So my offline friend says...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  is this. Raunchy sex is what you get when you first meet someone (with a little more kink than most) and it is hot, hard, fast, or can be slow, but last ages and a feature a few off the wall activities... Couply sex is when it sets into a routine, you get to know what gets each other off, and so the sex becomes a little more ho hum, and because you are indulging in it several times over a few days its no longer a 'novelty'. Absence does make the heart (and other areas) grow fonder...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  If the sex doesn't stay raunchy when you have been together for a while then it sounds like you could have worked your way into a rut.There should be no difference between raunchy and couply sex.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  They were putting up and trying out a sex swing and frame. The female sales assistant was all giggly and embarrassed? The guy looked at me and wanted me to try it out, me thinks he liked his job and possibly my boobs too much, in any case I was there to buy stockings. Why not take your sleep over friend to a similar shop, have a look around (especially if you think its embarrassing) and find some toys to play with. Or perhaps I could interest you in a snow white outfit, i'll be the big bad wolf or possibly the evil queen, your friend van be an Austrian beer garden serving wench....where was I, oh yes, try new things. I here wearing two pony tails makes for excellent handle bars...that's your hair not hers. Think laterally, be spontaneous, theres always a different use for a washing machine.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  To my mind, the difference is in intensity. Raunchy sex is full of intensity - it can be hard and fast or slow and heightened. Its not the action itself which distinguishes, but the origins.Raunchy sex is with full mental intent and purpose. It is and of the intensity between the participants. It can continue for the entire length of a relationship or may wane after a period of time. Its about the energy that exists between lovers and how long that energy stays that way.Couply sex is more like auto pilot sex - it doesn't have the same degree of ingrained intensity - perhaps because other things have become more important than they previously were between lovers. To me, its not that the quality of the sex has diminished, just that it has become a different type of energy. Maybe its that there are other areas of exploration occurring. I think both raunchy and couply sex can be equally rewarding and enjoyable, providing it is still satisfying enough for each partner.That's what it means to me - anyway.2b :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  raunchy sex part of the repertoire of couples?Perhaps she means the intimacy that develops between lovers when you spend more than just a few hours together.x Hugs H

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  13 years ago

  Hmm "couply" seems to imply an ongoing emotional atttachment and an exclusive relationship.It is what happens after a while and generally inolves being ok with farting in bed or on waking you aren't overly worried about your morning breath...   "Raunchy" is what happens when you are new to each other or are trying something new in your repertiore that has some sense of adventure or pushes the boudaries of what you have done before.   Good Luck explaining this without getting a slap and no sex.... Mike

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  13 years ago

  Saskia almost had me with her points of difference, but I disagree with the notion that when sex turns "coupley" it becomes "a little more ho hum". Yes, you indulge in something that is no longer a novelty but I believe that once you know what gets each other off, it should then make sex even better, in the sense that you can push some boundaries, experiment and explore more..Personally, I prefer the kind of sex where, once I know my way around my partner's body, I feel safe in being able to sample new and interesting ways of pushing their buttons and getting my buttons pushed in return. I understand not all "coupley sex" is like that in everyone's reality, but it is definitely the kind that I prefer to participate in..I also agree with Mistress T and am definitely a fan of Brunhild's "think laterally, be spontaneous" philosophy..Flirty x

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  13 years ago

  But I'm still not sure we have an answer.But now i have another question. Where do you put up.. sorry.. ERECT, a sex swing?LOL..

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  13 years ago

  Is when you do something naughty like fuck with the windows open so the neighbours can see. Raunchy sex is when you invite the neighbours to participate.   Couples sex is when he ties you to the bed and makes love to you Raunchy sex is when he invites his foot ball team over while your tied up.   Couples sex is when you wearing something sexy as in a corset and heels Raunchy sex is when your dressed up like a pony girl with the bit in your mouth and bridle and saddle on.   Couple sex is when he fucks you and rolls over to sleep Raunchy is when he fucks you, rolls over to sleep, then you roll to face the other way and fuck your other man.     couples sex is one hole with one cock at a time Raunchy sex is ...........

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'LittleRedEngine' But I'm still not sure we have an answer.But now i have another question. Where do you put up.. sorry.. ERECT, a sex swing?LOL.. You hang it from the ceiling. Some use a frame but unless you are both featherweights I would go the ceiling option. In my line of work we make them from leather and call them slings.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Thanks.. I'll keep this in mind next time I'm building a ceiling for a larger couple that I suspect of being kinksters..LOL..

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  13 years ago

  Personally I much prefer the sex after I know someone a little more intimately. I love the leadup to the first time sex, the wondering what it will be like, the flirtation and everything, but usually find the first time to be a bit of a letdown, and then it picks up after we know what each other enjoys, hence my seeking few men for fwb arrangements and not lots of different men for one nighters. I was trying to look at it from the point of view that LRE has put it across, the story he was relating to his offline friend was speaking of couply sex in the negative point of view. So I am guessing that the intensity, thrill of someone new etc had gone from their relationship.   And yes, Mistress T you are so right - there shouldn't be any difference between raunchy and couply sex. Our (partner and I) have a fantastic sex life, all the more better after finding sites like this. In fact I don't really think anyone fucks me like he does, because there is love and history there.

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