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Stalking... watch out

February 22 2010

I've found out that I'm being stalked by an individual on this site... the person (a guy) has added me to his hot list... and I can not remove him... this allows him to see as much info as a friend would.  Blocking him does not work either...   Note to you all - check the hot lists you are on - someone might be watching you without you knowing...   Hugs Wayne

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  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    16 years ago

    Here's hoping the site administrators get onto this HUGE flaw in their system soon and get it fixed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    OK.. it's not that I do not believe you... but how do you know that the hot list allows YOU to circumvent the block rules?   That's it... I'm just going to stick everyone on my hot list from now on..... hehe... Yay!!! no more blocked profiles for stalky.. hehe... I must be on over a hundred or more block lists... why Wayne?.. Why didnt you come to my aid sooner??   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    cos I tested it with someone I trust - :-)   Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Wayne,   Mmmm.... Gotta love the HOT LIST !  I just accept it as part of the FUN on RHP.  I don't even bother blocking people. I know I'm being "stalked"... the messages and txts I get each morning giving me "feedback" on my forum postings is evidence of that.    I find if VERY funny when more than one guy thinks a particular forum post is about THEM !!! LOL   It's amusing to get those early morning txts saying, "if you have a problem with me then why not say".  Well... I DON'T have a problem with any ONE guy... I have problems with LOTS of guys !!!! My posts are often a mixture of thoughts not specifically about one person.  When I do have a problem with a guy I tell him !   I can handle RHP stalking.... but if certain guys start rocking up at my home or office I wouldn't hesitate to take serious action.  (For all those guys who read this...... YES it applies to YOU ! )   Hugs, Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I don't have a problem with the hot list per se... In fact I was using it myself until I found out the side effects... Now I have no one on my hot list as I don't want to be seen as a stalker myself... (which I'm not).   My concern is that blocking is what you do to prevent someone seeing your info etc... and if that is not working then what else is flawed?   Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I myself have been added to a certain hotlist, i know it is their way of keeping an eye on me.. What i dont understand is why the hell would this couple want to do that??  Go figure!!! Even though they know they are blocked.... It gives me the creeps  :S

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Im confused...how can this bloke adding you to his hot list give him any information to be of a concern? I'm with Saturn re this issue, it's all a part of the fun however its a different story if it bleeds out into real time...   Ever thought he might be trying to psych you out? That being the case, he's scored a couple of points by your post. Take it easy Wayne, you know we have your back!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's no biggie really. What are they gonna do with your info?? They can't hurt you.   You'll be right Wayno.. You lucky bugger having a stalker :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I just counted... I am on the Hot List of 150 RHPers ! That's a lot of people watching !!!   I actually only have 8 guys on my HOT list.  Unsure what that says about someone... should I have more ?    xxx Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You mean a man would stalk another man to try and psych him out? Sweet Geesus Lippy! Guys aren't capable of thinking up such games, least none that think like a guy. I've had stalkers before but usually they're harmless and have forgotten their medication. :p hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Argh! How could I be so silly as to think that blokes actually... think....we'll just leave the einstein factor to the girls eh? Thanks for the reminder Stalky, ever so glad you have MY back...mm..a little to the left...no..oh yes..right THERE! Ta luvvy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    theres a hot list??? how do i get on em??? do they have to be on a friend list to get on a hot list?? is this like getting in line @ the supermarket? but thanks wayne for pointing out i have no friends or hot listings,,, i might just block you!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    So now i know your name you handsome devil, thankyou stalky.   why wouldnt this boy stalk you. i mean look at you , i have checked out your profile and i am now hooked. what a hunney. as for boys not playing games is that for real? how about football , oh to back down in a scrum, or cricket you call it a protector i will call it a cod piece.oh ok now i understand , slow learner is meh.   i have been on for only a month and on more hot lists than the cia has on watch lists.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Dear Bob.... if you read his post.. you will note that he calls himself Wayne... whether that's his real name or not... I'll leave that for you to discover. :p     So I put "Wayne"'s  theory to the ultimate test... I went into the chat room for lunch and I added every guy that was wanking to my hot list... and then I stared at them one by one.. saying nothing... and trying to tempt them into blocking me... I then chose one straighht guy and stared at his cam for at least 45 minutes.. a tough job I have to say... but I did this in the name of science.. until ultimately one of he came... :p .... so I had to change to another guy... (choice cock mate :p... so now you know it was all in the name of science, it is ok.. I mean, we're good right?).... and he managed to block me instantly!   So the Block routine still works in the chat room where I guess it really counts Wayne.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ya gotta be kidding me...stalking?...just because you are on his hotlistso what if ya on his hotlist...maybe he wanna sees what ya posting on...just block him...all he can do is see ya posts...pffftttttttttt...whatever next....???...flying pigs...???????????????jose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi Wayne Yeah i'm with you here, there are a couple that  have hot listed me, I dont fit their criteria, they certainly dont fit mine, I have blocked them I ignore them socially , i find it quite creepy, especially since Perth is small and i have ran into them before and likely to  do  so again unless  I police all functions I go to.So yeah  RHP admins,,, can you adress this problem area???  pretty please Devine

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Obligatory LOL to ease the tension... Cotton wool & bubble wrap to RHP forum...STAT! another LOL.. Hey, we are still in Aus aren't we? No one swtiched continents whilst I was racking up some serious 'z'd's last night? Nah, no neo's goose stepping in the streets, we're still communicating in english....no squiggly lines....cool! Bring on the empty vessels, bring on the irate responses bring on the moaners, the enlightened, the funny, the sad,...in fact....the more the better!!! Move over you guys....lets make room for anyone who is brave enough to contribute to ...what is this again? Oh yeah...ADULT forum....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    That's what I love about you lippy.. you're such an inclusive lil scrubba. For teh hot temperament of the forums of late, personally I blame this hot weather... let's be perfectly candid here for once... I mean, my balls are stuck to my inside leg and Im sittin ghere looking down at them... and I have to say it's very uncomfortable without a tongue long enough to resolve the problem. :p     Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thank you  For Being so Observant  Wayne.....The  friends  List  ..well im more than  happy  with that  i have  friends.....There's  is a Hot list.... ( 22 pages im not sure what that equates to).I have  one to ..But most of my friends are on it.....and people i genuinely think are hot and have spoken to in the chat-rooms...and  would  like to get the opportunity to speak to again...I would also like that they have the choice to  let me know that they do not wish to be on my hot-list We all want a little space to move about freely whenever we chooseThere is a Short List I'm Not To Happy about and i do not use this Creature   I mean  ..... Featureas i find  this  rather distasteful....a  Second Choice  list  in my opinion.....And  would  dearly Love to Have the Option of being taken off these lists.....As I am No Ones Second Choice...thank you very Much....And  Neither is Anyone Else..In My OpinionNudiexx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ....and I dare say you do too   Love the lengths you'll go to all in the name of" science". Would love to know the depths you went to into "tempting" them too. Hmmmmm I just used length and depth to describe your work...maybe I can take notes for you on the side next time you are ready for more research topics..just in case further clarification is required at a later date!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I hate to admit this but i'm very confused by this post. I thought that everyone could see the same amount on your profile, unless of course you had given them access to a private gallery. So I don't understand why it would matter if you were on someone's hot list. I'm on 220 it seems but those people can see no more than anyone else??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Balls stuck to the inside of your leg....tongue not long enough to lick them? Ahh, and just in time for tea too....whats on the menu I wonder?....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have this image in my head now of Stalky sitting legs akimbo and the fan blowing on the affected sweaty area.....mmmmm yes interesting visuals   LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Daytimelover49' I hate to admit this but i'm very confused by this post. I thought that everyone could see the same amount on your profile, unless of course you had given them access to a private gallery. So I don't understand why it would matter if you were on someone's hot list. I'm on 220 it seems but those people can see no more than anyone else?? i can view your profile by clicking on you...if however, you have blocked me...then when i click up comes a message saying this profile is unavailable...if i have you on my hotlist, i still cannot view any of your details...i can only see (via the activities in the center of the page) whether you have posted in the forums...hope this helps...cheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Devine now i have that visual of stalky , whilst the stalker is getting away..Question for Wayne do you want stalky to have your back..? ah shit another bad visual ..our stalky spooning wayne !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Comeandgetme, I was starting to wonder about all this too. On another similar site if someone blocks you, you can still read their rprofile, you just cant communicate with them

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Stalky STOP IT!  Told ya if ya want to go perving go stealth hehehe.   xx Miss Honey xx  <

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lippy.. I said I was a problem solver and I solved that problem... I went for a night ride on my motorbike in footy shorts, that is sans underwear. Ahhhh I have to tell you... that's better. :)   Hugs Stalky and the kewl boys.     Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Balls stuck to the inside of your leg....tongue not long enough to lick them? Ahh, and just in time for tea too....whats on the menu I wonder?....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Stalky STOP IT!!   Told ya if ya wanna perve then go stealth hehehe.   xx Miss Honey xx  <<

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Wayne ya lucky bastard, how come I don't have a RHP stalker? ...lol    & if I did...wondering whether she would send me her profile and contact details too Please ...lmao   Forget it mate, they obviously have nothing better to do with their time!   Cheers,   Nice

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    so it just provides a shortcut to finding your forum posts, which a serious stalker would find anyway - these forums don't move THAT fast that you can't easily run through and see who has posted what.I have a guy who checks out my profile (yoohoo, you know who ya are, lol) about every second day, but usually about 4 times that day - dunno why, because it doesn't change. But he doesn't have me on a hot list, or a short list, or a friends list.Honestly, once I noticed it and thought "eh, curious little fella" that was about it, I couldn't even be bothered blocking me - big deal, what do i care if he can see my profile. Hell, you go to a party and you never know who it is that is watching ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    As soon as I log on the first name to come up in the 'real time' section is alawys the same!! Think he is just curious ?? ... or that maybe if I see his name up there so fooken often that his chances will be thaaaat much better of actually meeting up ?? I havent blocked him, .. just think "whatever floats ya boat" !! ** someone came into my front yard and stole the pushy that was leaning up against my bedroom window the other night... and that freaked me out a bit more!! ..as well as pissing me off!! ** and the other thing I shake my head over is the flirt msg that ends in "so what do you think of me?".. and you click on their profile for a sticky only to get the "come back later" msg! I mean.. wtf??     - maple-

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    was easier to keep up with the sandpit. now a lot of us are friendsi'm a bit uneasy bout deleating the hot list for fear of hurtin someonesfeelings. thought everyone used it. bugger, will deleat now as no onelooks anyway and will save having the same number of friends onlineas hotlistahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl (not roooly a stalker, honest)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarlJean made me do it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lolz Sydneyboy... I say it on my profile.... given that you don't have a set of ta~tas, I am obviously just checking for your forum posts.. honest! It's the fastest way..... I'd bet you're the kind of guy who shows up fasionably late to parties am I right? Just be careful... if you show up too late then nobody has the energy left to do anything but watch... hehe.   Hugs Stalkybot

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    And if ya wanna keep em....you won't go callin me scrubba capishe??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'niceoral' Wayne ya lucky bastard, how come I don't have a RHP stalker? ...lol    & if I did...wondering whether she would send me her profile and contact details too Please ...lmao   Forget it mate, they obviously have nothing better to do with their time!   Cheers,   Nice poor old wayne has a male stalker, not a female one...lol...don;t know what he gets, ya should ask him, but i have a female who stalks me...she has blocked me, yet she sends flirts all the time...roflmaoas soon as i see them, it's just delete...still it's a shame when hers is the only flirt there...cheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sticks and stones Lippy... I'll make you a deal then.. leave the "old fogie" line for Mr Burns and I'll drop the colloqialist lingo, hun. OK?     hehe   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Don't rub it in Stalky...I do prefer creampie after all.... I digress...old fogie is gawn....RIP Mr Burns Oh and FYI...Colloquial lingo is often mistakenly used  with a connotation of disapproval, as if it meant “vulgar” or “incorrect” usage, whereas it is merely a familiar style  used in speaking and writing. So there...ner ner ner ner Mz not so grown-up Anna 'shakin her tail feather atchoooo'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    No.. not vulgar or incorrect.... and used by the "vast unwashed masses" not just in speach and writing lippy.... but also in both fine art and architecture too... and in any of the arts, I suppose.  :P.. hehe... Now where were we.. are yes.. tailfeathers, I believe!!   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thats just bizzare, what is it with some people? Cheers Nev..............pondering the goings on within the mind!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Me thinks there may be nothing much to ponder with some of the not so goings on of the mind...less....out there in rhp land. Anyhoooo...r u coming to the big night out?? oh please say YES...   Stalky: huh? I fear I may have shaken something loose apart from my tailfeathers that is... 'Vacant space for rent' Anna

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I just sent you a flirt!  Hope you put me on your hot list now ...I'm feeling a little dejected as I'm only on 60, so few boob guys these days....it's all about the arse it seems!   Just a word of warning people about something I discovered by accident today (honestly...the mouse got caught under the paper feed tray on the printer *giggle*)....you can right click on any photo in a public gallery and save it to your computer.  Right click has been disabled in private galleries though.  Still, watch what you put in your public gallery.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i started a post last year about pics and I hate to tell you this but on one particular browser you can save private pics cos i just tried and it works

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks for the heads up Desserts...I have just deleted a whole lot of private gallery permissions!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    now you on my hot list to darl.ahahahahahahahahaEarl, who likes a mammorie or twomammories. light the corner of my mind

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    What the hotlist means to us and the benefits of updates on your homepage:   you are hot, pics are hot and they regularly change, you have changed your preferences/search criterior,  you have posted in the forums recently, you have registered to maybe go to a party, you have registered on datefinder, name changes in chat, ..... the hotlist is a great way to navigate this site without wading  through the drivel, especially in the forums looking for the most interesting poster/topics as is regularly quoted.. "you can tell so much about someone by what they write in the forums", these are the benefits we pay for and appreciate.   The pics preferences speak for themselves.   Now we attend lots of partys and this also helps us decide to go or not  depending on who has registered, which works  for both the hot and the hideous(very helpful).   We hardly use datefinder but still good to know who is avaialble to catch up with, but to arrange a date on datefinder with someone on your blocked list would not seem bright or plausible.  Name changes especially helpful in chat with the almost daily changes, always good to know if you know who you are chatting to in most cases.   We are on120 hotlists and we do not know 87 of them, do we have 87 stalkers we do not know about? No ....  not when you read the above, the hotilsts are there for us all to use.   If you are popular for whatever reason you have peoples attention regardless and that attention is often sought after.  Wayne, also why are you concerned  about being "stalked" by the hotlist when you have a face pic and mobile number on your profile? surely any stalker worth his salt would start there lol   Happy hunting all xxxxxxx Brenbob68

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Sonsie' I just sent you a flirt!  Hope you put me on your hot list now ...I'm feeling a little dejected as I'm only on 60, so few boob guys these days....it's all about the arse it seems!  Blushing bright red...my apologies Sonsie...i thought ya was just playing wif me...just checking me hot list now...will rectify situation immediatelygrinsmwahjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Wayne,   I have said it to you soooooooo many times you truely are a "nice guy".   Its not as funny as some have made out. Cyber stalking is in fact growing and has very similair traits to physical stalking. It is no less confronting and perhaps should be taken as serious as the person being "stalked" feels it is.   Not sure what your creepy man is up to. Doesn't it often come down to jealousy and lack of true spirit. Guys like that often lack imagination and slowly come unstuck themselves.   Your a great guy mate not just a nice one. Thanks for the heads up.   Nev I am thinking the same thing, what is going on in some peoples minds ?   Safety and good times to all sexy swingers.   Brae

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Sonsie' Just a word of warning people about something I discovered by accident today (honestly...the mouse got caught under the paper feed tray on the printer *giggle*)....you can right click on any photo in a public gallery and save it to your computer.  Right click has been disabled in private galleries though.  Still, watch what you put in your public gallery.You can also save any private gallery pic to your computer...  *Says Jean looking at his stalky / serial-killer cork board with pictures pinned to it*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Now I am starting to feel bad.  When I first joined the site, I jjust started adding people to my hotlist.  Nothing was intended to be creepy about it, I didn't really know how it all worked.  Funny thing is that I probably have a million on there ebcause I just never bothered to delete them.  So if I have anyone on my hotlist, please don't take offence, its just because I am useless with computers.   Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thankfully the guy that had me in his hot list has removed me after a brief email exchange - nice to know that sometimes being polite can work :-)   As for the feature issue with blocking etc - well RHP do need to do something about that, but given my email to them 3 days ago is as yet not answered, I hold little hope.   I note others mention that you can save pictures from RHP - well I'm sorry to tell you that even Windows 7 has the ability to grab screenshots of anything regardless of the protection that websites put on themselves.  Whats more is that there are tools available to even capture video feeds and the like.  Reality of the Internet is, if you don't want it known, don't post it on the net.   Hugs to all :-) although the picture of Stalky having my back has me worried now....   Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    the general rule of the web is "if you can see it you can save it" - private gallery pics? easy, just save the whole page and the browser will nicely stick all the pics in a folder for you. If you can't save it like that e.g. those galleries that load a picture in a Flash object, a saved picture is but a keypress of "Print Screen" away.I wish websites would just remove those 'no right click' blocks, a waste of their developers time and accomplishes nothing - especially ones that block you from right clicking to open a new tab* /end rant* yes, I could just hold Ctrl down, but still

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' So I put "Wayne"'s  theory to the ultimate test... I went into the chat room for lunch and I added every guy that was wanking to my hot list... and then I stared at them one by one.. saying nothing...  .... so I had to change to another guy... (choice cock mate :p... so now you know it was all in the name of science, it is ok.. I mean, we're good right?).... and he managed to block me instantly!   Hugs Stalky For the record Stalks... I wasn't wanking... I was trying to dislodge some persistent belly-button fluff.   PS - That's a creepy stare   PPS - Is that hair gel on your ear?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I regret to advise that i will not be attending Gaz's Soiree, hopefully next time! (Its a real prick sometimes when you live to far away.)  but we might be down that way in a few weeks for Grinspoon at Enmore Theartre, Unless we go see em at the Hellenic club in Canberra first! Cheers Nev....Thrills.. Kills and Sunday Pills!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    there my pants man.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl (sorry for laughing so hard but nearly wet myself)love ya baby

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'NevandKj' I regret to advise that i will not be attending Gaz's Soiree, hopefully next time! (Its a real prick sometimes when you live to far away.)  but we might be down that way in a few weeks for Grinspoon at Enmore Theartre, Unless we go see em at the Hellenic club in Canberra first! Cheers Nev....Thrills.. Kills and Sunday Pills! Heya Nev! Ah well...as per subject line, hopefully there will be ample opportunities for the NSW RHP chapter to get together. However, given the latest forum trend (censoring adult behaviour) I'm a tad concerned as to whether there will be a 'code of conduct' issued prior to every event. The 'dah' factor aside, I thought I'd left that sort of stuff behind in high school....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    guy on ya hotlist 'cos ya interested in what he's posting...deary deary me....whateva next?...glad ya such a nice guy wayne...guess ya could have always got rhp admin to remove him, hey?theSHERIFF

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    you are a scrumptious dish nice guy, but that is a tad creepy. i've had some pretty strange characters check out my profile, but thankfully they have'nt found me decent enough to add me to their hotlist. one greasy looking 65 year old springs to mind. i was having a debate with a good friend the other day about whether or not it is flattering, if someone you dont find attractive, feels attracted to you. a resounding no was the consensus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Heya Mrs PThat would be nice, you must  let me know how  you go with  that,im in the same situation.so either courtesy or   rhp admin solving it i would be superb fingers crossed Dev xxx  Quoting 'I_b_me_Mrs_P' Wayne posted that he had solved his prob yesterday... however I am now hoping the couple I have blocked... brenbob68... will be nice enough to take me/us off their Hot Lists now that they have had their little play... else we'll have to see what RHP Admin will be doing about people circumnavigating Block Lists by Hot Listing those they're blocked by... Cheers dears... Mrs P'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'I_b_me_Mrs_P' Wayne posted that he had solved his prob yesterday... however I am now hoping the couple I have blocked... brenbob68... will be nice enough to take me/us off their Hot Lists now that they have had their little play... else we'll have to see what RHP Admin will be doing about people circumnavigating Block Lists by Hot Listing those they're blocked by... Cheers dears... Mrs P' let me know how you go on this one mrs peachy, Im having the same thing with people on block adding me to their hot list, how do they do it?? and for that  matter why   do they do it??i know Im hot and its awesome they confirm it ...but....dev xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Unfortunately  devine i am in the same position you are with the same couple.... Lets hope this problem is rectified before long. And btw devvy......... u r hot... reowwwwwwwww lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    maybe those that are being 'stalked' should take it as a compliment! When I had a couples profile we had alot of people put us on their list, didn't phase us tho, just meant they have good taste lol I dont have pics at all on this one now, as I dont want that attention anymore! but hey as long as all they do is know when you log in, or look at your pics, what harm are they really doing? Let them have their little thrill I say! Lil

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    wow I cant believe all this... so someone thinks you're a bit of alright, gawd get over it ppl!!  So if someone was checking you out when your out you would stay they are stalking you?? just cos they happen to frequent the same place??I think it's all rather childish!!  so as I said before!!!!!! Quoting 'lil_me' maybe those that are being 'stalked' should take it as a compliment! When I had a couples profile we had alot of people put us on their list, didn't phase us tho, just meant they have good taste lol I dont have pics at all on this one now, as I dont want that attention anymore! but hey as long as all they do is know when you log in, or look at your pics, what harm are they really doing? Let them have their little thrill I say! Lil

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's called stalking if you have had a disagreement with someone and they've told you point blank that they will never want to be a friend or know you any better (or words to that effect)...   It's called stalking if someone offers to be a friend and then right away retracts that offer only to add you to a hot list so they can watch you from afar...   I disagree with Jose's comment that someone might be the above and yet still value what I post in the forums... hogwash...   Anyway - online stalking is not something new to me - I've been involved in online communities for over half my life and there are various ways to handle it... I'm happy that for the moment this one is done.   Someone checking you out across the bar is one thing... but someone doing so behind a one way window is another.   Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree whole heartedly niceguy..... seems i have 2 that have hotlisted me now... hhmmm i wonder who the other one is ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ A hot list to me is exactly that.... not a way of keeping tabs on others or knowing when they are in chat so you can go and start on them... I thought we were all adults... perhaps i was once again very wrong about that !!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Seriously some people are just paranoid. What info can people really get that they wouldn't otherwise. Datefinder dates, well they could've looked that up anyway and even if they do what are they going to find out? That you want a date on a certain day, well that means nothing. Forum posts, same they could just check them easy enough, it's not like they are going to find out your address. Having said that, how could it be improved. Well if you block someone then maybe making them not able to see your forum posts, datefinder dates, remove you from hot and shortlists. Seems simple enough definately doable.

  • Frankiesgame

    Frankiesgame

    16 years ago

    wants to be stalked!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well said lovenlust72 !!!!!!!Quoting 'lovenlust72' Seriously some people are just paranoid. What info can people really get that they wouldn't otherwise. Datefinder dates, well they could've looked that up anyway and even if they do what are they going to find out? That you want a date on a certain day, well that means nothing. Forum posts, same they could just check them easy enough, it's not like they are going to find out your address. Having said that, how could it be improved. Well if you block someone then maybe making them not able to see your forum posts, datefinder dates, remove you from hot and shortlists. Seems simple enough definately doable.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    after reading this I went back to investigate turns out i'm on 160 hotlists lol what do people look at ? cant hurt I didnt even know! i'm curious people i have now met have me on their hotlist...wonder how long i was hot for before they got to meet me? what can they possibly get from looking at my profile that would be harmful? Perhaps Wayne they get more from what you post on the forums or perhaps they find you quite the intellectual :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Screen dumps (Ctrl + PrtSc) circumvent any image saving issues.Just cutnpaste into Paint, crop and there you have it.. (or, sometimes appropriately, cuntpaste for typo-challenged).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Oh, all those years I spent digging pictures out of my internet history. What a young, impulsive fool I was.    ~ Steve

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Have way too much time lmao!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Surely anyone "stalking" can only see when you are online and what you write in the forums etc. They dont know where you live, where you work, or anything else, so what really is the issue??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    And yet these people who have hotlisted us know they are blocked, they know we have nothing whatso ever in common, yet they still keep us on their list?? the mind does boggle :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Perhaps too many people on here then disclose too much when they are posting in the Forums or when they are corresponding with people. I don't use my real name, I have a separate prepaid phone and i dont tell anyone where i work or live. And generally on the Forums I just give my opinion on something and nothing more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    does this really matter .... you cant see who you are so NO  BIG  DEAL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I would love to be stalked! add me !!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ah!!! siiiigh!! oh to be put on a "HOT" list.. oh to be stalked... but honestly... who the fck would stalk a grizzly????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    dont worry too much about the ones that list you as hot take it as a compliment! worry about the ones that wont take no for an answer and the partner that is happy to make rules and stick with them until you make a choice that they dont like recently have had this experience, very unpleasant to the point of scary seem very nice to start and then wow have fun playing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am so excited, being new to rhp i was stoked to see my first hot listing Thanks brenbob68 while ive never spoken to yu im impressed yu are my first adders lolol so cos of that ive added yu to my frends list, ur call to fame im sure yu wouldnt be one of the above mentioned stalkers ehehehso even tho i dont do couples or attached men or girls lolol.......ill be in perth son, maybe u can buy me dinner as ur reward

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'redarrow21' I am so excited, being new to rhp i was stoked to see my first hot listing Thanks brenbob68 while ive never spoken to yu im impressed yu are my first adders lolol so cos of that ive added yu to my frends list, ur call to fame im sure yu wouldnt be one of the above mentioned stalkers ehehehso even tho i dont do couples or attached men or girls lolol.......ill be in perth son, maybe u can buy me dinner as ur reward Time to stir up the thread eh???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    from readin the whole thread i hearingsuspensefull movie music.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'mynameisearl2' from readin the whole thread i hearingsuspensefull movie music.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarlJaws messy?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    LMAO redarrow.... wow you are so popular, must be your vivaciousness and your zest for life, oh to be so popular :) May i add u to the hotlist( see i asked permission) :):):);)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Right about now i can hear the theme music from JAWS......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Stalking is someone at your window pulling himself for 8 months rain hail or shine over your car bonnet ... by your window or in your yard telling you to come out so he can fuck you .... stalking is the Ds living in your home trying to catch the guy, video survalance and the dog squad ..... stalking is the same guy putting porn all over your car ... stealing your knickers off the line and hanging them on your car ..... watching you all the time .... all this stalker got was an $800 fine for his 8 months of stalking..... and i got zoloft ...lol....Hun ... i hope this guy leaves u alone but he probably wont..... so just look at it for what it is .... its on the computer not at your window...... and as long as its like that u should be ok...... someone thinks your a hottie ... enjoy it and play the game .... and i agree with Brenbob68 .... no mobile numbers ... etc ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    yeah trippaz , you may hot list me babe we have had a few little chats, you have made me feel welcome. You could be right o the hotlist/stalker oops nearly said stalky eheh thing, they havent chatted or added me to their friend list like I requested funny that i guess dinner is out of the question lolol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting '3scumpany' Hun ... i hope this guy leaves u alone but he probably wont..... so just look at it for what it is .... its on the computer not at your window...... and as long as its like that u should be ok...... someone thinks your a hottie ... enjoy it and play the game .... and i agree with Brenbob68 .... no mobile numbers ... etc ... As far as us enjoying it n playing the game cos we're hotties {lmao}... brenbob68, put us on their Hot List AFTER we blocked them... n they're just not our type... They're gonna be at the Meet n Greet we put ourselves down for... guess that takes it off the pc... but I can assure you it won't get them anywhere near our window.Lol... cheers... Mrs P'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'PeachypearWeR' Quoting '3scumpany' Hun ... i hope this guy leaves u alone but he probably wont..... so just look at it for what it is .... its on the computer not at your window...... and as long as its like that u should be ok...... someone thinks your a hottie ... enjoy it and play the game .... and i agree with Brenbob68 .... no mobile numbers ... etc ... As far as us enjoying it n playing the game cos we're hotties {lmao}... brenbob68, put us on their Hot List AFTER we blocked them... n they're just not our type... They're gonna be at the Meet n Greet we put ourselves down for... guess that takes it off the pc... but I can assure you it won't get them anywhere near our window.Lol... cheers... Mrs P' Lol.... i hate when u show or tell that you have no interest and they hotlist you anyway .... have a super time at the meet and greet ...... it sure does take it off the computer .... but you sound like you know how to handle it .... i for one am off to stalk you and see just how hot you are lol...... curious now ....lol meet me by the window ??? lmao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I've very recently learned that RHP has set the block list to override the hot list so that activity from the hot listed member doesn't show on the blocked members profile... YAY!!!Thanks RHP, I for one couldn't be happier.Hugs... Mrs P'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Not too sure what half of this is all about but i wasn't aware anyone could be stalked online, and what is the rating of pics?? Is that the amateur pics?? Guess i'll have to explore this site further!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    In amateur pics there is a section called 'Hot or What?' where we can rate current profile pics. I've included the links to threads about 'Hot or What?' for if you'd like to know more, it's been a pet topic of mine lol. As far as I know, there isn't any other info on the site about it. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Hot-or-What-24295http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/hot-or-what-ratings-28612http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/hot-or-what-28676Have fun, there's plenty on this site to explore... Mrs P'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    A stalker and a secret admirer are the same, except one is stationary!