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So...should I be a bastard?

November 16 2009

An unusual topic, but the other day i opened up my account and joy of joys...there was a message....wow!...eagerly i clicked on the messages button and waited to see who had sent me one...Imagine my disappointment when i saw it was from a MAN!!!!....*wipes tears of disappointment from my eyes*Well, I opened it up and there was all his contact details and saying he wanted to chat some and meet up!!...like WTF!!So, I have two options...A)...I can send a terse but nice reply...followed by deleting the offensive email and blocking him....he only viewed my profile 8 times, i think it was... orB)...I can be a bastard...and say..yeah, yeah...not into email ping pong...can you meet...will ya suck my c**k...and will ya f**k my little tush really hard...and so on and so on...a bit of banter to and fro...then set up a meet...and then NOT GO!!!....and send an email afterwards saying I had changed my mind...or the dog had died...or my mum was sick or whatever...or some other lame excuse...Personally, I am in favor of plan A...mainly because i don't believe in being mean to someone else just because they clearly have a reading disorder, and also it doesn't sit well with the way i now live my life...but on the other hand...what would you do?..cheersJose...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    welcome to our world hun we get them all the time the men that message even though you profile states what you looking for and they dont match it...they even get a little warning andt hey ignore it then get abusive when you reject my advise reply with DID YOU READ MY PROFILE????   PS NICE BUM JOSE

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    now come on Jose wheres your sense of adventure ...... hell would you really pass up an oportunity for a free blow job ????? hehehehehe   but in all seriousness.... JUST BLOCK no reply if they cant take the time to read your profile and understand that ur not looking for guys then more fool them they don't warrent a response....   well thats just from me ...... have a lovely day

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Be kind comeandgetme68 - option A for me - two wrongs don't make a right   K.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    you are a gentleman after all jose xxxx   lovebittenxoxoxo   that said, if he persists, be rude as hell lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    PLAN A)...because that sits really well with me...but was SOOOO disappointed...lol...when my only message was from a man....giggling now...but in hindsight, I wondered if I should have chosen a different tack...ya know...ta teach him a lesson...but hey, just attracting bad karma isn't is...whatever you put in to life, you always reap double...so feeling good and glad ya all agree...cheers...Jose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I hate it when that happens! You get a message....get excited....then it's from another bloke, just kills that excitement so damn quick doesn't it lol.   BTW just be nice, I always just tell the blokes i'm not interested and it's always all good.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thank you Velvetbite...yes, i said "did you read my profile, i am straight" and thanks...i had a bit of a perve at u too...mmmmm, yummy...heheyes funfunfun09...would most certainly pass up the opportunity of a free blow job...from a guy...grins...kileetrev...i agree with ulovebitten...sent message, then blocked him, so unless he pops up of the forums, i have no idea what his reply is...and trish...never thought of plan C...still looking for u in that library...giggles...cheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Jose..  im with love bitten,on what she said and also with kilee on ...option A....and block him as funfunfun had said and as for karma....im a great believer....in itxoxo...G

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    we get that type of thing all the time we are a couple looking for a bi fem for fun but we always get talked to buy single guys and its starting to really bite but thy dont read your profile properly

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm of the opinion that you should never do something online that you would not do face to face. If the guy talked to you in a bar, you'd say "no thanks not interested..." and then move on... you'd not likely be an a$$hole to him now would you (ok maybe you would I don't know you well enough to say). My point being don't use email/IM/online forums to be any less nice than you would in person.  He may have made a simple mistake.  I'd also not block him at this point unless he was being a right pr!ck about your polite refusal.   Maybe I'm just a little old fashioned.. but I've been involved in online forums now for 30 years and it constantly amazes me how people pickup a keyboard and drop their manners totally.   Wayne

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    But Jose, that was meant to be just between you and me! I didn't expect you ta go blabbin' it all over the forums..... and lots of guys have a somewhat perverted definition of straight.... :p... There's another option. Just be flattered... guys into m/m don't just want to shag any guy that comes along, you know?.... And be polite.... :) hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    oh baby... all your private messages revealed in the forums.... I hope you didn't use our couple's profile to reply to Jose or now I'm blocked, too..... poor Daddy.... rejection from the mean straight boys is hard... you come over here and let your little Miss Sophie make you feel better....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    to just be decent about it. straight up, just say 'sorry mate, not after guys', and move on from it no one gets hurts, hasnt cost anyone anything. at least, thats what I have done in the past.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Lmao...   Hey Trish..I am not bi and couples and girls message me...   So can I send em your way..LOL..   silly kisses sweetpetite41

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    gaz...u come here so i can spank that naughty butt of yours...hehe...hmm niceguy0068...dunno what i'd do if some guy hit on me in the supermarket...mind u, might be my fault for wearing my toolbelt and not much else....lol...but always polite...if yanno what i mean...so, went for message A)...and yes, hadn't considered being flattered...sheesh...wish it had been from someone sexy like customer69...big grin...or xxmiss_honeyxx...rooowwwwwwrrrrrrrrr...hehecheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yep, send then Gazza's way, lolHe Jose, I get the same thing from time to time.  Now I can understand a gay guy making a proposition when they first meet you at a pub or club before you tell them your straight.  That's happened to me a few time over the years and they stop hitting on you as soon as you tell them, and I have a few gay mates who I hang with some times but they don't hit I me either as they know I'm straight.  So what is it with these guys on here who read your profile and know your straight, RHP even pops up a message warning them that they don't want messages from men, yet they still send one.  Why can't they be like all the guy men I have met, and not try to hit on straight guys. AHHHHhhhhhhh......RHG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I wouldn't really take it to heart mate. Some guy msgd u......no big deal.....it happens. Im not looking for blokes either, but if someone msgs me i just either delete the msg or say im not interested.   Btw, ur main pic is u standing, back to the camera, proudly baring ur ass cheeks.......so i can see why maybe that would've baited this fish.....just a thought.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Spankkrock... a sexy looking man obviously with a good eye for the essential details.. Lmfao! Are you sure toured straight? :p damn. hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    thanks gaz and spankrock...i checked his profile and he is only looking for women and is straight...so i think it was a case of mistaken identity...or a compliment...i am glad that i posted this topic because i WAS under a false impression of how people dealt with guys like this one...so, thanks again...this should now be the end of this thread...i chose option a, and have removed him from my blocked list...so, all is goodcheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'gazpacho41'Spankkrock... a sexy looking man obviously with a good eye for the essential details.. Lmfao! Are you sure toured straight? :p damn. hugs Gaz   Sorry mate. Im definitely straight. You seem like a good guy tho. And well played Comeandgetme, u just scored +10 good dude points.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Geez.... Gaz.... we are ever more a match made in heaven bebe.... we have the exact taste in men :P LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yeah Sophie, I've noticed that you do have fantastic taste in men, my love. hehe... even if I do say so myself, lolz. Awwwhhh these straight guys. If only you could corrupt them for me Soph... Meah, still... a straight acting threeway is never something to taek off the menu. It's all about you, princess... and I can whisper to you what I would want to do... and then of course you get get to do him... hehe. Oh my. Yep. I can handle that.   lolz Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Phew I've been away from the computer and look at all i've missed!   Jose, my first thought was just forward on to Gaz!   Then your last reply, well as an overly horny guy you might remember I mistook your current profile pic as a very toned femme at fleeting glance. So maybe this guy did the same? Now as then I hope no offense is derived by this admission - you're just one hellava sexy guy mate!  ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ComeAnd... a barely literate male, combined with the effects of alcohol and/or a gnawing/tight feeling around swollen balls (not talking about virgin, gaff-taped hampsters here but hmmm. there's an idea)...where was I..oh yes...upon first glance at your main profile pic may have mistaken the object of their infatuation and, one-handed no doubt, rattled off a message of desperation and lust to you.Good hunting!PS> I'm more of an Option B kinda guy..lil stirrer that I am.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    no offense taken at all....just blushing bright red...cheersjose...>>>...where's that walk-in freezer...i need ta cool down i fink

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Maybe he is not so straight and thought by your picture you might be not so straight....Or maybe looking at you he's turned...lol. Oh and Sweetpetite, you can send those bi girls my way by all means. I'll look after them for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    he was asking me about personal injury insurance.  no no.. it's true..i often wonder what makes people tick here.. maybe he thinks your latent (like gas).. and you could be turned (like clay). but he would be wrong (like county music)..LRE (with a plan)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Fact is, straight or not, the men outnumber the women... I don't know the ratio, but say it's 10 to 1.... So guys are tired from rejection. At least by hitting on each other there's some solace, you know? Lmfao! I mean some of these straight guys are mighty sexy even if they're not scoring on RHP. A little mutual support and admiration isn't such a crime. Lol. No harm in it and nothing can turn you gay. You are who you are. I prefer women. I'm married to one. Obviously I am not gay... but I've got no quarms about telling a masculine guy he looks good, whether he is straight or not. People don't compliment one another often enough. Guys don't compliment one another often enough. I don't care if you are straight Jose, I think you have a handsome bum. :) and I bet you do too, spankkrock. :p obviously so does Sophie. hehe. hugs Gaz