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Stage Fright
May 12 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's actually very common in group sex situations mate.. I've seen it happen consistently at every party I've ever been to, and it happens to me sometimes too, so I recognise that it's very frustrating, but all you can do is laugh about it and show people how good you are with your hands .. hehe. I must add that a bit of practice and experience in group situations will help you overcome the blockage.... (it's all in your head.. the one on your shoulders) ... There is one very well known cure.... You just cannot get passed the brilliant assistance of 100mg of sildenafil citrate (the big blue pill) to assist you passed the moment of anxiety that causes stage fright.... Drop one an hour before the party and wooohoo! See your doctor for a prescription. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
but ties in with what stalky was saying ie it is all in your head ... any I was listening to a podcast called "How the placebo effect works" a scientist was talking about the most effective placebos in pill form and as it turns out a blue sugar pill is the most effective placebo, add a letter stamped on the pill and the positve effects are increased .... make the pill any shape other then a circle and you have increased the effectives of the placebos even more. Now I never seen 100mg of sildenafil citrate but I am guessing it is a blue pill with a letter stamped on it in maybe a triangle shape??? off topic even further but the most powerful placebo comes in an injection and I know that those places that will help guys with erection problem use injections as a last resort. the mind is a very powerful thing!
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RHP User
16 years ago
mate - never had that before.. but having said that, I've never been in that situation before... but it kinda terifies me that it might happen. I'm sure that the quality of the company wasn't the problem, so it must be something in your head... maybe a drink or two before you get there to relax you a bit - let your inner male break free a little? Keen to see what others say about this. Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's everyones worst nightmare to stand up in front of an audience and present ...anything. Be it public speaking, socializing, work situations you name it. Hence why drugs and alcohol addiction is a growth industry. Not to mention the implications of same! Regardless of whether its performing in a professional, social or sexual situation, anxiety physically manifests itself in the most inconvenient way. Not being a fan of artificial means of resolving the issue, relaxation techniques are my preferred option. Mindfullness is a well known and highly regarded strategy to deal with all manner of anxiety based behaviours. As with anything however, finding a solution that best fits you is optimal. Best of luck!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Viagra. It wont help anxiety at all but it will enhance the chemical trigger that is blocked by anxiety and enables you to get an erection if you are sexually stimulated. For relaxation to cure anxiety... I highly recommend that you ejaculate all over the shop. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL...Geez Stalky....peddler of viagra and orgasms. Bitter pill to swallow but hey...the second option sounds mighty good!
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RHP User
16 years ago
It happens to women too and yes that includes me. I can be horny as hell and ready and ever so willing......but nothing. No wet. No orgasm. I just focus on enjoying the sensation and forget about trying to reach the "big O". I still have fun and thats all that matters. And I can put more energy into enjoying my partners pleasure.
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RHP User
16 years ago
well i dont like to take things to help me get an erection but still it is a thought.I have no anxiety or worries about it might have just been the fact of first time in that situation dont know but was more than comfortable with the whole thing.Blonde 7915 i agree the mind is a powerful thing so might have to do some mind techniques i think.Thanks for the comments guys.CheersBruce
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RHP User
16 years ago
A mind can be a terrible thing. Better luck next time.
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes it happens to everyone.. i just move onto another task and come back when iam more relaxed.. drinking will make it harder to maintain an erection..so maybe try not drinking (booze) and if not, nothing wrong or embarassing about using viagra or cialis.. like anything dont abuse it thou... (the pill, not your doodle)...lol :> have fun N and T
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RHP User
16 years ago
There seems to be a bit of a misconception about the little blue pill. I actually prefer Cialis to Viag, works better and for longer. Nearly all of my friends have expressed their disgust at using either of these as it renders them "Less of a man", and the old "I don't need that, i have no probs in that department" Well neither do i, but at the end of the day, if i have just forked out close to 1k on hotel, drinks, and dinner, IM DAMN WELL GONNA GET SOME ACTION, so the cialis ensures that i'm in for one hell of a F%$king great night! hahahahahah
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RHP User
16 years ago
The thing I find appealing about cialis is that I can take it on Friday night and basically can maintain enough good wood to fuck all weekend. Perfect. Hehe. Pass the calomine lotion! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
We agree the blue pills work well, ruffs comments are our thinking as well not only is it dissapointing to for the guys the ladies are dissapointed as well. They are looking forward to great night, we have a agreement if all cant play then none of us do. Makes for hours of sex ..... Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'customer69'Fear of the unknown, someone new?Concern about not satisfying her?(Alcohol/tiredness can be involved)Do females get stagefright too? i.e. have some difficulty relaxing and achieving the big Ö?
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