RHP

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Strap ons

April 14 2010

I am thinking about letting a lady use a strap on with me I ve never done this and would like to hear about other peoples experiences And what to do for my first time. Cheer Tod

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Are there specail strap ons for ladies to use on men.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well toddy..Im sure you will get ample responses.. brace yaself cos this is gunna hurt...lol My first time was pretty powerful (as the phucker)....being trained every step of the way in how to do it without damaging the dude is important as done incorrectly could be nasty. Start out small....digital penetration with lube when you are turned on.. (therefore relaxed) and working your way up to something more substantial when you've found someone with a little commonsense and knowledge. Also best to be prepared...empty your bowels beforehand....saves time cleaning up afterward... Good luck!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hehee...Lippy sweety..Well looks like you pretty much covered all the info for young tod... Now go get all excited tod and start practising!...finger n lube first..then go buy some toys diff sizes...then when you are ready..You get to go in the big league! Big toys! Lots of joy! huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If you want something like a cock up your rear I'm not sure how that can be! Seems to me like those guys on here who have said "I'm straight but like sucking cock ....", they're not! I'm just plain Bi.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi Todd:) There's heaps to chose from in the strap on dept, personally i prefer the strapless style (we nicknamed it the "plug in" :D) and they come in all shapes and sizes, your local sexshop should have a few you can see in person. just remember it may not look imressive in size, but I can assure you apperances can be deciveing lol. Myname has given you some pretty good advice, if i'm planning a little fun in that direction, i generally try to fast before hand, some people like enemas and they can be a great addition to your playtime. You and your partner should try to be relaxed, preferably sober (at least untill you both have a bit of experiance using aftermarket parts :D ) take your time, there's no medal for finishing first. AND remember, it can be very intimidating to fucker, not just the fuckee, some ladies I've been with have felt clumbsy and awkward the first few times; just remeber how your first few experiances were be reassuring and patient. Enjoying anal play doesn't mean your gay or bi, its really just another way to have some amazing sex:) Have fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ok Todd... the best strategy I can think of for a beginner.. is to buy your own... try it out on yourself first... make sure you're comfortable with that size...... and do that all before you let any seriously rank amateur lady cock wielder let loose on your arse with it. This is for your own benefit.... if it hurts a lot.. it's just not being done right. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    A dude can be into getting a prostate massage without being gay or bisexual jeese... open you mind and your arse will follow. Quoting 'bitbent' If you want something like a cock up your rear I'm not sure how that can be! Seems to me like those guys on here who have said "I'm straight but like sucking cock ....", they're not! I'm just plain Bi.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Stalky Thanks for the advice mate, and yes BITBENT im straight and comftable with a lady putting something in my rear I think were are out of the dark ages now and sex is becoming more free and equalized between the sexes with the balance of power divided evenly. The best way is to accept this and have fun from it. Tod

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Try to find out before hand if you have allergic reactions to any specific types of plastic. I, for one, flare up when I come into contact with phthalates-free rubbers, and the last thing you want is an arsehole swollen from an allergic reaction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'The_Last_76'Try to find out before hand if you have allergic reactions to any specific types of plastic. I, for one, flare up when I come into contact with phthalates-free rubbers, and the last thing you want is an arsehole swollen from an allergic reaction.You know I would normally doubt advice from a 22yr old... but it's fair to say that you are 110% correct - that really is the last thing I would want!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Nothing wrong with it! But ..... Yes, prostate massage is one thing, actually wanting to be anally f'd ...... that's Bi. Just being honest with what I see, nothing wrong with it, I'm Bi ...... and honest enough to admit it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sorry, my female friends account was still logged in and I've used the wrong one! Embarrassing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lolz Jeano. You know, I would never have thought of that. Indeed, it's lucky I'm not allergic to root vegetables or BBQ sauce. :p hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Let's just say I have had a bad experience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' You know I would normally doubt advice from a 22yr old... but it's fair to say that you are 110% correct - that really is the last thing I would want!! I try my best to only offer advice that I have had some experience in. Otherwise I'm just wasting time writing words.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    not tht it matters anything worth a damn and not that I like to get bogged down with semantics or labels, but being gay or bi means wanting to have sex with a member of the SAME sex. You like being fucked by a girl with a strap on, it makes you a bit kinky or adventurous, not bi...