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Sooooooo, would you??
July 30 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
In the war on ageing you may find that some beauty products/procedures slow the ageing process but they don't stop it completely. If you accept early on that you may win the battle over a few wrinkles but you will never win the war you will find it easier in the long term and save yourself a heap of cash.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' In the war on ageing you may find that some beauty products/procedures slow the ageing process but they don't stop it completely. If you accept early on that you may win the battle over a few wrinkles but you will never win the war you will find it easier in the long term and save yourself a heap of cash.There is that MistressT, I agree - you will never stop it completely. I suppose that was my point - do we accept it at the outset that ultimately we cannot win, or do we take whatever evasive measures we can, until we are finally outrun on the ageing stakes?
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RHP User
14 years ago
You can save yourself alot of heart-ache and stress. Years ago I noticed a receiding hairline, so for the last 10 years I've had a shaved head. I realise many women prefer a man with a full head of hair, but trying to mock hair (dreaded comb-over or some hair styles I'll never curse my head with) or going all "Yeah! Yeah!" ala Greg Mattews to me is a bridge too far. I am what I am. The people that accept you for that are the ones you truly feel comfortable with and those that are more likely to become a real someone in your life. I've met some "beautiful people" I wouldn't piss on if they were on fire. In the end, it's each to their own, and if it puts a smile on your dial, then it could be the right way for you. Just be sure you are doing it for you. Me, I'll be aging digracefully ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have done botox twice.. the first time when married as I was exhausted from work n child to give myself lil more of a fresher face without that worn out working mum look. The 2nd time was straight after my divorce..hahha... I so needed it then too. I love botox and if finances would allow then I would continue. I am only 44 yrs young and do not require a full face lift and I do not think I ever would consider it..Stuff the agony the women seem to experience. I am so afraid of pain but love TKD.. Go figure.. A lady I know runs a beauty clinic that does these facial courses and lifts n firms and takes away any blemishes..but she did tell me it will remove most of my freckles. I am happy on how I look, n feel right now and NO WAY am I ready to lose my freckles cause that is a part of me and my personality.. I love my sun kisses but yup the odd botox experience is something I do like. huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
To me, a woman that feels and accepts heself, her unique beauty, is beautiful. There are so many old adages about beauty but there is nothing sexier than a woman who knows herself, doesn't look for validation elsewhere but just knows she's a sexual being. Its so tempting to judge ourselves and to compare ourselves to others. As a man in mid life, I know I'm not the same physical specimen I was 20 years ago, I'm not as firm, my hair is greying but so what, I know I am a sexual and sensual man, there are things I know and can do now that I could never do in my 20s and I rejoice in that. Once we let go of the stereotypical media propagated norms and just enjoy who we are the better. I know that for me, sex has never been as rewarding and beautiful as it is now and I feel beautiful for it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' I have no problem about people getting surgery if thats what they want to do. But enevitably we will always have that hideous feeling about ourselves from time to time. Its more a manner of trying to harness the positive and accepting the negatives do occur. xx I agree but have seen in some women's magazines the results of women who become addicted to plastic surgery and end up looking awful. If, as you say, we harness the positive and accept the negatives we don't need surgery. And gorgeous girl, you are the last to need it!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'Krissy_G' I have no problem about people getting surgery if thats what they want to do. But enevitably we will always have that hideous feeling about ourselves from time to time. Its more a manner of trying to harness the positive and accepting the negatives do occur. xx I agree but have seen in some women's magazines the results of women who become addicted to plastic surgery and end up looking awful. If, as you say, we harness the positive and accept the negatives we don't need surgery. And gorgeous girl, you are the last to need it! catwoman anyone? my personal take on the whole thing is in my experience is that i have known plenty of 40+ women who i find extremely sexy. they may have a few wrinkles and a little character in their face but the way they conduct themselves is just a massive turn on. there is plenty of 40+ women on rhp who i would be quite interested in spending some time with. either way we all only live once, we are all getting older at the same rate (second by second, minute by minute, day by day, month by month and year by year), we don't stop having sexual urges at 40 and whether i go out with a 20 year old or a 40 year old i am gonna still have to talk to you.so the moral for the story is while lust at first sight is VERY real, love is not.
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RHP User
14 years ago
litlle things are ok.......but the 'botox' no frown idea looks plastic.....and some procedures do leave scars that show, or change a part of you so much it then looks out of place and belongs on someone else......dont look for surgical fixes for things best improved naturally...diet and exercise are far more valuable and worthwhile than 'surgical intervention'........
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RHP User
14 years ago
I say do it!If that's what you want to do - and you have thought very clearly, and researched about whatever procedure you choose to do!I think plastic surgery is a fantastic way of providing us with esteem. Aging gracefully might be the saying, but why age 'gracefully' (whatever the fuck that is supposed to mean) when you can age in a way you control?At the end of the day, your decision seems to have been thought out really well. You are an adult and you will make the right decision for you! x
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd be open to botox out the crease lines that are forming in my forehead... and possibly the ones around my eyes.. But it's not really something I've thought about until now. Something I would do in a heartbeat, a breast lift. Due to having large breasts, that paired with having children, has left them sitting alot lower than I would like. Even just an inch would make all the difference. (MR) refuses to let me, as he loves me exactly as I am... but did comment once that when we have a spare $10,000 - I can go get it done. I know it was a sarcastic comment... But I am fighting to have that spare $10,000 now. LOL (MRS)
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RHP User
14 years ago
To undertake Cosmetic Surgery if you feel strongly that it will be of benefit to your overall sense of self worth. But it is also your responsibility to accept the risk of a botched job - the Physical risk that the Cosmetic enhancement procedure may lead to other health problems, the Financial risk that your procedure may need to be corrected later on, the pyschological risk that your appearance may be worse than what you have perceived it to be before you under went the procedure.... Yes, that may sound negative...but the thought of having to have Plastic Surgery to correct Cosmetic Surgery..no thanks...much prefer to accept that this is what I have and use non-surgical means to enhance them...ie good quality skin care, make up, clothing, diet, exercise, sunscreen and good old water intake...perfect for plumping out the skin
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RHP User
14 years ago
If theres something you dont like about yourself and it can be corrected with surgery then WHY NOT. ?We're here for a good time NOT a long time. Life is too damb short to persevere with unhappiness so getting rid of something that bothers you on a daily basis cant be all that bad.Its a matter of knowing whats enough and what is too much. If a person has a facelift that takes the character outta their face like Paul Hogan, Kenny Rogers and more lately Shane Warne then you know its overboard. But if you take away only the bad bits without distorting your face .. it can look great. I have a friend who had a touch up in just a few areas and she looks fabulous.. So the message is.. dont try to look like you did years ago... just look yourself minus a few little baggy areas here and there..
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think nature on it's own does some amazing work at all ages...I might be a bit hard pressed to take a brush to a Monet to improve it, but that said aging effects us all differently and if you need or want to make a few changes that will also help your confidence or self-esteem then more power to you. Too, there may be times when a major surgical procedure is well warranted and not simply some machination being lived out. There is a great deal in our genetics and socio-psychological wellbeing that often warrants consideration too. | Every once in a while I look in the mirror at what a lot of sun has done around my eyes, and worse...what I did by not wearing wearing sunglasses and the like. They just seemed like a nuisance sometimes...even when I was snow or water skiing. Don't know if I will ever worry about that or just play the cards I was dealt. | ....up to the individual.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A little nip here, a little tuck there. For sure I would. Probably will one of these days as well. I look in the mirror and think of the things that can be improved upon. If it is what you want, dont worry about what others think.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Totally agree with you foreverlove Quoting 'foreverlove7985' I'd be open to botox out the crease lines that are forming in my forehead... and possibly the ones around my eyes.. But it's not really something I've thought about until now. Something I would do in a heartbeat, a breast lift. Due to having large breasts, that paired with having children, has left them sitting alot lower than I would like. Even just an inch would make all the difference. (MR) refuses to let me, as he loves me exactly as I am... but did comment once that when we have a spare $10,000 - I can go get it done. I know it was a sarcastic comment... But I am fighting to have that spare $10,000 now. LOL (MRS) Damn children LOL!! The amount of times i used to complain about having DD boobs before i had my child, god if i had them perky boobies now id walk around with my top off all day Lol :)Mrs 2ezee xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd start with my feet. They're too long and wide for many awesome shoes. I want 'em to be a size 7 narrow. :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm planning to go out as nature intended. If that means I lose my youthful good looks, then so be it. I'll still be the same charming person underneath.I believe it comes down to self-esteem, however, and won't begrudge anybody who chooses the right to add the odd aftermarket accessory, or give nature a helping hand. S'pose in some ways it's like "Pimp my Ride"
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am still so pissed off and want my one wish back...I got totally screwed. Right now, that little bastard with that miniature Steinway grand is making seriously big money playing Carnegie Hall and I am still working my ass off. | Stupid genie...who in their right mind would wish for a 12" pianist? | One wish per customer...that sucks wind. | | Oh well...maybe one day I can get plastic surgery.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Obviously plastic surgery is a personal decision, and if something makes you feel better about yourself then why not. Though i have yet to see a person, famous or otherwise who has modified their face, in an anti aging type way and looked better for itI keep hearing that 90% of sexuality is confidence. do whatever makes you feel good. BTW boob jobs have pretty high aproval rates. maybe you should start there (D)(D)
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RHP User
14 years ago
...just to get big ol fake boobies.You may end up getting a few wrinkles here and there on your face, but no guy will notice.... Of course there may be a few females that notice, but who cares when all the guys are looking 8 inches lower with their tongues hanging out. You'll be the envy of em all...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Never say never. Breast lift....that will be on the cards, not yet though, I have work of my own to do first.xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
As long as you're realistic about what you expect to achieve, I think plastic surgery is fine. I'd be inclined to set some personal goals to make yourself feel as though you've earned it - get very fit, achieve some professional goal, something like that. It's indulgent, so it never hurts to make it a little tougher to achieve - it might make you less inclined to think of it as a quick fix with no implications.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have had my Boobies done after having 3 kids , My man told me he loved my old ones , but if i was not happy with them , he will pay to get them done , I haven't looked back since i have had them done , no more chicken fillets lol , dont know if i would have anything else done though ,
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RHP User
14 years ago
to all you BEAUTIFUL!!!!!! young ladies out there who were born a few years before my entrance into this awesome world.................PLEASE DO WHAT MAKES U FEEL HAPPY WITH YOURSELF!!!! ....for me i have to admit that the natural aging of the female body is sexy.....lol....cant explain it, it just is.xo
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N4November
14 years ago
Quoting 'KD7884'...just to get big ol fake boobies.You may end up getting a few wrinkles here and there on your face, but no guy will notice.... Of course there may be a few females that notice, but who cares when all the guys are looking 8 inches lower with their tongues hanging out. You'll be the envy of em all...
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N4November
14 years ago
laugh lines proudly earned by smiles!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'baygirl2315' laugh lines proudly earned by smiles!! For me, i would pick that over anything - worldly smiles and humour are things I rate very highly!
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RHP User
14 years ago
And thanks to you too. You've just made me appreciate your 100% natural ummmm...gifts as well! But aging disgracefully? I doubt it. I'm sure your laugh lines are just as sexy as your gifts...and just as natural!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BBDDUK' I have had my Boobies done after having 3 kids , My man told me he loved my old ones , but if i was not happy with them , he will pay to get them done , I haven't looked back since i have had them done , no more chicken fillets lol , dont know if i would have anything else done though , and might i say, that they did a hell of a job too! like your guy, I love my lady as she is, but, if its what she wants, then yea, I have no issue with a boob job at all.....like they say, "happy wife, happy life'............
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'caitsidhe' To undertake Cosmetic Surgery if you feel strongly that it will be of benefit to your overall sense of self worth. But it is also your responsibility to accept the risk of a botched job - the Physical risk that the Cosmetic enhancement procedure may lead to other health problems, the Financial risk that your procedure may need to be corrected later on, the pyschological risk that your appearance may be worse than what you have perceived it to be before you under went the procedure.... Yes, that may sound negative...but the thought of having to have Plastic Surgery to correct Cosmetic Surgery..no thanks...much prefer to accept that this is what I have and use non-surgical means to enhance them...ie good quality skin care, make up, clothing, diet, exercise, sunscreen and good old water intake...perfect for plumping out the skinI have the post baby body dramas, and was SERIOUSLY considering how surgery could help put things back to where they once were! But aside from the hideous pain, cost, time for recovery, it was the risk that scared the bejesus outta me the most. Every procedure has risk and there are those that are unlucky, I have met/heard of cases... So in the end I am going to just go for the non-scalpel methods (as I was interested in more of the drastic types of modifications). The distractor is that the boobs blue out 3 sizes and like KD said, guys seem to not focus on much else at times, when presented with F/Gs! So I guess it helps to focus on the positives rather than the negatives and do the smaller things to life ones spirits?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I say do whatever makes you feel happy... I'm just 29 and not a wrinkle in sight but when I do start to get them..am I gonna be zapping those little buggers?? HELL YES!!!! My aunt had a facelift around the age of 45 and she is now 60 and looks GREAT... she kinda got it done before her face went too wrinkly and that was kinda the point... its not like botox though she can still move her face.. so long as your plastuic surgery doesn't go too far ie the 'trout pout" syndrome ... and isn't overly obvious then its all good... I mean i have many friends with fake tits and the ones who got greedy ( went from a b to a E/F cup ) look ridiculous but the ones who kept it natural ( going up just one or two cup sizes ) look awesome ...so I say go for it if it makes you happy just don't go overboard... like justjuice said we are here for a good time not a long time and its best to be happy while you're here!! xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi thereI have a friend in TV who has her botox done in a clinic close by. She looks amazing!One day soonish I will have absolutely no problem becoming their client too. Why not? But I would only consider going somewhere where I had seen real life results, and only get a bit done. Charlotte Dawson has gone a bit too far...Also, I have lost 6 kilograms in the last 4 weeks as I have taken up running - feel fantastic but the cleavage has shrunk. So wouldn't rule out a little pump up there either - again, nothing too drastic.If it makes us feel better when we look in the mirror or gives us more confidence, why the hell not??? Work it ladies ;-)J x
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RHP User
14 years ago
And what lovely boobies they are!!!IM me your surgeon babe, I am inspired ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Awww really... you know what they say about big feet doncha... is it true ? lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
about this one. Wild horses wouldn't drag me to a "nip and tuck". I'm no oil painting (but haven't made anyone gag yet!). I'm just not prepared to take the risk. I know way too many people in the medical profession with horror stories galore. And I really do believe beauty comes from within (I know it sounds a bit of a wank) but it works for me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
1. Botox is injecting BOTULISM into your face! (really aweful disease)2. arent all those plastic surgery disasters enough of a warning????3. If you have burns that need skin grafts or a broken nose, by all means, get it fixed, but dont go under the knife for sheer vanity!! men dont notice tiny wrinkles, just show some cleavage and be your self! if youre showing enough skin, there will be aint a single straight man gonna be looking at ya laugh lines! 4. expression lines are what builds the character of your face! if you frown your life away, wrinkles will show youre a grump, but a smile takes far less effort and giving anyone who acts unfriendly or age-ist the finger is even easier and more satisfying!5. Shane warne.....I rest my case.
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RHP User
14 years ago
My Current post is Anyone here had a tummy tuck!Check it out! Im 11 days out of Surgery Tummy Tuck & LiposuctionIt is Major SurgeryIn Hospital for 7 daysCut hip to hip2 incisions on bikini line for drainagenew belly buttonTrauma from liposuctionExtremely PainfulLooking past wounds, bruising & swelling I can see the results will be greatI can honestly say If its what you want for yourselfdo it the pain is only for a short time the results last so much longerxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
"An' it harms none, do as ye will." If you can afford it and it will boost your own confidence and self image, go for it. Gravity is starting to take it's toll on my breasts (which I've always been proud of) so in the coming years, I will get that breast reduction. I have a few wrinkles but they don't distress me much, at least not yet. If they do, I'd way up the pros and cons and make a decision based on those, not on what others think. Just make sure you are doing it for the right reasons. If the list of things you want done is lengthy, maybe the poblem is really in your head so consider it hard and long before doing anything. Untill then, love the skin you're in. luv, Jen xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I wouldnt consider it a beer belly.. but despite exercise and diet there is a little pudge that just refuses to go away... bit like mormans at the front door.. pitty you cant lipo suction those god botherers away.. i digress... i think if this belly dont leave quietly, then i may be forced to take agresive action so in short..yes, all for it
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RHP User
14 years ago
If i had the cash id try any great new improvment... why wouldnt you? We all need a little help in some areas.. If it doesnt make you look like mike jackson , id give it a go for sure. Same for the guys who tell me "iam growing old gracefully" hahah as they stand there with beer gut and grey hair?? You can do alot yourself without surgery... id try that 1st..... Things like LOOSING weight, stop smoking,cut down the booze, dye your hair,exercise, eating well...blah blah :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I must admit as i get older and i look in the mirror I have contemplated some form of enhancement or another but nature is wonderful really because just as you start to see the changes your eyesight fails haha so then guess what!!?? You cant see the wrinkles or the hair that grows where it shouldnt or any other percieved flaw for that matter!! I guess i will just be me but a slightly less toned and taut version and comfortable in my skin except maybe i will keep colouring my hair and tinting my eyebrows because thats about as much enhancement as i think this body can handle!!My 2c worth.
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