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So.... The One!

April 03 2011

If you have finally found The One... would you leave this kind of site? I mean, I have heard in a number of forum topics about the addictions people get... but what if you are also addicted to The One? Would you leave RHP?Oh.. and if anyone has seen The One recently... pls send my best regards! I went to stalk his profile posts today and he ain't there! WTF??HugsStalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If I found the One I would leave yes, but maybe just stay for the forums, they are mighty addictive as you know. Just have a NOT EVEN LOOKING profile and come back to chat. . . . as for your other question , yes I know

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Isn't The One renovating? Maybe he f*cked up with his hammering and can no longer type ... . On the topic of leaving the site, I can see some merit to the idea I suppose. However, I enjoy the forums and the community too much to disappear just yet. I think we almost have ourselves a cozy little cyber family of good friends who understand where, why and how we met and that is very ... appealing and at times comforting I suppose. We are both very open-minded and enjoy this place for all the same reasons. I'm only speaking for myself here. Not sure what he would say, but that's my take anyway. . The reality is that internet dating is still viewed with some scepticism by "mainstream society". I'm not so sure it's as easy to explain the origins of our relationship and our RHP membership to our "outside" friends... Here, we have common topics and interests to discuss with each other and other like-minded people. . I like how you make me think Stalky, great topic!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ..you found The One BEFORE you joined the site? What should we do Stalky? We joined to have some fun and we've had a little and yes one of us got a little addicted to the forums but the addiction is waning as it's not as fun anymore..we need more frivolous fun postings from the likes of you!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Isn't The One renovating? Maybe he f*cked up with his hammering and can no longer type ... that's no reason to deny the rest of us a bit of eye candy... how selfish! :Pxx Sarah (would probably stick around for the forums and eye candy..)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Absolutely, and regardless of past or future lifestyle choices...simply because I would see that as such an incredible gift in my life that I would focus only on nurturing that relationship. Someone that I would call "the one" would be exactly that...nothing would take precedence over that or interfere until the roots were deeply embedded and the relationship was in a state of healthy growth. |Until then, I totally deny saying anything that may have made sound even remotely like a romantic sook...I am a Neanderthal, dammit and I got the club to prove it.|Bring on the hot chicks! ||And yes, "the one" would be more than enough of a hot chick for me, club and all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ...or one does not come here at all anymore. Thats how I'd play it Stalky, but honestly, if the one does not have a penchant for sexual deviancy then She would be the stunt-one or pseudo 0.9 or just the wrong bird all together. So the enquiry is then redundant and the closing statement would be: . The one will join the other where ever each shall go without resignation. Appearing as Two, One is as one with another (for better and a bit of worse but not too much worse... or else) . Annexure A: The two as one should be aware that carelessness may result in a small Third member being added to the equation after a 9 month incubation period (careless date assigned start point) . Don't tell me you've encountered a Possible...One Stalky? I'd like to think there's no hidden meaning or ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Stalky. What would we do if we found TheOne. Mmmmm I do have few ideas. :P Although I am not sure if I would leave RHP all together, I am a little addicted to the forums to tell you the truth. And if the one I find is really TheOne he will understand. I hope. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'd leave here if I found The One... a mythical creature I suspect. But... somehow based on my past and current actions, I don't think I could stay away forever. I think I'd want The One to join me on here, to openly read my posts and to participate in the chat room. Afterall...if it is The One then he'd also be as adventurous and playful as I am so being on here shouldn't be a problem ! Hugs, Miss Saturn (thinks I will have more luck finding a unicorn !)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I met my man on here but my 'single and searching' profile had to go....it had fulfilled it's intention. . Now I am really just on here to be inspired, YES inspired. Who would have thought a forum like this full of sexual fantasy and deviancy could be inspiring..hehe. But it is ...perhaps because I get a laugh out of real life topics that work colleagues would frown at (prudes - all of them;). . I am addicted to The One....but he has a tendancy to be a workaholic on his PC....so I spend some of my time sitting next to him on my 'puter....reading the forums, booking concerts and weekends away....it seems to work well

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    if i found "the one" then nah id stay here just for the forums id leave everything open so he could see what i was doing and who i was chatting to so no secrets, no jealousy....then id be very very happy roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You probably right Miss S as far as having a laugh and a giggle together about some of the antics on here and maybe more so if by some "Unicorn Pretzel Logic" twist of fate it happen to be someone from here. You always do find what you are looking for in the last place you look... | Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' I'd leave here if I found The One... a mythical creature I suspect...he'd also be as adventurous and playful as I am so being on here shouldn't be a problem!| As far as anything else that happened outside of or behind that screen...not a chance, and for me "The One" would be compatible and adventurous enough to make sure that anything either of thought we wanted was served up as silver and white linen service for two. The gate would close and like winning the lottery...I would never buy another ticket hoping to win. | I might be an OCD forum recidivate...but my true addictions that I embrace with no intention whatsoever of even thinking about recovery... | ...would be much stronger indeed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    it looks like TheOne has gone and left us he has packed up his spiderman toys and vanished hmmmm i wonder why??? roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi! Stalky. That's hard to know for sure but for me at this point in My Life Marriaged twice . Husband as My Lover in both .I like the variety I enjoy from different Lovers now . I would remain or leave to be with MY Man ,but enjoy some sexual Interludes with one or two Lovers still.My Man would have to be open to this ,even encourage and enjoy sharing these activities with me and others. Enjoy Lu :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The last thing I'm looking for is the one of anything at the moment :-) But if I did fall for that special someone then I'd probably leave the site. I do like the forums though, so who knows.....I wouldn't be using the site for anything but the forums if I did stay though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Apparently theone is taking a little break for the moment. Not sure what scared him away - maybe he was being stalked hehehehe. :p xx Meeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The One...so i cant play with the other ones..? Or the one that got away ? because she is the one..maybe..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If I was to meet the man that I wanted to be forever...I would pack up my shit and leave! However, as the Forums are indeed so addictive I would remove my pics and my looking for status and make my profile invisible to others! I don't get it when people say "I am just here to chat as I have found an incredible man/woman"...yet, they still have all their profile details up and sexy pics! To me that is doomed from the start! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    .....on the one and the type of relationship we wanted. If RHP was interfering or going to interfere with that relationship, RHP would be gone. I would like to think that any relationship I developed would be open enough to include the forums, but that would be about all. I tend to become less interested in playing with others when in a committed relationship so playing with others would not happen. I have, however, met some fantastic people from RHP and would like to maintain the friendship with them. l Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'|I am a Neanderthal, dammit and I got the club to prove it.||Nice arse CM. Dont trip on that.......club...climbing that ladder now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Apparently theone is taking a little break for the moment. Not sure what scared him away - maybe he was being stalked hehehehe. :p xx Meeks he closed down to take a break???...fuck men are big babies lol so who was stalking TheOne??? roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Roxxy - Well if you look at Stalky's original post it sounds like he was "stalking" theone. lmfao. Otherwise - aren't we all stalking the one? Or are you stalking the many? xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' If I was to meet the man that I wanted to be forever...I would pack up my shit and leave! However, as the Forums are indeed so addictive I would remove my pics and my looking for status and make my profile invisible to others! I don't get it when people say "I am just here to chat as I have found an incredible man/woman"...yet, they still have all their profile details up and sexy pics! To me that is doomed from the start! xFunlovingx I have found the guy I want to grow old with and he also has a profile on this site. Remember that this is also a "Social Networking Site" and I have stayed for the social networking, events and forums. We don't have a couples profile because we play separately but may decide to put one up in the future.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I HAVE found the ONEand still come back for the forums!and the pics hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' If I was to meet the man that I wanted to be forever...I would pack up my shit and leave! However, as the Forums are indeed so addictive I would remove my pics and my looking for status and make my profile invisible to others! I don't get it when people say "I am just here to chat as I have found an incredible man/woman"...yet, they still have all their profile details up and sexy pics! To me that is doomed from the start! xFunlovingx I have found the guy I want to grow old with and he also has a profile on this site. Remember that this is also a "Social Networking Site" and I have stayed for the social networking, events and forums. We don't have a couples profile because we play separately but may decide to put one up in the future. I understand where you are coming from as you have fixed your profile to what you really are looking for. I mean the people that have "PLEASE TAKE NOTE" I am not meeting anyone as I have found the love of my life"...but...the rest of the profile is still at what they had it at when they were single! Does that make more sense? xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I don't think I have read any profiles like that Funloving.Sounds like they are either too lazy to type a new one or they are covering all bases in case things don't work out!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I don't believe in forever but if I was to meet someone who I was really into, and he felt the same about me, he would know me petty well and he wouldn't mind I was on here.In my ideal world of course.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I met my one on here too. I have the 'not looking' spiel on my single profile, and just come in to read the forums. My man knows I still have it but he doens't want one any more. So it's all good! xxS

  • TimidButCurious

    TimidButCurious

    15 years ago

    If I was lucky enough to find “The One” I’m sure I would find plenty of other ways to spend time previously used in front of the computer. I do love reading the forums, but think I could easily ween myself from here if the search was over. . Would probably feel weird closing down profiles (here and vanilla sites), but would happily walk away from them and never look back. . Timid