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Straight/Bi Males- Curious???
March 31 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
hahaha gotta love wen this stuff happens... i have a feeling the guys didnt even understand the full extent of what mite be expected to happen.... when it comes to stuff like that people need to ask what is expected if you go that far etc. and yes some people do have fake stuff on profiles.. they say they only want friends then they get naked on cam & play asking who wants them etc lmfao its a confusing place chatrooms & sites haha
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Ruff. It's very clear to me that lots of "straight" guys apparently aren't exactly what they would have us believe, going by the profile descriptions. There are numerous reasons for this... but the most outstanding reason would have to be that bisexual men are not accepted or tolerated by the homophobic part of the straight community..... you cant go to many couples clubs and play m/m for instance... and bisexual men are not accepted widely by the gay community either.... Bisexual women, on the other hand, are widely accepted... so A bisexual guy.. can say he is straight... adn appeal to a wider proportion of the straight community.... and be a bit of a "prize" so far as the gay community is concerned... it's win win. Seems the only bisexual men who are treated poorly... are the sexually honest ones. Plus being "straight" is such a culturally anomalous term... it means different things in different cultures... for instance... in India, being straight means not getting fucked up the arse or sucking off your buddy... otherwise most other sexual activities with your mates are perfectly alright... i.e. doing the fucking or being sucked... well... apparently you're still considered straight... that is, not effeminate. Regardless... for a monogamous bisexual guy, beng straight or otherwise is merely a question of choice.... you can be bisexual and choose only to have sex with your loving female companion.. . for instance.... and sometimes, even though you are predominantly straight... sometimes you might just stray from time to time. I think it is tremendously complicated.... you can be mostly straight... and prefer to fuck women... but when that option is not available to you... maybe you'll suffer a bit of m/m to get off.... hehe... those guys consider themselves to be straight, I would think. Reading profiles.... it's not enough... just to tick the box.... I mean.. what does "anything" mean... or "experimental".... if they arent gay, straight or bisexual.... or bicurious... what the hell is that? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
yet I am besieged my males that don't read my profile properly. If they read it properly then they would save me from having to explain what a dominatrix does. I am happy answer questions about bdsm if anybody is interested (just message me) but they still pester me for straight sex. And a note to couples. Please check and see what the person is looking for. I think it sounds awful and angry to have to put Read My Profile! or No couples! in the intro line. Glad you brought the subject up.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i just didnt read the post thoroughly enough mate my mistake
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RHP User
16 years ago
i'm quite the catch with the men folk.i'm 80% veiwed by single males followedby about 19% couples and about 1%single females. might have to go to mardi grassthis year. seems i'm a celebrity...ahhhahahahahahahhahahahahahahaEarl the farbulous
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RHP User
16 years ago
its funny that bi sexual men arent accepted as well as bisexual women are.. i will admitt (if i was into mmf) if a bisexual male asked to join in i would say no only for the fact my man is 100% straight and wouldnt want to make things uncomfortable for either of them cos it would just spoil the night... its funny how women used to be the unacceptable ones and now its men oh how the tables have turned doesnt it suck lmfao
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'DominaT' And a note to couples. Please check and see what the person is looking for. I think it sounds awful and angry to have to put Read My Profile! or No couples! in the intro line. Glad you brought the subject up. I am with you Dom. I have had no choice but to put what i am NOT looking for on my profile in clearly outlined terms as I was getting many that were messaging me without reading my profile and then they wouldnt take no for an answer. I know that it can be hard to negitiate the minefield but it doesnt take much to read MOST profiles through before flicking off a message or flirt. Shows consideration as well. Whether it be your sexual orientation, age restrictions or desires we all deserve some consideration for what we are looking for. Sexual orintation for many just isnt as black and white as gay or straight. As Stalky has pointed out, people consider themselves straight even though they are wanting to try a situation that wouldnt normally be considered as a 'straight' one. Be it MMF (for the guys) or FFM (for the girls) to these people they are just exploring a curiosity it doesnt mean that they are not going to go through with it or they have got false information on their profile it just means they want to try it. Maybe just a once off to satisfy their curiosity. Everyone has a right to explore their own sexual desires and curiosity's. Just my 2 cents worth Kisses Focus xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
why would you need to be be bi , to do some guys wife in a cuckold session? ive played with lots of guys present, when i move to one end, he moves to the other...simple ;>
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RHP User
16 years ago
Clearly NeoandBlaze... you've never invovled a custard enima in your adventures. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
help!! stalkys checkin out my butt
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RHP User
16 years ago
hehe... and what a very sexy pair of dirty fuckers you make. Thanks for letting me perve! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' hehe... and what a very sexy pair of dirty fuckers you make. Thanks for letting me perve! Hugs Stalky me thinks your arse startin to look big in those pants darlin..ooooppps shit sorry dude, had you on wide screen,ahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Another one that didn't read my profile properly. Is it that hard to read a few lines of text. My profile is short and to the point. Feel free to check it out. What is wrong with guys? I know that most of them don't read instruction manuals.....hang on, maybe I just answered my own question there. I had better not change my intro line to "IMPORTANT. READ BEFORE OPERATING" lol. I think Focus has the right idea. Tell them what you don't want up front. Any ideas for a new intro line?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'NeoAndBlaze' why would you need to be be bi , to do some guys wife in a cuckold session? ive played with lots of guys present, when i move to one end, he moves to the other...simple ;> ummmmm, you don't have to be Bi! But if you had taken the time to read the very first ine i had written, i explained that the couple were "Also looking for" M/M play!What was interesting was the amount of "Straight" guys who replied to their forum post, and quite possibly didn't read the full post-Seems to be a very common issue methinks!
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