M57 F58
Single men
October 03 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
It means they are not interested in single guys which can mean that the female is bi-sexual and prefers to play with other women and her husband only. Or if they are after other couples its because they can partner swap. Mxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Like any adult website, there is always going to be a lot more 'single' males, either actually single, or married saying they are single, because as we know, its the power of the pussy. Even if you to go a swingers party there will be more 'single' males wanting to attend then there will be single females attending. I think a lot of couples put 'no single men' simply because if they didnt, they would have so many messages and invitations all the time, they wouldnt cope getting through them all. Those couples who would be looking for a single male, I think would most likely go looking and contact the single males they are interested in, hence weeding out the excess of unwanted contacts {hope that all makes sense} If I am looking for a 3some with one of my friends and were looking for a single guy, we dont say we are and wait for contacts, we just search for single males and do it that way. Maybe its me/us maybe, its how other couples think as well?
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
There are alot of very protective husbands or partners out there that only prefer couples or other women to join them in their sex life.Alot of men would or maybe get jealous, threatened or do not trust the single male - whether he is really single or only saying that he is. And we all know that their are genuine and non genuine single guys out there.....And if the female is bisexual she maybe after couples and other women only....Again it is each to their own on what they want and dont want to have in this journey with them....Im sure alot of the single guys out there are great and honest.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hello, We have no insecurities in our marriage nor our swinging life. We're not out there for single guys as it doesn't rock our boat. We have more fun with couples, as everyone gets to play with whom they desire.
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RHP User
13 years ago
HI FIVE why huh why?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lollypop is right, not putting in "no single men" can be like opening the floodgates (or leaving them open in this case). A lot of couples will look for single guys for MFM rather than waiting so that they can find someone they really want, but even then you'll get the occasional guy flirting or messaging. We've added something like don't contact us, we'll contact you which gets the point across.It's also true for single women looking for other women or couplles, my buddy wanted to explore with another woman and deselected men in the "looking for" section but didn't add "no single men" in her profile. After taking a break for a few days she came back to find ~20 new flirts and 5 new messages in her inbox, all from single guys.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes' you made sense... I think you nailed it in one...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I knew they dont want single men here !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a guy with a single profile, I accept if a couple or single fem want me to join them, they will contact me. Not the other way around.. So I dont even try anymore. I have read enough to understand the nuisance angle single guys present on here, so the name of the game for me is patience.. Dont they say good things happen to those who wait..? I'd rather wait for the genuine than negative ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
because some couples just dont see a single guy as an option...and some guys...no, make that many guys, will message couples on 'spec', even when they clearly state they only seek other couples, or women... we like single guys, but exclude married/attached guys,as thats our preference.....but still receive flirts and messages daily, from guys who are attached in some way....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think some couples in the lifestyle do have a phobia of single guys, we see it a lot. Makes me wonder what they do when they get one train or any sort of public arena.lol We have found single guys to be the nicest and most well behaved of all our patrons , in fact it is the couples and single ladies that we mostly have trouble with. So u see it carries on over to their profiles and I can imagine it would get annoying as it does for me, the single guy messages etc...but trust me a few have made it bad for many. There are some genuine lovely single guys out there so don't label them all from one bad brush I say. On the other hand there are couples that their relationship doesn't allow single guys into and that is their prerogative and they should never have to explain why, it is just that way end of story. You see in this lifestyle no one has to explain anything, it is about you as a couple, and you don't have to offer up any explanation as to why you don't want to have single guys, single girls, or couples in your playtime..it is simply your choice and no one has the right to question that. Leesa xxx
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Localtradie
13 years ago
most straight male couples arnt after single males , but in the past ive been pretty lucky to meet afew couples im a striaght male its not often a couple are keen to meet a straight single guy but on the odd occasion ive been lucky enough to meet some real great genuine couples...its just safe play and discrete and as long as you respect them there personal life etc all is fine...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Loved all of the answers guys. So I get it....some women are looking for other women :)the others are jealous partners that have double standards.. LOL...JOKE!thanks for the response. It was very interesting :) I guess it is a bit threatening...but single guys should be treated the same way as single gals...just saying :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'TJ7768'...but single guys should be treated the same way as single gals...just saying :) I totally agree that single guys should be treated the same as single girls. Its not really fair that men are often the ones paying on websites and females dont, no its not fair. BUT with that said, reality is, a woman can get sex pretty much anytime she wants and its always going to be men who are mostly seeking something more and will always be the masses on any adult website. Fair - no? reality - yes! GMerst25 and justjuice - thank you both for your kind comments.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Everybody has the right to their own choices and reasons, but what I find odd are the profiles that state about 6 times "NO SINGLE GUYS" but in the section at the very top where the "seeking" part is.....wait for it....man. That means I you do a search and tag the "matching members" all the couples who don't want single men come up as matches for the single men. Weird :)
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
So that probably makes us qualified to answer. Previously when hot sex was more of a concept than a reality we thought the path to success was a tit for tatt approach. Therefore 3somes whether with a guy or girl were not on our radar at all. And back then as I (Mrs PP) was driving our foray into swinging it would be fair to say there was a touch of insecurity from Mr PP who was't quite sure what he was signing up for. As we met confident, secure couples with boundaries much more open than ours (even now) we got to experience 3somes M and F during dates with couples which gave us a taste of how much fun they can be but also how it can be a vehicle to circumvent that sometimes difficult to maintain 4 way connection. So now we're open to swingles of either sex, but we're yet to actually do it. We had looking for men on our profile for a couple of weeks and had about three or four times the traffic and only 3 or 4 actual messages and a few flirts but that was it. We weren't comfortable with that level of traffic and so removed the 'looking for' search engine bit but kept the written part in our profile. It's at the very end of our lengthy and detailed profile. Since removing men from showing up in the searches we might maybe have had one guy approach us. It's not a pressing priority for us and I can't help but think the fact that we clearly outline what we're looking for in our playmates has helped shield us from random approaches from totally unsuitable 'matches'.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Mrs PP I am swingle !!! Would love to chat anytime soon Message me if your interested 8-)
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