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Shy rooters....
January 14 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am definilely a shy rooter. . Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm with you Stalky (yeah yeah I know huge surprise)..I am a definate exhibitionist..am happy to submerge myself in the sexual contact and atmosphere...to be honest while I love to talk about what is happening around me and what I am experiencing start talking to me abour your kids or car and you have lost me..I will get up and walk away..if I am attending functions such as these I want to be having fun not getting to know your life story.. . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
it would almost be like being a part of a performance art exhibit. having people watching and commenting and enjoying whats going on would add to the sum total of pleasure being derived by the act, and that produces positive energy that all involved would be able to feed on, which would in turn make that encounter unique, a brand of pleasure that cant be found anywhere else. i dont think being spoken to by the viewers would be that great though. the distraction might interupt the energy source and make things awkward. i have to say im not speaking from experience, but having given it a bit of thought, i wouldnt be averse to going there one day. see if its anything like ive imagined.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'theone1983' ii dont think being spoken to by the viewers would be that great though. the distraction might interupt the energy source and make things awkward. As focus suggested it's the mundane conversations that some people watching try to have with you while you're fucking, that can really put a damper on the moment... otherwise it doesn't bother me.. and I've heard rules in BDSM for instance "never talk to the slave" while they're all racked up.... and I can understand why that is pretty standard etiquette. HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
So Stalky will you be giving marks out of 10? .xxxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Who me? We'll have to work out a consistent scoring system though... you know break it down into categories with weighted scores for the manouvre's degree of difficulty.... or maybe just a global score given that my hands will be tied behind my back. :p.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Loud/active types require quiet/observant types to be be at the receiving end of their character type Quiet/oberving types require the loud/active types to dwell in their character type. They are a function of each other, without which there would be no contrast in personality. Everyone the same would tend toward a mediocre, not so memorable experience. If you're on the field playing you have effect on the game. If you spectate in the stands, you have very little effect on the game. Depends what effect you desire, if any.
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RHP User
15 years ago
That's right Tonyerotic - dontcha know, it is the shy & quiet ones you have to watch out for. Cause they may just surprise you. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm happy for people to watch especially if I don't know they're watching then catch a glimpse of them.... that's a big turn on ! I'm happy for people to offer comments / suggestions sometimes as long as they're not disgusting BUT I'm far too insecure to handle people discussing my "performance" while I'm doing it ! Me... insecure ? You bet ! Exhibitionist on the outside, pussy cat on the inside. xx Miss Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am the type that will go see a movie and when asked what i thought of the sound track........stare blankly trying to remember where there was music playing ..........I tend to submerge in the moment....(s)........... But I do love dirty talk......maybe just tap me on the shoulder to make sure Im paying attention first LOL As for a room full of ppl.......difficult to tell when wearing a blindfold..........................
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RHP User
15 years ago
Can't say that I am much into crowds...and a lot of times they don't really know where they are going and it might not be where I want to end up. | I enjoy a good drink but not being around others that are off their feet...and designer or boutique' drugs leave me stone cold. Not saying that every group grope is like that...I just don't like the unpredictable variables.| Every single personality test I have ever taken says the same thing...I am a "dominant intimate emotive expressive" which means I do my best work one on one...and don't like unplanned unpredictable chaos. I would rather find my own way to mayhem with a very small crowd...sometimes two is all the crowd you need. Another quote I like..."The man who follows the crowd will usually get no further than the crowd. The man who walks alone is likely to find himself in places no one has." I like exploring the options of intimacy. | Now being incidentally watched by a complete stranger...that's a different story. Not too many months ago I was travelling and we had forgotten to pull the curtains...only the lace shade covered the window to the balcony off the bedroom. Directly across the courtyard it was evident that a couple were indeed watching the show...so what do you do? Light a couple of candles in the corner of the room, shut off the lights and whisper..."Let's let them watch the shadows dance". I hope they enjoyed the show...we enjoyed putting it on for them and going all out.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I do like to let out the inner exhibitionist. We do it often, on cam or at CI. I don't like being directed and I don't like putting on the show purely for the audience. I am there for Andy and I, anyone is welcome to watch. Usually when we are at CI I wont even be fully aware of who or how many people are watching until we stop, I sit up and look around.....I get a kick out of it but then I get all shy againxx Salina
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RHP User
15 years ago
The first time in a crowd for me i was so shy i couldn't perform even if i wanted too, if u know what i mean...now its not a probelem..like many, i'm an exhibitionist and happy to strut my stuff in a crowd. I guess for me, once i got used to it all i was ok with it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
the 'functions' we go to are generally black tie affairs. usually with public names and faces. cant see anyone being naked with the media so visible. lol. dont do sex parties in any case so have little to contribute here.....oh well. lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now let me think ?? Play with others ..tick Play in front of others ..tick play one on one ..tick sexy talk and carry on ..tick sex and talking about the day ?? Naaaaah..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ok i have to find a bunch of naughty people fucking so i can watch and figure out if i could join in the fun...its just a little bit taxing when you think about it....all those bodies, all those opinions and the safety issues....sheesh but god it sounds like fun... oh yes and muisc or the tv should be playing....can't have a bunch of people moaning and groaning without a soundtrack!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I am definilely a shy rooter. . Meeka Just found this thread....I am getting a little better in these situations. Well sort of. Although I don't tend to here people in the back ground talking usually. M
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RHP User
14 years ago
have done outdoor before in a suburban park when it was fairly quiet during the week and on the rocks. so am i a shy rooter?
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's funny I've never really heard people talking in the background much at group things I've been to. (meaning in a whispering way) Ok there were a couple of times when young guys were joking around out of nerves lol but the ones I go to tend to be quiet unless you're participating , it seems like if you are fucking however then you've got a license to chat away or make comments , suggestions or noises (of course). Sometimes the only sounds are the sex and the sex on the porno playing. But there is alot of sort of positive quipping that goes on encouraging the different parties , funny stuff or making light of mistakes etc and alot of sort of 'well done' pat on the back type of stuff too lol sometimes people will talk like that in the background but they are intentionally speaking loudly enough so that you can hear them , yeah that sort of background chatter is good , well I find it good for mood etc and I've noticed alot of people both veterans and newcummers appreciate it. Tends to be alot of laughs actually and smiley faces in between the 'I'm cumming' faces and the 'fuck me harder you arsehole' faces. Personally I was very shy at first at group stuff and any talk in the background did disturb me , it was hard-to-get-hard at the first couple I went to , well for the first few naked minutes anyway , and any distraction even if complimentary would have been a problem perhaps. Gradually gradually tho I've gone from being very shy to taking center stage more and more , and if I keep going to these things (once I know the regulars at each venue) then I might largely become like a leader and organizer as well as being a jokester and performer. I should mention again that I think it's really useful for a number of reasons if watchers make horny comments or suggestions to each other but so that the performers can hear. But there's an art to that , I have seen a bloke yap on for ages starting 'on topic' about the sex but then going off on a tangent -everyone was just wishing he would just shut the fuck up , a few people told him just that later on in a half-joking way lol I think also if people are talking about you and you can't hear what they're saying then it's all about their body language and facial expression ; if that's all positive and they look turned on and/or genuine appreciative then yeah for me that brings out the exhibitionist side and actually helps kill the stage-fright , bit like when a big performer is shitting himself before going on stage but as soon as he gets up there he turns into a star -particularly upon hearing the crowd roaring lol -usually if there's alot of background chat about 'gee he's fucking her really hard n fast' or 'what a massive load' then that revs me up big time. Fucking hell I'm really talking myself up again aren't I???? LOL. But anyway yep talk away I reckon , at the end of the day it's all about being nice to people -just like any other social event in essence. Um yeah how to talk in the background at a BDSM thing is a whole other thing and I think I've raved on way too much already anyway.... ....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I doubt it.I talk,I listen,I enjoy the moment. I love to hear how others experience the moment.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'SalAndy' I do like to let out the inner exhibitionist. We do it often, on cam or at CI. I don't like being directed and I don't like putting on the show purely for the audience. I am there for Andy and I, anyone is welcome to watch. Usually when we are at CI I wont even be fully aware of who or how many people are watching until we stop, I sit up and look around.....I get a kick out of it but then I get all shy againMust admit Salina last time i saw you at CI you didnt seem shy at the time!Was certainly lovely to see.xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
Always happy to put on a show when I have some subbie boy restrained on my cross. I have even done a few demonstrations for those wanting to learn the basics of flogging and I am happy to teach and advise. But as for sex in front of others......no!
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RHP User
14 years ago
MistressT I don't need flogging lessons. Just ask Stalky. That is a joke btw I have never seriously flogged anyone. ړײ
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RHP User
14 years ago
In the moment its good fun. As long as there arent weirdos tossing off.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BINGOWOW' In the moment its good fun. As long as there arent weirdos tossing off. But there are always some weirdos tossing off! They even sometimes get annoyed that they can't go next. I admit I love saying no, you know, do the shy girl act. :P
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RHP User
14 years ago
I long for this !I enjoy a crowd, men talking, whispering, wanking etc. I am not shy at all and wish more people were the same ! I would be perfectly suited to a complete voyeur, as I am an extreme exhibitionist. feel free to sit, chat and watch me anytime Stalky :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
...as shy and bashful as I am, I can't say that the thought of wandeirng around in a room full sex crazed manics on a Cialis overdose has much appeal. | If I was going to do group anything...I would just as soon set up the Nikon and film the first few hours, then play it back on the big screen and go all over again with the person on the screen. | You know...self improvement, check your homework and all that jazz. Besides if I happen to drop my wallet, I now live in morbid fear of a short woman sneaking up behind me... | ...with revenge on her mind.
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
I'm shy, she is less so. I'd like to be less shy, but there is a threshold number of viewers. Feedback would kill it for me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' I'm with you Stalky (yeah yeah I know huge surprise)..I am a definate exhibitionist..am happy to submerge myself in the sexual contact and atmosphere...to be honest while I love to talk about what is happening around me and what I am experiencing start talking to me abour your kids or car and you have lost me..I will get up and walk away..if I am attending functions such as these I want to be having fun not getting to know your life story.. . Kisses Focus there should be more "ladies" like you focus...kissesMrNA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ...as shy and bashful as I am, I can't say that the thought of wandeirng around in a room full sex crazed manics on a Cialis overdose has much appeal. |what about in the voyeurs room they have at some swingers clubs? would you do a girl knowing that there is someone peeking through the window watching (and most likely having a bat )last time we went to a club, we did it on a big open bed/couch thing and there was a couple of guys standing there watching and tossing... i thought it was cool... the (ex)mrs pretended they weren't there...;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hell yes, getting "caught" is good fun and more so if you plan it...but why go to a club? Some of the inner city luxury hotels are so packed together that half the fun of going there is knowing that you can turn out the light, leave the curtains pulled back and have a candle burning somewhere in the room You can almost hear the knobs and snobs tossing curve at the window they are not watching out of from across the street so discreetly. | Quoting 'noangelsplz' I thought it was cool... the (ex)mrs pretended they weren't there...;)I always ask for a corner suite with a 270 degree view....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Definitely one for putting on a show, have done so on CI and webcam and enjoyed every minute
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ..| You know...self improvement, check your homework and all that jazz. Besides if I happen to drop my wallet, I now live in morbid fear of a short woman sneaking up behind me... | Who will grab that wallet and run like hell on her little stilettos.. catch me if you can old man :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know, my affinity for the ropes started way back when...and to this day I can catch a young-un' coming out of the shoot at the bell and in under 8 seconds have that little thing on her back, three legs whipped together with a leather strap and it's little tail just waggin' in the air. | Quoting 'Meeka100' Who will grab that wallet and run like hell on her little stilettos.. catch me if you can old man :) | Reminds of that band Little Feat....the song you'll be singing is "Feets Don't Fail Me Now". I'll aim for the 9" stiletto heels...jearzus, that's a long way for a little filly to fall. Oh well, no mercy with the cattle prod and the free leg... | ...is for dragging you back to the corral. | | Leather and silk and a prodding probe...come on, ya know ya wanna.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think I'm a shy rooter!!!! Now I love a bit of exhibitionism and I have no problems with performing in a crowded room of naked people but I have some to the realisation that I really do much prefer the intimacy of smaller interactions. For me less is definitely more.I think what CM first posted sums up me to a T too.Oh and that's not literal Stalky (subject heading)
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