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So what makes YOU do it???
June 19 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
They have to be in my specified age range - I don't reply to younger guys, as I'm not interested at all, and if they'd take the time to read my profile they'd know that.It has to be reasonably coherent - no sms speak etcHas to be more than just "I'm horny, wanna fuck"Pics... not really, more to a person than what they look likeTheir profile has to have something to say, not just the standardHas to be politeHas to show that they've actually read my profileHas to engage me in some wayMust not be a template, or must not read like one What turns me off a profile? Those with nothing individual to say about themselves, who only use the standard template ones. Or those who only talk about the size of their cock, or how good they are in bed.
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RHP User
16 years ago
it just depends on how I am feeling at the time. And no that doesn't make me completely unpreditcable and unclear about what I want or what my expectations are ......... LOL We women ALWAYS know what we want.... You just need to know the right time to ask us Meeka. PS - How about you Tiger - what makes you reply?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well if you want a serious answer - for me it is all about the face pic. If I like your face pic. then I will respond. So this means that profiles with only dick pics or no pics are completely out. Although I understand that guys must think that dicks are the winning factor if the amount of dick pics are anything to go by. Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
Honestly?Fishing.I am an annoying mass-flirter. I send a veritable tide of flirts and then weed out the positive replies from the wall of negative ones. A bastard of a way to act, I admit, but it is deceptively effective.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Firstly we have to match their requirements.ThenPoints for physical attributes. points for what she/they have to say about themselves and how they describe what they want.points for how well they write.points for what they are into.points for intuitive feel.points for proximity.Points deducted forCrass bylines.Pictures that belong in a medical textbook.Use of the Profile Builder Function.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have been waiting ....... and waiting .......... and ........... Was it my poor writing style or Crass by lines I promise to work on the necessary lines to elicit a flirt !
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' PS - How about you Tiger - what makes you reply? Quoting 'Meeka100' it just depends on how I am feeling at the time. And no that doesn't make me completely unpreditcable and unclear about what I want or what my expectations are ......... LOL We women ALWAYS know what we want.... You just need to know the right time to ask us Meeka. PS - How about you Tiger - what makes you reply? Now Meeka, you are assuming I get messages, lmao... I can tell you as an "older" male I believe we seldom get straight up messages and that's also possibly because the majority are guests... so when it comes to flirts, I always respond, even if they are not what I'm looking for... but for me to strike a message they have to match what I'm looking for, show some character in their profile and knowing there is a pic or two available also assists and definately not the usual "standard" formatted profiles! or ones that are full of "ask me" lines - sooooo frustrating!! Tiger x
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RHP User
16 years ago
What makes you reply "positively" to a flirt or message? Mostly what is written on his profile and the fact that he has read mine! Whats in the profile that makes you think "Yeah I give this a shot and contact this person"? That I am in his age range and he is in mine. That he can spell and put more than two original words together. His pics and that he meets my requirements! Is it the age? Yes, he has to be in my age requirements and when I look at his...I have to be in his! Is it the pics? Yes definately. I have to be attracted to him for anything to happen! The headline? Yes, a funny or authentic heading gets my attention all the time! The statistics? Yes, if he claims to have a huge thick cock I am not interested! I also do look at if their body type and height and hair are what I have asked for on my profile. The body of the profile? Yes, this is the most important! He needs to know how to spell and to say more than "I'm looking for anyone who is up for fun"! What they are looking for? Yes, if I don't fit into what they are looking for then what is the use of answering in the positive! The same with a flirt or message, what makes you answer or no? I hate most of the flirts and don't reply to "I just wanted to say I loved your profile" unless it is from a Forum writer or "you're hot what do you think of me" especially if they have no pic! What is it that makes you do it? See all of the above! Also, what turns you off a profile? Automated profiles are a huge turn off...no imagination, if they are too lazy to fill in what they are after specifically and talk a bit about themselves and what they are after...then I am not interested at all. Profiles that just fill in the 100 letter minimum...doesn't tell me enough about them. Guys that have "Ask Me" on all their statistics...I don't want to waste my time asking them and finding out if we are a match or not...I want to know by reading their profile! Men that do that are obviously very lazy and if they are too lazy to take ten minutes to fill in a profile then I am sure they would be lazy in bed as well. A guy that can't spell is a huge turn off. A guy that says "I guarantee you a great time" or "I will not disappoint"....they usually do disappoint and are usually the worse lovers too. Pics of guys with other girls (when he is single), I don't want to see a pic of his cock in a pussy just to prove to me that he can get a fuck! And especially with no condom on....ewwwww. Validations. No pic or if they send me a message and don't give me access from the first message. Alot of men play the game "If you are interested I will show you my pic".....umm how do I know if I am interested if I don't see what you look like? They just get the automated "Sorry but you don't match what I'm looking for". xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
What I don't like ....... is when I get a flirt that says "I think you're hot what do you think of me ' ..... and they have no pic, and have used the profile builder, I'm sorry ... that is just never going to get a good response.... What I do like, face pics or full body pics ....... personlaized messages ...... something witty ... .. or even straight up(that does not mean - do u wanna fuck- either ) ... but they also have to be in a certain age braket ....for me its 25-40 .... I will reply outside of that but it would most likely be a no thanks .... however there are always exceptions ...... i like tall guys too, so they need to be taller than me as I just hate feeling like a giant. I also dislike the profiles that have alot of 'ask me' on them .. that is just annoying as you then have to play 20questions when you do talk to them.
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RHP User
16 years ago
He would need to be in my age range and have indicated in the body of the message that he had read my profile and was looking for the same. When I looked at his profile it would need to confirm he was looking for the same. My mind is always stimulated when he says he enjoys his work and has interests that he has outside of the bedroom. There would need to be a pic available or at least a mention that one would be provided. There would need to be an indication that he had thought it all through and would like to meet for coffee or a drink so we could get to know each other better. I would not be at all interested if he said he was just looking for fun.I also don't think much of "I am a sexual animal and just can't get enough or " I love pleasing women" If I am not mentally attracted to a person then it doesn't happen for me in the bedroom. Must say at times I have been very tempted by pictures of a gorgeous body but am quickly awoken when he has very little to say. After all we are all here for very different things. AP
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RHP User
16 years ago
Please you need to be able to read. Very simple if you havent taken the time to read my profile I will know simply by what is sent. Previously it depended on how many I had rceived that day, my modd oh and of course that reading thing again. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
i know Meeka was joking, kinda, but i agree with the what mood im in...some days like iv said before, id turn Jose down if im in a shitty mood but mostly its the same as everybody else....what they say in their profile, how close they are to me, what they want from me, what their pics look like (but to me that isnt make or break), if they have made me laugh is a big one, age although im a bit broader with my age limits then i have put down or sometimes i just like the feel of what they have said lol roxxy
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
like most have said:they have to fit the age and criteria of what i am looking for, have to at lest appear to have read my profile (bonus points if they read to the end, it is long winded on purpose) Face pics are important though as long as they can at least show them in PG i am happy.Not into the profile builder responses much prefer something they have written themselves though i understand when you are starting out it takes time to get the knack of what to write.I don't answer very well to template messages or ones that read like one ( i am likely to send a template reply in response that is along the lines of 'no thanks')Something that sparks my interest and shows individuality will always get a positive reply.Hope this helps
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RHP User
16 years ago
I enjoy a personally written message from someone intelligent, witty and they especially have my attention if they can make me laugh. I always reply to a decent message that shows they have read my profile. What inspires me to meet some one involves many factors, depending on the interaction and the mood I am in ...guess that depends on the on the lunar calendar, I totally understand where Meeka is coming from. I would reply to you Tiger, you have a heart and are a spunk!! Kitty
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