brettnLee1983

brettnLee1983

M45 F42

Single Females to join a friendly out going couple, how do we attract You and present as an appealing option.

October 29 2017

We are doing something wrong to sell ourselves and my partners lust for female company. Help us. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Safe sex - prefer not to say. I’d be going “next” just based on that. But then your profile blurb only indicates you’re after someone hot who knows what she’s doing. You aren’t doing anything to set yourselves apart from the countless other couples who are hunting for a unicorn. From my perspective, I’d see your profile, assume you’d be judging me on my looks and sexual prowess and not be at all interested in making any sort of connection with me, and I’d keep going straight past you. If you do a search on “profile tips” I’m sure you’ll find something useful, but I’d suggest including a description of what you can offer any potential single woman, not just what you’re expecting from her.

  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    8 years ago

    I’m guessing your profile took about, let’s say 5 minutes to put together? Seems like you just threw it together but still expect single women to be drawn to your profile? Don’t expect single bi women to put in all the effort. They really don’t need to. For every profile that puts little or no effort in, there’s a hundred others that take the time to attract the people they’re looking for. No effort - no women. I would suggest you start over with your profile, fill EVERY tab in and put more pictures up. Good luck 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Zarabyfar

    Zarabyfar

    8 years ago

    Your profile and this topic reads like every other guy who wrote on behalf of a couple with his own impatient and demanding agenda - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m not surprised ... Are you a playful guy or a couple ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    You wrote : “ to sell ourselves and my partners lust for female company “ Our impression (and forgive us if we are wrong) by what you wrote, is that this is all about your enjoyment and your lust for a certain commodity. About how she can satisfy your lust. And about how you can lay down the bait, to catch her and reel her in. About how you can market yourselves to land this elusive catch ? Perhaps this is where you are going wrong and therefore not having any success? What do you have to offer her? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    but you're profile is the couples equivalent of the single guy looking for a decent blow job JFK "Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country". The day your brain computes that, your life will change 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Everything here is true...good stuff folks! Jazz it up a little, open up more about both of you and if the readers asks ''What's in it for me?'' then be sure to anticipate the question and try to give a few answers in advance. Best of luck and happy hunting..... CM

  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    8 years ago

    And just to add your age bracket preference will make it harder and the fact that you are both smokers will definitely hinder you somewhat. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Swipe left on your profile - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    Is the tag line on your profile.... "I'm just a no bullshit, playful GUY" (capitals are mine for emphasis). If I was a GIRL (once again, my use of capitals when quoting from your profile, for emphasis) who met your criteria I would immediately close your profile and never bother looking at it again. Why....well the posts before mine point out the bleeding obvious; combine that with the evidence it is written by a man, and perhaps for a single man??, and you have the answer.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Agree with everyone profile is not attractive - Posted from rhpmobile

  • brettnLee1983

    brettnLee1983

    8 years ago

    Great thankyou everyone your feedback has been priceless. This time we will present ourselves the way we really are. No pretending to be something we’re not. Cheers B&L - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I am no expert and certainly not in your target market, but can I make a suggestion, get Lee (assuming Lee is the female in BrettnLee) to write the profile. Its very "blokey" and sounds like something I would write. Grab a bottle of wine and put some time into it. We are all in this life of we want everything now but are not prepared to put the effort in. Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    had a read of your profile again, think you've updated it? Ugh You have to enjoy giving pleasure. If you do, there's no hint of that in your profile so how would we know. People who genuinely give and get off giving, want to tell you that. They're passionate about it, I am, it's not some concocted wannabe story in my profile, it's me, I wear my heart on my sleeve. Arousal escalates during early roleplay communication, then prior to the physical meet, then the act itself. It's anticipation that does it for me. You might assume anticipation of what he's going to do for me?Wrong! Anticipating what I'll be doing to him, takes my breath away and it's what I fantasise about when I masturbate. It was never like that for me once, not that intense. The general phrase used here on the forum is 'What are you going to bring to the table?' I think you've ordered in and she'll be the delivery girl who will provide the fun upon her arrival 😉 Where is your heart? I don't see any heart in your profile or anything that would suggest you are interested in both of us coming away satisfied (or all 3 if indeed there is a wifey or bare minimum one who knows you have a couples profile on here that includes her). You say you want hot girls who know what they are doing and know how to play well? Oh you do, do you? btw that was in your 'about me' section where you should be talking about yourselves and yep 'what you bring to the table' 😉 You need to give it heart, let 'er rip, women want plenty of heart even for casual sex. If I sound cranky, I am. I'm so over self serving men. What bloody century are we in again? If the effort you put into lovemaking and connecting is the same as the 'lack of' effort you've put into your profile, not much for us to look forward to is there? Us being 'someone fun' as per your request. Anything else we can do for you, get you your slippers and pipe? 😯

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Shit that's epic 😀

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    followed by a double post 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Everyone is on point. Spend more time on your profile. Would you buy a car that simply said "goes good, want money" or one that tells you the engine and comfort levels? - Posted from rhpmobile