so much better when others are proud us J Now…anyone who offers in open forum to come and clean your house is not a submissive in the true sense, or in any sense really. Submission is a gift, it is a gift based in an exchange of wants, needs and desires. It is always an exchange both give and both receive. Hard as it to understand it is empowering to be a submissive as much as it is to be dominant. Any way the person submitting get fulfillment of one of their wants, needs or desires. An over simplistic answer but an effective one. Cheers
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's quite appealing doing stuff for others when there's a little sexual tension involved. I built a friend a bed once on the proviso I got to help her shag test it. We built it together with the expectation of sex in the back of our minds. It was so much fun.BTW. I think I may be my own "house wife sub thing". ~laughs~ Quoting 'AlwaysOnce' ...you need to understand a bit about bdsm in general. Usually it is a part of their sexuality, and there are many types of submissives, just the same as there are many types of dominants. other then the service orientated sub, you can have ones wanting pain, or simply to please their dom/domme. They like to serve their dominate, this either excites them sexually or goes hand in hand with their sexuality. Some ask for nothing in return but the gesture of you letting them clean your house as a way of stating that you are better then them (which they sexually crave), but others may with in returen for doing housework that they may do it naked, be confinded to a cock cage, get to give oral sex to the dominate etc.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
I think kink is just another way of either escaping your day to day obligations or acknowledging something you discover about yourself. I have always been in autonomous roles where I call the shots in a male dominant industry. Having a man strong enough to "educate" me and allow me to "give" to him as a sub intrigues and excites me. Sheesh I hope I'm wording this right. I also enjoy bathing certain of my lovers, stripping them down and washing them everywhere head to toe. Am I at worship or am I trying to make them somehow less the dominant I don't know. Sometimes I think it's as simple as just wanting to not have to be in control all the time. To give and trust implicitly and completely. I am not experienced in this at all, but i am deliciously curious about learning more.....would possibly enjoy being the spanker as well as the spankee (insert devils grin)
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