M51
Sleeping with the ex.
August 05 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
No, No and Never. In my situation it would've a futile excercise in desperation and awfully cruel for the children. And I know damn well she feels the same. We have an amicable arrangement that works for the children and no way am I throwing a spanner in that. No way.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Slept with many of my ex's...most of the I still would..One I still see fairly regularly has been an ex for 5 years.. Our demons like each other. AND.. I do not care if they are in another relationship...I am a lover.. not a fckn marriage councillor. Umm.. I usually do not care if I am in another relationship either... which is WHY I have so many ex's... *shrugs* It is what cavemen USED to do anyway..
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've gone back a couple of times. One was only a few weeks after the breakup, one was a few years after. Both were big mistakes and nope would not do it again. I'm trying to cut out bullshit from my life now, not add more to it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not for me. Cavey you're getting SOFT. 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
The sex was amazing but the head fuck from it wasn't. We always had a strong sexual connection though, that wasn't one of the reasons why we split. If you are trying to detach from someone I wouldn't recommend it. It just stirs up too many feelings and just makes it harder in the long run especially if the break up is not a mutual decision. (Well that's how it felt for me) He tried to hit me up recently almost two years after we broke up. I was tempted and I knew it would have been physically good ,but emotionally it would have been a big mistake. I did think about it a lot that day and in the following days and fantasised how it would have been. But I know I did the right thing to say no. That door is closed and needs to stay shut now, it would have been bad for both of us.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nup, never. There's no point whatsoever.It's just tacky tacky tacky.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm actually friends with, and still in contact with most of my exes, as things have never really ended on bad terms with any of them. (The one exception being the man I was married to for 17 years ... I have had no contact with him since I left him 6.5 years ago and that's just fine with me.) I have reconnected sexually with several past lovers and think it's because as a Scorpio the sexual connection I feel with a lover is very intense, and I would rather have sex with an ex who I know the sex will be amazing with, than take a chance with someone new ... This can be to my own detriment as by bringing past lovers back into my life it does tend to keep me from meeting someone new Maybe it's a case of better the devil I know and as cavey50 said, our demons like each other ... Or maybe it's just that I'm yet to meet a naughty sexy man worth moving forward with rather than looking back ... But that's another whole forum topic 🙄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Why would you ? Just the thought turns me off..
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RHP User
8 years ago
A Few months after a painful breakup. He got in contact with me just as I was starting to move on. No I wouldn't do it again despite how amazing the sex was. Coming down off the high multiple orgasms gave me took the shine off and caused more pain than satisfaction in the end But yes I still fantasise and lust after the amazing sexual connection had - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
no way would I sleep with my last ex. Talking to her is like smashing my dick with a hammer. Really unfortunate situation that doesn't really have to be like that. There are a couple of past girl friends that in my mind would be fun but I have a feeling it wouldn't be the same as I remembered.
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LetsFrolic
8 years ago
And it was great - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well yes I have and still do sleep with a few of my ex's. I have never had a bad break up so still talk and socialise with a lot of them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Once.... after 3 months broken apart. Lesson learned and won't be repeated. It's a big sea with lots of fish And I'm a fisherman 😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm talking Ex boyfriend/partner not lover. It was........boring. Reminded me why I was glad to be out of it. Made me realise I could still fake it. Poor guy. He's about to get married apparently. But I've not faked it since. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
going soft is an age thing...BUT... there are chemicals to remedy that.....
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Ex's are ex's for a reason, that is all....💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
No, no .... and let me think about it ...... NO ! Each to their own and no judgement but for me, exe's are ex'es for a reason
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RHP User
8 years ago
phone sex count? Yes, last night was amazing 😊 a little more is being hinted at lol I have no issue with it in this particular situation, continuation of the connection to some degree is actually helping me, and the friendship is strong, nothing will happen to that, so very comfortable with it. However, different to a partner from marriage, certainly post divorce, as others have said, you go your own separate ways for a reason, depends if you want to open that can of worms. But if you're happy to go with the flow, not afraid of it reigniting your relationship, go for it, no-one else's business except yours and hers. Don't worry about what friends or family might think. None of their business
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes and yes we kept catching up for a few months and are still friends
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tylannister
8 years ago
My ex-wife and I kept hooking up with each other for nearly 8 months after we split up. Some of the best sex we had. Probably because at that point she was then cheating on the boyfriend she had taken up after we split. I don't regret it, but I certainly wouldn't do it now.
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RHP User
8 years ago
That master loved to hear about... what my ex and I did to each other, how we played and much more. Got in touch a couple of years ago and ex was still regretting letting me go and apologised... we just wanted some fun but ex was a mopy dik! Lol!
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