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Singles Meet & Greet
October 29 2017
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Paradisepair
8 years ago
We both play solo when we are apart. For me that's pretty much always overseas. Not so much the clubs, but lots of parties are single guy friendly... but with a catch, they have go be superhot. Works for me (MrsParadise). Having hot, horny single guys in the mix amps up with vibe, I'm 100% for it. I've also been to an amazing singles party, my own complaint is that for the meet and greet part of the night the guys had their shirts on. Turns out the nice guy I wasn't really into had one of the most amazing physiqued I'd ever seen (note to guys keep shirts tight fitting)... I missed my moment... first world problems. Couples are hard work, and I'm one half of one! When I am out solo I've met a couple of amazing couples who are genuinely giving, fun and without hang ups but at clubs I've said this before, it feels like the women are really looking for a man. I've had great bi experiences in clubs or parties but almost always with other single women or women who are there with a fwb not a partner. I should put a disclaimer out, some nights I'm just not in the mood for anything besides a top tier experience and so don't take up some perfectly fine options... I'm here to make my fantasies reality so I tend not to play unless all of my boxes are being ticked...
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Paradisepair
8 years ago
What's missing? Amazing party venues... Our population base here is too small to sustain more variety through more nights and our 'anti-schoolies' no parties! mentality for holiday rentals kills the potential for better locations for private parties.
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RHP User
8 years ago
What I/we want as singles doesn't really matter. Because it is couples that organise the great majority of events as per their own individual and/or commercial interests. But I can't complain, if it wasn't for couples I might not have a sex life at all :P But like what you are doing, if you want a different kind of event to the status quo, you have to organise it yourself/ourselves. I organised another general Meet and Greet recently as some others this year I could not attend, at least not solo. I have also held a singles Meet. There has even been a "Girl's night out" equivalent meet. People are free to run any event they want to. P.S. You should mention it's a Qld Event early on now to avoid any confusion (that don't already know you from last time) :)
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SugarSugar69
8 years ago
Countrytouch I knew I was forgetting something. Thank you. And well done on your recent meet and greet. I've heard it was a great night. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
"This stigma surrounding single men in the swinging scene is bullshit" Hit the nail on the head right there. I would only attend if it was a capped age for guys, partly because I obviously like them younger, but also to ensure certain worrying ones didn't turn up. I'm very fussy who I share close air space with lol Now that's not to say all older men wouldn't be of interest, it would largely be a security measure for me, locally at least. Reality is as CT said, we need to organise the events ourselves. I'm kind of unsure whether I want to be in mixed company though, for sex that is, would love mixed company otherwise, just don't know whether the presence of other women would turn me off in a sexual setting. Any number of men and I'd be completely in my element. So that puts a question mark around what type of event would interest me. Perhaps smaller group mmmf or such would appeal more to me, understand I can organise that myself though. Bit kind of don't know where I'm heading at the moment, at a crossroads I think. I think even when I have a partner though, this might be a dilemma because I'd prefer they play alone than me be present with another woman
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RHP User
8 years ago
I touch myself, you're just greedy and want all the men to yourself ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
That the single men at the events I've been to (not talking M&G or singles events) are there in the hopes of hooking up with couples and not the single females there. There was one guy who was the exception with Freaky_fun on one occasion ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
😂 Yes I think you might be right 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
Can I assume I don't need to be hot to attend this particular event? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
You are hot!!! Hey woman!! What happens in the club stays in the club 😂😂😂 but yes he was an exception 😜🙊 I wouldn't say it was bullshit. As we know there will be certain comments made on here and the events listing from people that can't grasp the concept of a Meet and Greet. I'm not sure anything is missing per say. The exorbitant prices for men can be attributed to the few creepy weirdos that hunt in packs and loiter in the hallways which make it hard for the decent men. Yes l have seen it many times. The prices don't necessarily stop that behaviour but I'm not sure what else the clubs can do. Single women are generally free or a lot cheaper to encourage them to attend but very few feel like they can especially on their own. Me on the other hand will go wherever there's a good party 😂😜😂
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
My housemate and I have both discussed this area a good number of times between ourselves. When we check out the events sections on site, greater majority is strictly for couples and/or single women. Single guys may as well not exist, as they'll never get a look in. The next biggest obstacle is the "most suited age range" advertized in those events, which again is pretty much exclusively skewed toward younger people. So any over that particular age (let's call it around 45) is 'not welcome' (or they can go and hide in a corner somewhere). We are both singles - just happen to share a house for convenience of us both, but we could go to an event as a 'couple' but we consider that wouldn't be fair to other full couples who may have different expectations. And what is it with the age barrier ? My housemate who is in her early 50's would probably outlast any guy around her. And I don't exactly get around with a zimmer frame either ! We have considered the possibility of perhaps organizing a singles event for the Sydney area, and may still consider it if we could guage the possible interest in such an event. But from our experience we don't believe it would go the distance. Tall
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SugarSugar69
8 years ago
Define "hot"! Variety is the spice of life. A person can look drop dead gorgeous but have no personality. I wouldn't touch them with a 10ft pole. You are more then welcome to attend. Plus this isn't just about me. I'm trying to get a mix of different people as we all have different tastes. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SugarSugar69
8 years ago
Guess you'll never know unless you give it a go. What have you got to loose? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a relative newbie I would attend a M & G just so I could talk and laugh with some likeminded guys n gals. $ not an issue for me. Isn’t that the idea of a M & G anyway.... I caught up with a friend recently at the local pub and we could tell the table full of vanillas behind us was starting to listen in on our conversations, we had all sorts of pics out. Made it hard to just be ourselves. Problem solved at a real club, everyone is on the same page and should make for a relaxed fun filled evening. BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Eiliethiya' That the single men at the events I've been to (not talking M&G or singles events) are there in the hopes of hooking up with couples and not the single females there. ...don't necessarily agree as given a choice between meeting a single woman at an event with the option to advance further on to lovers, friends, friends with benefits, whatever? I would certainly choose the single woman every time...I like the option of the intimacy. Mind, I enjoy being with the right couple now and then, have made a few very close friends and enjoy their company however my long-term view will always lead me to the single lady. Hope the ''single's event'' get legs and look forward to meeting more of you! CM who likes those charming single ladies!
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RHP User
8 years ago
The first reply characterised "hot" by body type, or what is under the (male) shirt. Like the events she mentioned, it backs up my experience that what is under my shirt isn't enough to gain me access to some events here which restrict entry by body type. For Freaky though I'm happy to be defined as "hot" by some other characteristic/s... :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
In my opinion, the exhorbitant prices for men create weirdos, rather than discourage them. They expect something for the hundred dollars or more they have to pay for the benefit of passing through a doorway, not even a guarantee that anyone is there that even wants to talk to them. I have not been to any commercial events for ages, however my favourite event charges $60 for men which I feel is reasonable to cover the cost/s of the hired apartment, and held only every few months (unfortunately), so it's obviously not a profit making venture. I've also been to many events (ie groups/gb's etc) hosted normally by and for a single couple, that have not even asked for contribution to costs. Being invited in such a way I think generates a great thankfulness and appreciation, and a feeling of being wanted, to the extent that I have never seen any noteworthy bad behaviour. None of the above via rhp though (yet).
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
Like l said I'm not sure what the clubs can do about it. I don't think it creates anymore weirdos than if it was half the price. Maybe if they learnt how to talk to people instead of standing in the corners like meerkats or standing outside bedroom doors waiting for a glimpse of what's inside they wouldn't have to pay so much.
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RHP User
8 years ago
please love to have a single meet and play
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have attended a few parties like that, and a swingers club inM elbourne , that had no restrictions on single men or women. And those events I felt as if there was 10 men to every woman (more even?). I am not personally interested in being gang banged. Although I note the few women that attended, most of them were into it. So how do you combat that? Men that come and want to hook with a couple, or perhaps a single woman or two... and they don't want to wait in line? Or actually have a good chance of not hooking up at all only because the numbers between men and women is uneven. How do you deal with that?
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' I have attended a few parties like that, and a swingers club inM elbourne , that had no restrictions on single men or women. And those events I felt as if there was 10 men to every woman (more even?). I am not personally interested in being gang banged. Although I note the few women that attended, most of them were into it. So how do you combat that? Men that come and want to hook with a couple, or perhaps a single woman or two... and they don't want to wait in line? Or actually have a good chance of not hooking up at all only because the numbers between men and women is uneven. How do you deal with that? I guess those creepy guys lacking in social skills that are skulking in corners are very quickly going to learn they won't have any luck acting that way...so they'll either change their approach or not come again. Only problem is it's those guys that are causing clubs (on the odd occasion do allow single guys) to charge quite a bit for entry to try combat it. Plus I guess they know that there will be certain guys that will pay whatever price. The few parties I've been to at CV's on the GC which had no limit on single guys had massive turnouts...and not just the guys...lots of couples looking for options for single guys to join them, and a few single women as well. Great parties, and not quite the sausage fest you would expect.
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
If a singles event was to be organized then I would hope that the organizer/s would ensure a reasonable even number of females and males. Nothing more awkward than having a 10:1 or 20:1 (or worse) ratio of one to the other. When people register it shouldn't be too difficult to try to maintain an even balance. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
At all full open Meet and Greets, there aren't restrictions. However only a few men turn up despite the invitations and messages to all registrations. Same for the singles night I had, but more men of course this time, but certainly I had to put more effort into getting men to come, when women started to outnumber men who made actual contact. Maybe the meerkats from sex clubs aren't big on socialising in a public place :P There are also serial registers? (Registrars? Registerers?)
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
the exorbitant single men's pricing drives the desperation and stalking behaviour,trying to get as much for their money as they can if anything at all ,maybe that behaviour would disappear or at least be more social like in a meet and greet scenario if the money stakes weren't so high ,the guys at the meet and greet were no pressure and easy going but there they hadn't outlaid stupid money to make them think i have to get something for my money or i should have gone to a brothel instead - Posted from rhpmobile
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SugarSugar69
8 years ago
I have not encounter any creepy men at swingers clubs so as far as I'm concerned this is all about $$$ for clubs and not the lifestyle. I've been attending clubs on and off for over 10yrs now as a single and a couple. Clubs do have a selection process for single men. They need to provide a face pic and a phone conversation in order to be considered to attend. They are made aware of the club rules and I've never seen anyone get kicked out of a club. Vixens night's at CV really go off. Couples and single ladies on the prowl for suitable single men.... It's insane and shows that yes we need more single guys to attend. These nights are very busy and I've only missed 2 parties in the last 12 months. I miss CI..... It was a swingers club that catered for all in this scene. I'm happy to play with couples but at the moment give me more single men! Also I have no desire to "control" what happens in these clubs. If a woman wants a gang bang then I'm happy for her, if you want one on one then I'm also happy for you. I can't control what happens on the night but to me it's important to have options. And if those options don't exist then I'll find a way so they do. Why am I hosting these meet and greets? Because I want to host singles parties and this is how I filter out from who is genuine and who is not. So I can say yes I've meet these people and they are respectful and create a safe,fun,sexy environment for us singles to have fun in.
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
I have no doubt that's exactly what they think after paying so much to get but you're kidding yourself if you think it would stop them even if they got in for free 😏
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
You would think they would learn but I've noticed the same ones doing it on several occasions. Now l can generally talk underwater and will talk to anyone but it's a little hard to have a conversation when all they do is stand in a corner and wank. Maybe more men like yourself and quite a lot of others who continually come,across in the forums as well spoken with manners would make it easier for everybody to have a good night. And just to be clear its only the very few that make it hard (no pun intended) on the rest, I've spoken and met some wonderful men single or otherwise (yes l meant you Mr B). Hopefully it's food for thought for anyone thinking about attending a club not to be a lurker.
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SugarSugar69
8 years ago
Maybe I didn't explain myself properly. This is a social meet and greet for singles. Whatever others choose to do is out if my control but yes this is a social event. Somewhere in the near future I will host a singles party and will put an invite forward to those I've already meet creating a safe environment for those attending. Would this not be appealing to single woman wanting to meet single men ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your question is talking about swingers parties and cost which is why answered in the way that I did. I also did not state that single men at swingers clubs are creepy or lurkers at all. Just that when I have attended the numbers were so uneven, 10 men to one woman. Nothing to do with the guy being single/married and on his own/a lurker/creepy/ etc. The gang bang girls are kept busy all night- which they love. I’ve not attend m&g were men have to pay more before. However, swingers events and balls such as Saints and Sinners which do not cater to single men.... well, I’ve not attended any of those. Overall, going to an event with only couples and single women is nowhere near as much fun. In my opinion anyway.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Awesome idea. Should be more of them.
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
Sorry the meet and greet comment was for Mr B where we met some awesome people in a relaxed environment in Melbourne a couple of weeks ago, similar to what you're organising. Then some not so nice ones at Saints and Sinners the night before although being with a group of friends made for an awesome night. Definitely appealing to attend an event like that as l think having a good friends base makes for great parties/get togethers and like you said a safe environment. And thanks again for taking the time to look into it 😘
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
😂😂😂 @ freaky,ya dag @ sugar ,i think it's s great idea to have a meet and greet as part of your parties selection process ,then you can see and predict who will fit in with your party group and dynamics , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
"Maybe I didn't explain myself properly. This is a social meet and greet for singles. Whatever others choose to do is out if my control but yes this is a social event. Somewhere in the near future I will host a singles party and will put an invite forward to those I've already meet creating a safe environment for those attending. Would this not be appealing to single woman wanting to meet single men ? " Yes I believe it would have wide appeal. My earlier comment veered off topic, for a purely social meet, I would think it would get a huge amount of interest. Yes it's great for single men, but so many single women are gaggin to meet single men. Great opportunity for all to come together and huge amount of respect for you, for offering to organise it 👍
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