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Something about everyone

September 17 2010

I've always been a bit of a people watcher, an ongoing study of people and their habits and mannerisms. Something I like to do on a regular basis that seems to restore the balance and reduce cynicism is plonking myself in a busy street and looking for something I like about each person that passes by. In men I'll look for something I admire, it could be the way they're dressed, well polished shoes, perhaps a confident stride and appearance or the way they engage the person with them in conversation. With ladies I do similar and I also look for something sexy, it could be anything, eyes, hair, grooming, the way their clothing fits a particular part of their body, sexy ankles... Basically the things are endless. The days this exercise is most valuable are the days I'm struggling to be nice to the world. If I've had a particularly bad day when people have done their best to piss me off I'll force myself to perform this task until I get a 100% success rate at spotting something I like about every single person that passes by. I put the challenge to everyone to test drive this and reply here on how it went. Doesn't have to be a major outing it can be a hort drive or walk to the local shops but please share your thoughts afterwards.

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Love this idea so much...although I already do this (albiet not often enough)..I will get back to you with my findings xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Kewl. I like it. Mind you... my mind will probably wander to thoughts of how I'd like to fuck the next person that walks by.. you know.. but that's alright too isnt it? It is Friday after all. :p Hmmm... what you up to tonight rugged? :p I can well imagine funloving's evening with me in it. :P Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    its pub night friday so may be interesting to just drink lights and observe ??????????? ok though tit over and not worth going to drink light beer but will still report back Andy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Peel St is a great spot for it Andrew, all those gorgeous country girls. When I'm in town I'm usually at Brumby's Bakery at 7am then coffee at Gloria Jeans and a spot of people watching. Oh and it wouldn't be a trip to Tamworth without dinner at the Steakhouse.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'Peel St is a great spot for it Andrew, all those gorgeous country girls. When I'm in town I'm usually at Brumby's Bakery at 7am then coffee at Gloria Jeans and a spot of people watching. Oh and it wouldn't be a trip to Tamworth without dinner at the Steakhouse. You have made it so much easier for me to stalk you .... umm errrr oops sorry..."bump into you" hehehe xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Can you please make sure you are wearing your white tshirt with your hands in your pockets and don't forget to be headless so I can recognise you? Ta heaps Lol xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I do this often...and have even been known to tell complete strangers when they smell nice..or when their bum looks great in their pants.Oh...and i once told a chick at maccas that her boobs looked awesome.she was chuffed!JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Awww reminds me of warm fuzzies where people find something nice to say about another person, a group excercise I participated in involved us writing on a sheet of paper on each other's back so we didn't know who said what, that's a momento I still keep. It is sometimes too easy to notice and comment on faults of which we all have many. Gotta love giving out warm fuzzies. There is something nice about everyone just as there is a silver lining on every cloud. It's up to us how we think about it, not saying it's easy. We've already done our going out for today and there were many interesting and fun people around us as we went. We make a point of making our outings a pleasure for us and those around us most of the time lol, depends on the day of course. Usually the rewards are multifold with even a smile or a moment of consideration going a long way lolol. A thread I've thought about starting was based on the idea of saying something nice about a fellow forum member, but I thought it might be a bit corny lol. I agree with Mooka that threads that get strong reactions out of people seem to be more popular, hehe with the disclaimer that those type of threads are not the be all n end all, and even those threads have their benefits. There seems to be more laughs to find in the forums lately with a core of very clever people I'm glad to see around. I think we could all do with that shift in focus more often at times, so I'm really pleased to see you have started this thread. Hehe, while I'm at it, I'd like to say that I really like your pic, very suggestive in lots of positive ways. Even suggestive of a knight in shining armour. Hugs... Mrs P

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Next time I am on sunny coast I am gunna have to meet you. You are intriguing.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sometimes I tease Andy, us females can be the worst for it at times I think......He checks someone out, I check who he is checking, ew.He tells me so in so has nice whatevers, and I am like ew really?So I tease him for being a perve but quietly I think, I love that he sees something sexy, beautiful, nice in so many different people, but sometimes it is just perving :PWe should make this effort, This is very stalkyesque...I remember you saying once (Stalky) something along the lines of spreading joy and making everyone feel sexy. There should be more of it!xx Salina

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Rugged my mind would wander to the point of umm brazillian or maybe a little landing strip ! and thats just about the guys !

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Can you please make sure you are wearing your white tshirt with your hands in your pockets and don't forget to be headless so I can recognise you? Ta heaps Lol xFunlovingx good to see you back hun babe the face is as good as the tee...yummy yummy ruggedly roxxy...ruggedly's no.1 fan

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I have always liked the definition of "patience" as..."The ability not to harm someone that really deserves it" . The can be a lot of emotional upside to just letting fly...but usually if you step back, think about it for 24 hours and then decide, whatever it was most often seems like a grain of sand in the eye rather than the rock that it first appeared to be. / The young lady that risked injury by sticking her hand in the express lift on Friday afternoon when I was already 5 minutes late for a meeting...gave me an exasperated smile and said "Sorry, I am trying to get back to work...my boss is a grump." Reminded me that my PA had put in a long week and really did deserve to go home an hour or so early that day. | The kid on the skateboard that was slaloming through the courtyard and jumped the steps landing right in front of me...okay, I felt like clothslining him but thought how much fun that would have been when I was his age. Besides, he nearly took out two other "suits" that I know in the building and think I owe this kid a gift certificate to McDonald's the next time I see him. | The very lovely young lady that was standing right in the middle of the escalator I was trying to run down to catch a cab and get to the next meeting....had actually stopped to bend over just a little and smooth out her stockings. She had legs that went all the way up to heaven. I remembered that there was a cab rank across the street and being a minute or two late can have it's benefits. | I guess it's all a matter of perspective...thanks!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    You are 1 intruiging woman

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Like Taipan, I often wonder about the personal grooming preferences of people are lol

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Is there also something nice to see in every RHP profile ? I like this idea

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I would like to say I do this all the time but my halo slips ocassionaly :P if you cannot find the good then stop looking and move on, NEXT, because you will automatically find the bad and that is soooo depressing. Good passtime watching couples walking side by side "hand in hand" or not "still in love" or not "Just had a tiff" or not wonder how and if they will make up when they get home ;) watching a cute babe walk by and then watching the reaction of others as tehy notice her to. Observing her in detail, my halo completely gone now :) and wondering what she is thinking and if she is enjoyiong the attention ahhhhhhhhhhh life can be sooo simple :):)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    mmmmmmmmmmmmmm so very buddhist of you ....... loving kindness through the good and the bad via........ loving thoughts ......... :) loving speech........ loving actions......... so much love....... blissful ..........mmmmmmmmmmm love n hugs miss nf xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    and it really brightens my day................until..............I get into a taxi in Fortitude Valley with an i----n driver and ask him to take me to New Farm and he doesn't know where that is???

  • tank__girl

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    15 years ago

    I'm also what I would say very observant of people and their behaviours, and find people watching all very fascinating. Up until now I just thought I was a nosey bitch, but it's nice to hear I'm very normal. Just like Born2Play I'm one for analysing random strangers relationships by the way the nature of their body language,if they're wearing 'rings' or not, if they're holding hands, and if not why not? Are they and smiling at eachother, making eye contact, the amount of conversation going on between them over dinner etc. And yeah, other peoples reactions to people...eg. Men just 'having' to do that turn around for a second look after walking past an attractive female, to check out their ass whatever. When a girl in her tight as tight come fuck me dress, that she has to hold down all night so her bits don't fall out, as she wobbles about on her 8 inch heels in desperation to look 'sexy'... she 'think's she is so very HOT, but love watching the trail of people she has just pranced past are all in fits of laughter at how ridciulous she looks stuggling to walk!? Oh and I love watching the husbands that try their best to do the sdieways glace perv without the wife catching them, and when they do catch them, even funnier. Or better still, watching people people watching is fun...?! But more so, I just love witnessing something really sweet or a happy moment between strangers and people in general that makes you smile to yourself and others around you. Just being there at that moment and kind of sharing it with them in my own little way is special, although thinking to myself "Ohhh, I wish that was me...I want thaaaat" I spose that's why we do it. To seek out the beautiful things in life for ourselves, that we think are going to make us happy? I'm often commenting to the people themselves if they are openly showing affection in public or whatever, that are doing something or just look really cute together and are obviously obsessed with eachother , on how great they look together, and or how in love they look! And yeah....you can see it normally makes them feel good, smile and pull the other person in closer to them even tighter! Awwwww....oh to be in love. I worked in hospitality at night for years, so I had to do alot of people watching to try to instantly find a common interest/ground to work with while strike up conversation as I was waitressing their table for the evening. I was always one for spotting 'honeymooners', the ones who still lean over the table holding hands gazing into eachothers eyes, with bright and shiny new rings on!? Bit of a giveaway, but I would always say "ohhh Congratulations Guys...honeymooning I see, are you having a good time?!", and they would look at me with funny big proud, but confused grins on their faces...and say "Ohh..but but..how do you know?" Cute. And like BJ I'm always complimenting random people on the street, at work wherever it may be, on anything I think may be worthy of a compliment...Hmmm a few that come to mind the past couple of days... A sixty year old lady with great skin, who looked 40.....I want that to be me A well groomed, confident young man... You don't see it often around here..? My ex.....as much as I hate his guts, I reassurred him he's a great Daddy and he is loved and missed very much A worn out, frazzled looking mum on how gorgeous her kids are...reminding her it's alll worth it cos her kids are so cute! An 8 year old girl trying to sing a song for her disinterested mother...I liked it, she was good, so I told her :) A new friends boosoms.....telling her I think they are beautiful, cos she said she did't believe they were..? An absolutely gorgeous sweet little 16 year old girl volunteering at the op shop in town........I told her she should get into modelling, I have contacts, & gave them to her! I remember the first time I was complimented on my bOObs by a female, I was 18 or so in her swimwear shop and she screamed out to her co worker "Oh my god, this girl has the most Awesome tits! Come and look!?" hahaa...true story. I was chuffed at the time, because I knew I had great boobs, but thought no one else really did..? So from that day on I wanted everyone to know I had awesome boobs!? I loved showing my girls off, and letting them out for some sun. Compliemts go a long way. Sicnce then I have been asked by at least a dozen women if my boobs are real, that's always nice, not that I want them looking 'fake' just nice and naturally buxom! Just a quick cheeky story.......... the other day in Woolies I was i the fruit & veg section, observing/perving whatever hehe..on this sexy little couple doing their day to day groceries, they were both whispering in each others ears and giggling like teenagers so of course had me curious as to what they were talking about!? After randomly getting some other 'cover up' vegies they quicly made their way to the dark green, penis shaped variety! Wellll.......she being the intelligent female knowing what she wants went staright for the 10 inch continental cucumber and quickly shoved it in her basket, even awkwardly tring to 'hide' it under the other not so fun vegies. He was over at the little baby zucchinis an aisle over near me, holding one looking up at her over the vegie crates waiting for her to look up at him... So I went over and said "No way....that ones way too small?? You guys are sooo naughty!?" He nearly died with embarrasment, his poor little face was like I'd just walked in on him getting funky with it or something! heheee....he wet scarlet red. It was funny... So yes.....share the love around I say....A compliment a day keeps the blues away...? hehe.. Keep smiling friends..........love to all! X

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    So Sunday I was at a festival in Newtown, the best people watching, ever! The girl who has rainbow eyeshadow that matched her rainbox chiffon scarf. The girl with transluscent grey eyes The girl in her perfect retro 70's mini skirt and blouse. The girl with stripy knee high socks and red/pink heels that perfectly matched her red/pink hair. The bouncer with the beautiful smile even as he was carding 17yo's The guy with the blue cowboy boots The guy with the straight long shiny silky hair Everyone who wasn't wearing sunnies, the light was just so that everyone who had visible eyes just radiated light. There was so much more, it was a very long day.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The other night I was in the Supermarket when a Vietnamese woman in front of me was 60 cents short and was about to hand back a tin of baby food...I payed the 60 cents for her...she was in shock and said that she would go to the car and repay me. I said to her no...but if she saw someone that needed help one day...to extend that kindness to that person. A couple of days ago at a different Supermarket, an elderly Aussie man and I were reaching for the plastic bags at the Fruit and Veg section...I got there first, ripped off a bag and handed it to him. A huge smile spread across his face and he said "That is the nicest thing someone has done for me in years". I thought that was sad, that just a small thing could be the nicest thing in so long for him. Today there was a European lady at the Shopping Centre trying to fill in her details on a machine to win prizes, I was waiting behind her and noticed she was about to give up. I then asked her if she needed help and she said "No, that is ok you go first". I told her that it was ok, I will wait and am glad to help her. It took about 5 minutes to get all her details and then I told her what she had to do next with her temporary card. I even showed her what to do whenever she came back to go for the "Instant Prize". She walked away with a smile! About 20 minutes later I was in the Supermarket in the "Feminine Section", when an Indian male was standing there with a list in his hand and looking very embarrassed and lost. I made a comment that it is confusing enough for us females without the men trying to find the right product. I then looked at his list and grabbed the product for him. He then thanked me and I went on with my shopping. At the Check Out he was opposite me as I was being served and gave me a big hello and smile. These are what makes my day... Spread the love... xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' The other night I was in the Supermarket when a Vietnamese woman in front of me was 60 cents short and was about to hand back a tin of baby food...I payed the 60 cents for her...she was in shock and said that she would go to the car and repay me. I said to her no...but if she saw someone that needed help one day...to extend that kindness to that person. A couple of days ago at a different Supermarket, an elderly Aussie man and I were reaching for the plastic bags at the Fruit and Veg section...I got there first, ripped off a bag and handed it to him. A huge smile spread across his face and he said "That is the nicest thing someone has done for me in years". I thought that was sad, that just a small thing could be the nicest thing in so long for him. Today there was a European lady at the Shopping Centre trying to fill in her details on a machine to win prizes, I was waiting behind her and noticed she was about to give up. I then asked her if she needed help and she said "No, that is ok you go first". I told her that it was ok, I will wait and am glad to help her. It took about 5 minutes to get all her details and then I told her what she had to do next with her temporary card. I even showed her what to do whenever she came back to go for the "Instant Prize". She walked away with a smile! About 20 minutes later I was in the Supermarket in the "Feminine Section", when an Indian male was standing there with a list in his hand and looking very embarrassed and lost. I made a comment that it is confusing enough for us females without the men trying to find the right product. I then looked at his list and grabbed the product for him. He then thanked me and I went on with my shopping. At the Check Out he was opposite me as I was being served and gave me a big hello and smile. These are what makes my day... Spread the love... xFunlovingx Awww, such simple yet vital acts... I feel wonderful having read your post tonight. Wow! Spreading the love indeed Funloving... thnx for sharing those moments! Hugs... Mrs P