wegetwet

wegetwet

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Single males do they read profiles or not??

January 09 2019

Not sure if this has been asked or posted but would like to know if other couples or even single people have this issue. We have on profile please read our profile and no flirts but please send a message...no friends request if we have never met or have never had some form of contact. But seems many males can't read and few couples...I am the male half asking as when I was single I never did this,i would send a message and see if their was interest it's not FB but even then you have people sending friends request to be freind there....I find this annoying but really stupid is this just me or others think like this as well? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Bottom line for me is simply this.... You or I cannot control other people’s actions no matter how much you mitigate.... Only thing you can do is choose your reaction to them...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Single guys when they message and i politely say no keep messaging despite a polite no thanks move along.I think sometimes is easier to be rude to them to be polite as they dont seem to get it.Not single guy bashing as there are some charming ones out there I feel your pain

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    They can not see for jack shit because their eyes squint theb close just before they cum. Bloody vision impaired wankers. 🙄 Ms Foxy

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Couples are just as bad if not worse in my experience.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    They are usually New to the site and think that friend requests are the way to go, especially if they are a guest. Just delete and be flattered that they thought you were worthy to be a friend Then they find flirts...... Just delete and block and be feel dirty that they want to violate you without paying a cent for membership to be able to do that....... They could do it down the brothel but that would cost dollars. How special do you feel now?

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'The_Antichrist' Bottom line for me is simply this.... You or I cannot control other people’s actions no matter how much you mitigate.... Only thing you can do is choose your reaction to them... You're sounding very philosophical like Mischevous Lad?You 2 fucking?

  • bonefide

    bonefide

    7 years ago

    Vision impaired wankers, cant see where your going with that comment :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Redmustang' Single guys when they message and i politely say no keep messaging despite a polite no thanks move along.I think sometimes is easier to be rude to them to be polite as they dont seem to get it.Not single guy bashing as there are some charming ones out there I feel your pain I would opt for the former. If you have said no via message then clearly they are not for you. Block them, which may infuriate them but that would be much like an angry man shouting in an empty building.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I literally put on my profile that I was here to look around and didn’t want to be contacted (I’m still relatively new here & while I love to read & learn that’s all I want to do right now). Still the messages come, so I’m guessing they don’t read profiles, I’m also guessing from the guilt trip they deliver to try & get a response that they’re the same kind of people who post in the forums whinging that people don’t respond to them, lol. They don’t care if you’re attached, they don’t care if you say no, so ignore them. Disrespectful people aren’t worth anything more than a pitiful snear. Thankfully most people aren’t like that 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Annie... Will you stop gawking and join the fuck in ?? 😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Jeeeez Anti. Who made you so worldly and wisdominating n stuff 😄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Ffs...my fella’s getting more dick than I am 😒

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    ML.... Lol I saw it on Facebook 😂😂.

  • egr2please69

    egr2please69

    7 years ago

    And you all said Anti couldn't think for himself, who said miracles don't happen 😂😂😂

  • Howling_Izzy

    Howling_Izzy

    7 years ago

    I'm a single male and I do read profiles. There is no point in pretending to be something I am not. It's called Respect and I'm not going to waste their time, in making a fool out of myself. The women that write in length, know what they want and read it though Respect. Women who fill out some of the basic's drop boxes, well they are fair game. Age; it's left open, what the harm? If the age is not open and I'm 5 years over. I will have to meet most of the criteria, before I will message. If I get a reply and it's a Not interested. I take that for what it is and Respectful Stop. If you meet the criteria and messaged the women you want to hookup with. Get No reply's! What do you do? Give up on RHP? Do you waste the opportunity and money spent? I'm here for fun and I don't take RHP serious! Some I have messaged a dozen times, before they replied. But in saying that, they kept checking my profile and reading my messages. Are they playing hard to get? If the woman didn't kept checking my profile or reading my messages. I would never take it that far. This is just me!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I used to an active RHP member 4 years ago and recently decided to get back in the scene with my partner . Interesting to see that some things never change. I find this annoying when guys message or flirt without reading the profile of what we're looking for. But in some ways it is also helpful in weeding out the guys that we shouldn't waste our time with. If you can't be bothered reading the profile description then I'm not going to bother replying . Simples.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    How dare they take a chance or try their luck on a casual dating site. I am not interested in couples or attached guys but receive flirts and messages from them. Do I stand up from my throne and stamp my little feet in annoyance? Nope I just think that if people still find me attractive then why get frustrated about it? As someone said, you cant control other peoples actions. Deal with it and move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Yet another single male bashing. There's been plenty of them already. Plenty of people like that whether they are single male,female or couples. Just depends on who you are as to which section you are dealing with. It's topics like this that helps to tar us with the same brush.

  • wegetwet

    wegetwet

    7 years ago

    We get many message and flirts and we pretty much have said on our profile what we want and don't but just asking if people read the profilesNo single male bashing here but guess those who think this must be a little guilty.....anyway thank to those who reply to our question and sorry if this has been posted before...Quoting 'KJ1971' Yet another single male bashing. There's been plenty of them already. Plenty of people like that whether they are single male,female or couples. Just depends on who you are as to which section you are dealing with. It's topics like this that helps to tar us with the same brush.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    No guilt here wegetwet. I always read a profile fully and am always polite and respectful. Have a great Easter break 🙂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    100% of the time I read the profiles, for me they are more inportant than any pics.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I used to have on my profile that if I sent them a message then they had to reply within 2 days. Sometimes they had the nerve to draw it out for a whole week. It's like you can't just order people around or something.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    A large number of couples are at fault as well,when it comes to not fully reading a profile.

  • Letsenjoy

    Letsenjoy

    7 years ago

    Great topic ...it’s such a sad sad fact ..hey I am here for the right single guys ..but it’s just not hard ..but it seems to be for the just plain stupid sad guys who can not read ... the same ones that usually are to cheap to even pay for a membership, the same ones that don’t even have photo up or are usually to shy too? And then you get the pathetic flirt attempt ...we all get them So yer ...I say RPH set a filter to not allow these guys to be able to even send a flirt if you don’t match or have pics at least ..just wastes the time to delete and block them ..so your right they can’t read ..not a good start shall we say ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Biggest problem I've always found is that people don't even read their own profiles. Bit much to expect everyone else to do something when you can't do it yourself...